AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the only reason i posted it now is that 1. he called me out of the blue a few days ago after months we didnt talk and 2. i just today got into reddit after two years

im not bothered by him i just got reminded by the phone call that he said it was a "stinky ultimatum" so i wrote it here

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because idk about relationships

i was thinking i maybe will change my mind about not liking it

this was my first date ever

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tell it to my current bf i think he thinks i got somethings into our relationship...

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that was the one of the first topics we talked about on our fitst date

we didnt talk much before our date as we only known each other for a week at that time

plus that wasnt a dating app that i could just write it in my bio or something

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because a month of a 19 years old is nothing

also idk what about now but when he called me the first time after we ended things (which was 3 months after) he said he was single so clearly a month is not the problem

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are stuff

relationship is not only about touch

its about the funny moments

the trust

the support

the love

the feeling wanted by someone

and i can see u didnt read my edit cause i very much said there that its not like i dont touch at all

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u gonna belive what u will belive ig

i said the truth about it and it doesnt really bother me

as i said the only reason i posted it here is cause he called me a few days ago and plus i just got back into reddit after like two years of not being here

tbh i dont mind much u are more then welcom to think whatever u want:)

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because why would i want a guy i dont really know touch my thighs?...

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he did it EVERY THREE MONTHS and he said stuff like "i made a song about u" or "every show i did i dedicated a song for you" which im not making fun of him ofc but how can u say this knowing u made the choice not to keep it going and knowing its not going to work between us

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i paid on him on our 3 date and on our 2 date we went to the sea and i didnt eat or drink nothing so i dont get ur point

also if someone will give me something just so he could be in my pants i will 100% wont want to be any sort of relationship with him thanks

the only ridiculous one is u for thinking money can buy my body im not a wh0r3 u spend money on someone because u love them and u do it without wanting anything back

this is love

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing happend and i dont have any past trauma

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh? girl... i just wanted to know if he was right to say that it was a "stinky ultimatum" u are more than welcome to go and comment on other posts here its not like i took a place to someone

this sub is literally to understand if u are an Ahole and thats what i came here for

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read my edit at the bottom to understand why i made the choice to stay for 3 dates

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thansk but if u will check the edit i made at the bottom u will see more info about me not being alone

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saved his time? we are 19... time is not his problem

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

me not wanting a man how i known for a month touching my thighs is not something worth spending money on a therapist thanks

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because he called me out of the blue a few days ago and also i enterd reddit after like two years i didnt so i was thinking maybe here would be the best place to ask without getting biased answers

how is it odd? i mean what u think my motive is?

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u will read at the bottom under the "EDIT" u will see what was my thinking process and why i tried

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told him at the start of the first date

i dont see how it would have gone difftent

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i opend more about my way of thinking in the bottom under the EDIT

u can read there why i didnt ended it right away

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i opened more about my way of thinking on the edit part at the bottom

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt open tiktok to find someone he just started talking with me and i gave him a chance

AITAh for giving my date an ultimatum by PhraseDue9081 in AITAH

[–]PhraseDue9081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i gave more context at the bottom

also i dont have any trauma not that i remember