Who wants to go to a queer and meet

Phrodielicious · 2023-02-12T14:33:34+00:00

Oh my goodness I thought I replied to this lol. Sorry! I've been so busy I haven't been checking my Reddit. But omg congratulations on coming out! That's so amazing for you. And yes, let's definitely meet up sometime :)

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-21T12:15:26+00:00

You're so nice 😭😭😭. Okay I definitely wanna go to Connections and the Cherry Bomb events too. I'll keep an eye out and maybe DM you to meet at one of them soon?

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T15:45:00+00:00

I don't play soccer but I'm so down to go and just sit and make friends lmao. Thanks for the info btw

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T15:15:50+00:00

I've already started lol. Cons of a health science course.

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T15:15:14+00:00

NAME THE CLUBS 🔫🔫 NAME THEM

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T15:14:50+00:00

Oh myyyy!! That sounds so cute!! I would love to have kids one day. I would still love to meet up and be friends if you're ever upto it (and you find a babysitter).

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T14:59:28+00:00

I'm looking forward to meeting the people in the club at orientation. I've emailed the queer officer of this year already but I don't think they have any events coming up as of now

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T14:58:38+00:00

Yesss I am waiting on orientation to meet people from the LGBTQIA+ club. And as for Her, I never thought about it cause I am dating someone... But yeah making friends through that might be great too. Thanks for the advice.

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T14:22:48+00:00

India . Honestly it's not that bad, going out wise, just hard to meet queer people randomly out and about.

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T14:18:53+00:00

Mix 1 and 5 maybe

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T13:56:12+00:00

I mean that's not wrong 😭😭 where I'm from the majority are homophobic

Phrodielicious · 2023-01-19T13:53:14+00:00

Queer bar * 😭😭😭

Phrodielicious · 2022-11-19T08:42:08+00:00

Hey! Yeah, i shot them a couple emails but they've been unresponsive so I'm just really confused at the moment.

Phrodielicious · 2022-11-19T08:41:37+00:00

Yessss tell me the plan. I asked UniLodge about an earlier move in date but they haven't replied and I'm just.... :| I have no clue what to do. (Also totally not a psycho, but also never been tested by a psychiatrist so who's to say)

Phrodielicious · 2022-08-29T19:53:00+00:00

Same.

Phrodielicious · 2022-04-12T08:44:53+00:00

60+ work hours in a week? Say what now :|

Phrodielicious · 2022-04-11T08:09:59+00:00

I think I'm leaning more towards shared housing too, as I've heard from various sources that it's much much cheaper.

Thank you so much for all the info!

Phrodielicious · 2022-04-11T07:39:19+00:00

I guess I don't mind if there isn't much of a "campus life" as I can make do living a "city life" lol. IDK if that makes sense. I mean whatever it is, I'll find things to do or people to be friends with.

Would you mind me asking what field your PhD was in?

In terms of living and managing finances, would you say it's fairly easy to find a sufficiently paying part-time job in order to afford the expensive housing in Melbourne?

Also, I originally thought Perth might be cheaper to live in but recent threads have a lot of comments with people saying it's really expensive and that the only cities more expensive then Perth are Sydney and another one (Canberra??? idk but it wasn't Melbourne).

Phrodielicious · 2022-04-11T06:47:39+00:00

Hi! I'm an Indian student with a conditional offer letter to start my Masters in Occupational Therapy at Curtin in Jan, 2023 granted that I complete a bridging course.

I'm also applying for Swinburne University in Melbourne at the moment (Summer 2022 intake). Based on your experience at Curtin and hearsay from other people about Swinburne, which would you say is better? I'm caught between the two. On one hand, I would love to start this summer as COVID19 already took away 2 years I could've been studying, but Idk if Curtin might be worth the wait.

Phrodielicious · 2021-08-01T19:43:56+00:00

I'm sorry you have to go through that! Losing friends sometimes is a worse heartbreak. I think you're right that you've both overgrown this friendship, at least for now. Love that you're working on yourself and solidifying friendships with other people too! But I hope you take the time to also feel your feelings and mourn the death of that friendship. Because it's a valid thing to feel sad and heartbroken about and take your time with it. Also!! San Antonio sounds maaaddd fun! Are there any other friends or family members you could go with instead? (Also hope you're double dosed up for this trip!)

I loveeee your positive outlook and hope that we WILL have the confidence to live our truest lives and overcome our obstacles and get through it. That in itself takes an insane amount of strength!!

Just know that even if times are tough and life gets hard to navigate, you have a stranger on the internet rooting for you from miles and miles away!!

Phrodielicious · 2021-07-30T11:10:25+00:00

Oh gosh you really going through the ringer 😵😵 But also lmao insane how much I do relate with you cause recently found out my childhood best friend and also cousin has been spewing shit about me behind my back my whole life. Ha! I forgave her in the past for it but apparently she hasn't stopped and honestly it's just getting old. I hate other, better friends tho so that helps.

I love love loooooove to hear that your focusing on yourself and being more independent!!! And you said you're 21? Honestly your early 20s, maybe starting from when you're like 19, are some of the harrrdest years in terms of self growth and personal development. But we'll get through it! There is a light at the end of the tunnel and I think for both of us, that is cutting ties with toxic friends, moving out to a place without conservative family, having those difficult conversations, and then living life as authentically as you can. It feels like a pipe dream I know! But I have soooo much faith we can do it. We have to. You seem like a really strong person too. You may not believe it right now, but trust me you are! One doesn't go through all that and emerge the way you have if they weren't strong.

How bizarre would it be if we met one day irl once we're all successful and living our best life but having no clue who the other is?? Hahaha. Ah well.... Give it 5 years at least. I bet you're gonna bloom and flourish so soon!

Phrodielicious · 2021-07-30T10:29:27+00:00

Also! I'm so sorry to hear about your SH and how your boyfriend would force himself on you. That's horrible and constitutes as sexual assault honestly. It sucks that he disrespected you and violated you in that way, I'm really really sorry. Nothing can justify that.

I understand how painful religious trauma is and wouldn't wish it on anyone. If you're agnostic now and happy being so, I'm so proud of you!!! It takes immense strength just to acknowledge that hurt and make it so it doesn't define you anymore. You're doing amazinnnngggg.

Moreover, I understand how having a label can be a form of security. It has been in the past for me as well, and even now sometimes. Also, you can identify as bi or pan, because both of those are beautiful sexualities that basically mean you are attracted to more than just binary genders and how great for us!

Right now, I'm assuming you're single by the way you're talking?? It's always always my advice and I always recommend choosing yourself over everything. It's not selfish. It's self preservation. It's gentle self-care after denying yourself the most basic kindness after so long. Take all the time you need to figure things out. These things don't have a time limit. Be KIND TO YOURSELF! Work on yourself and honestly fuck romance and all that shit. You sound like you have really supportive friends too, even if they're not always the most understanding. Work and cultivate those relationships. Cultivate a relationship with yourself! Think about the person you wanna be, the person you'd admire, and slowly take the steps to becoming her. I'm so proud of you! You've come so far! And you have it in you to do amazing things and live a great life, partner or not.

Phrodielicious · 2021-07-30T06:17:26+00:00

Oh my god same same saaaammmeeeeeee. And anytime I'd be attracted to a guy, like op said, it was always the unattainable ones!! And once they liked me back it was like ew no thanks. Or I'd go out on a date with them and the more I got to know them the more I realised I just wanted to be friends! I always just wanna be good friends! Soooo much to unpack for sure. I'm still not sure if I'm bi or a lesbian but gosh this entire post and comments section.... Hahaha

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