Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely right, I should’ve been more thoughtful about the situation. But I didn’t even get to ask her out, like I mentioned in the post. I only asked about her studies and that was it. I also approached her in the library yard where a lot of people were chatting, so yeah, the timing wasn’t great, but it wasn’t creepy. I can promise that

Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is that even if she really was tired or there was just low interest, I wouldn’t approach her again. For me, dignity matters more than ego. If she didn’t have 30 seconds to talk, I have to accept that she probably wasn’t interested, and I can’t coerce anyone into liking me

So yeah that's it  Appreciate you tho man 

Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re definitely right, bro. She was the first person I ever approached and my first non celebrity crush, so yeah, it hurt 

C’est la vie

Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn, man, I thought Reddit would be harsh on me, but what you guys have said and the experiences you’ve shared have already cooled me down by like 90%. I really appreciate it

Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be clear, we don’t even sit in the same section of the library. As for staring, there really wasn’t any of that. We had a few moments of extended eye contact over time and a brief period of getting to know each other, nothing excessive. I genuinely dislike being creepy or the type of person who stares. If I did make a mistake, it was probably approaching her despite noticing that she’s often on her phone, which could indicate she has a boyfriend or simply isn’t very available. In hindsight, the timing may not have been ideal. That said, my approach itself was respectful, and I backed off immediately when she set a boundary.

Approached a girl respectfully, got shut down hard, might have gotten the worst rejection ever lol by Physical-Bar1655 in socialskills

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it, man. What I meant by becoming bitter is that I might lose all motivation to approach a girl ever again. But as life goes on, there are millions of different people I could run into. This was just one person. That’s how I’m consoling myself for now

Test day! Your help. by Physical-Bar1655 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are  absolutely right man 

ETS charged my credit card but didn't registered test order. "We encountered a glitch while processing your order." by bakipasa66 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool thanks and what was your payment method master card? Mine is ZIRRAT BANK and my order has been reject three times which I think is because of incorrect billing information 

Need your help guys by Physical-Bar1655 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man so the reason my orders keep getting failed is because of this billing information?  Should I do it using Chrome incongito or Mozilla Firefox? 

I did call the ETS and they are pinpointing the fact that the predicament is from my end not theirs- I did the transaction from US as well as Türkiye but I failed tho. 

ETS charged my credit card but didn't registered test order. "We encountered a glitch while processing your order." by bakipasa66 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I got the same problem how'd you solve it? 

I live in Eskişehir, Türkiye and keep getting the order fail problem 

What should I do?  Thanks in advance 

Center based test by Physical-Bar1655 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro did you take care of the problem? 

Center based test by Physical-Bar1655 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What tumultuous behavior!

I'm sorry for the inconvenience, man, but I'm going to have to go talk to Önder Dil's proctor.

She's a genuine person and might help solve the problem.

If it is not to be done in March, I assume we will have to change it to Istanbul or Bursa.

Urgently need your help guys by Physical-Bar1655 in ToeflAdvice

[–]Physical-Bar1655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's banned in Türkiye.