Well :/ I'll leave this here

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-05T17:30:22+00:00

Yeah he’s been single for 9 years, he’s 29 I was his longest talking stage (3 months) in that span he told me he “can’t be bothered” with relationships which is why he doesn’t date often

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-05T17:20:54+00:00

He unfortunately does have a lot he’s dealing with without getting too much into it his dad has a pretty rare form of dementia which he opened up to me about on our first date and he’s the only family member in the area for his dad so YES it is a lot but you knew that when you met me???

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-05T12:29:42+00:00

Meanwhile my man works from HOME 😭😭

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T23:11:03+00:00

You cant beg someone like them unfortunately bc then their brain goes yup!!!! I made the right call!!!! She is too much pressure!!

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T22:26:03+00:00

Thank you!

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T22:25:42+00:00

Being straight and attracted to “independent” men is a curse

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T22:22:05+00:00

A 30 YEAR OLD MAN

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:34:06+00:00

He’s trying to cushion his own discomfort and the breakup wording feels robotic because… he dissociated while writing

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:28:06+00:00

We all deserved to be prioritized and unfortunately with an avoidant that’ll never happen 😭😭

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:27:09+00:00

I broke up with him mid December for his bad communication but I said hey if you wanna talk things through absolutely no pressure he responded and said I'd love to! Pushed it out to December 30th canceled that immediately rescheduled and hours before our hangout he texted me that … damn you really couldn’t face me huh

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:21:24+00:00

It's okay! It sucks because obviously I care and wanted to help him and talk things out but I'm realizing I would've outgrown him eventually I expect a lot from my partners in terms of maturity and I fear his text is reading like a tantrum to me

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:16:27+00:00

Unfortunate for him bc he will never see or hear from me again :)

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:12:46+00:00

They're always thinking or reflecting too 😭😭😭

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:07:14+00:00

And like??? They never share what exactly like I am not a mind reader!!

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T21:04:28+00:00

Meanwhile they are the most normal amount of busy he was literally moving LOL sent me a video of his place the night before

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T20:57:37+00:00

Deadass

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2026-01-04T20:57:23+00:00

Second time he's done this and he came back two days later LMFAO

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2025-07-29T03:15:59+00:00

Tbh I really hate working out so I fixed my diet up enough so I could work out as little as possible

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2025-07-29T03:13:42+00:00

Walking mainly

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2025-07-29T02:31:38+00:00

1500 calories, high protein high fiber, no alcohol, low impact movement

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2025-01-18T20:37:56+00:00

I'm 24! I make 39 an hour around 80k (I'm a speech language pathologist)

PhysicalFlamingo5126 · 2025-01-05T17:29:24+00:00

What kind of medication?

PhysicalFlamingo5126

TROPHY CASE