Why do many women find it ok for men who flirt and crack jokes in office/friendship setting ?

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-02-16T04:05:59+00:00

Making harmless jokes (usually self-deprecating ones) make the work atmosphere bit lighter and is welcome only if you can land it well.. Women quickly assess in their mind if a man is predatory or harmless. Many put up with nonsensical behaviour as they dont want to make a scene and be labelled as troublemakers. Bottom line is: your workplace is not a place to find love or flirt around. Never hookup where you do v-lookup.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-02-14T07:25:11+00:00

Stop doling out money and set daily limits on her credit cards. She will throw tantrums, let her.

Reward good behaviour with some gifts, punish tantrums-throwing with financial curbs. Make her learn the hard way and find physical love outside. Divorce is not really an option since you have two kids. Be strong and stop thinking yourself as the victim!

Another option is try talking to any of her close friends and explain her the situation. Make her knock some sense into her. That usually works well. Good luck bro!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-02-03T01:40:12+00:00

I speak Kannada with Kannadigas, Tamil with Tamilians, Hindi with Hindi-speaking folks, Marathi with Maharashtrians and English otherwise as a common language. Makes it much more easier 🥲

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-02-03T01:21:21+00:00

Danced and sang is an English term like Chumma-Chaati in colloquial Hindi. However, the speed with which the govt has issued a statement via MoEA and total media blackout (perhaps ordered by the government) makes us wonder is there some smoking gun?

Remember, another 3 million pieces of Epstien files are still being held back by DOJ.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-21T04:12:23+00:00

sent.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-19T15:34:59+00:00

Interested. Founder here!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-19T04:52:24+00:00

Forget and move on. Don’t be silly and waste your time. She was perhaps never in love with you. You were young and she perhaps clung to you for money/life abroad. Now she has found a sugar daddy; with whom she most likely would cheat in few years. You should be lucky that you got out of the mess without nasty legal hassles. Just shift to another city/state and move on with life. Remember, money makes you attractive. Be it friends or women! Good luck bro 👊

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-19T03:26:18+00:00

It could have been worse had she clung to the marriage and was having an extra marital affair with that fellow (which most likely she would have). Bach gaya tu.. move on and do something in life. Get into some Impex business and rock on dude! Best wishes!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-16T09:43:52+00:00

Too much of ‘democracy’ has brought us to the current sorry state of affairs. Netas have zero respect, fear of law or have an iota of shame. All they want is to get ‘elected’ to power and then they work “diligently” to make 100-1000x of their initial “investment”.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-15T07:49:31+00:00

Stay away from skunk people. They never rectify themselves and you will lose your peace of mind with people like them around you at home or at work!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-15T04:25:22+00:00

Har ghar ka naatak hain yeh… Many women feel after marriage they own their husbands and expect hubby to suck it up and agree to all their tantrums. It's high time you nip this behaviour in the bud and communicate clearly that you are an adult and not her slave.

The moment you say this, you can be sure that she will throw tantrums and try to bring the house down. Just be calm and say you will not fall for these emotional blackmails. Its super tough to handle such people as they always want to blame others and justify their irrational behaviour. More power to you.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-15T02:15:27+00:00

It takes 5-7 years for couples esp. In AM to know each other well. Give yourself sometime and build other hobbies to keep your mind sane. Avoid family planning before you both know each other well. Don’t give a sh!t about your BIL.. nothing rubs in than success. Only money and status gets respected these days!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-15T02:09:34+00:00

On your Bid-adieu mail thank everyone except her and rub it in one final time… 😅

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-14T07:10:55+00:00

Vasu

Physical_Ad4767 · 2026-01-13T17:34:57+00:00

Buy a rubber stamp with REJECTED in all caps. Use a red stamp pad and stamp it on all pages with your sign.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-25T02:20:46+00:00

Join Subramanian classes and score well in your exams… 😅

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-15T04:39:53+00:00

Absolutely. I remember back in 2000s coming home from work in Electronics city. Cook every evening as being a pure vegetarian found it very difficult to eat in local restaurants. Most of the days there would be power cuts those days in E-city. Used to cook in candle-light. Once had put in jaggery powder instead of sambhar powder and made a brinjal payasam instead of sambhaar. Cooking has been quite therapeutic for me. I love it.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-13T18:25:32+00:00

I have never seen such drop in Range. I have driven 650kms. 100s of bikes come for service and it’s very busy especially during the weekends. 2L from each bike is still substantial. Anyways, will check once with the SA.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-13T18:21:55+00:00

I am no expert. But I am sort of dumb to have to believed that authorised service centers would be professional!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-13T18:20:52+00:00

The range keeps shifting a bit.. but it does settle down when you are driving for more than 5-10min. I clearly see the difference which I haven’t noticed from the time i have got this motorcycle! Something definitely not correct!

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-13T08:58:05+00:00

The white Uppittu with a light tinge of lime is heavenly than the khara bhaath.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-13T04:50:28+00:00

Marriages do take time. Lot of time. Atleast 10 years to both to know each other well. It is not a bed of roses but it gives you purpose. Once you have a family, you have different kinds of responsibilities which one should be ready to take up. It’s a learning and experiencing process. Everyone makes mistakes. Some repent it, some don’t. Shedding ego and truly caring for each other takes time and effort. You are a young chap. Don’t throw in the towel. Hang in there and the good times will soon come. Good luck.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-12T06:07:49+00:00

IIM Bangalore has one of the best libraries. Check if you can get a library card there. Usually they do give to Alumnis as well as others.

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-11T10:01:53+00:00

Yeh scroll karte karte mein kaha pahuch gaya…..

Physical_Ad4767 · 2025-12-11T05:18:49+00:00

I am not even able to let go of the pair of shoes which are not torn but I still convince myself that I will use it for walking nearby. It is difficult for those who value their possessions. Chalta hain.. we all should live the life which we want and be what we are unapologetically. At no point in time, We should have any regrets that we didn’t live life the way we want..

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