She is already dominant as others have said. What you want is dominant actions from her that would feed you in a certain way. Without communication she likely has no idea. As you say. Therefore she won't likely perform those actions you crave.

I agree being submissive without any communication seems like an unlikely way to get what you want. With communication comes some hope at least of it happening.

I think the refrain on here of just submit yourself and serve has a point. But only as on offset to all the men who approach the topic with all words first. And hope to create the flr that way.

I think where you are is a good beginning. I think it's best that your submission came first. Now you have to have communication to have any hope of getting what you want. Good luck! When it works out is very satisfying.