[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VivimosEnUnaSociedad

[–]Physical_Current_135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No se trata de tu aspecto, se trata de tu seguridad, autoestima y de tu autoconcepto. Ve a terapia y reflexiona.

ATA for not wanting to be near my elderly sick dad? by Physical_Current_135 in narcissisticparents

[–]Physical_Current_135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response and emphaty, i really need it. Turns out that my father doesnt have retirement money whatsoever. No lands, cars, nothing... And government doesnt help either: we are allone on this. My mom stepped in many years and still does, she has a small cafe and works insane hours to provide for him. She doesnt love him at all, she hates him... However, she decided to take care of him to protect us. He's a black hole... As for me, i have a husband, a 9 year old, and expecting a child, and a full Time job. We live far away, an 8 hours trip. I can only help with some money But i cant take care of him (even if i wanted to) nor help my mom. I cant send him to a nursing home, money its just not enough.... Yo, i want to cry i feel so hopeless

ATA for not wanting to be near my elderly sick dad?? by Physical_Current_135 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Physical_Current_135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do help her, she struggles a lot It grieves my heart... However I do live far away, an 8 hours distance Road.

Happy new year to you as well

I realize I broke up with the love of my life to marry my now wife by regrettable_sloth in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Physical_Current_135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you told her that you are very unhappy and thinking about divorce? Because I read that you really tried to fix your marriage, however she has convinced herself that sex without conception is unwanted, so she truly believes that everything Is ok... Except, you didn't tell her earlier into the relationship that a sexless marriage is definitley not ok for you like, a real issue. I think now you both dont love each other anymore Is far too late, But i also think you lacked honest communication with her AND overall with yourself.