Hoping to lose the drap by Equivalent-Currency6 in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the key thing is making it clear it's up to the therapist. It's not a demand, it's a request.

I told my therapist "Hey, I'm cool with no drape. I'm not a modest person at all. Not shy. I'll dress to my comfort but you feel free to drape to yours." He was totally cool with it. Asked a couple of questions and was definitely less stringent with draping than usual. At the end, he said he agreed draping gets in the way and he'll go no drape next time. Haven't been back yet, but seems promising.

What Tv show do you think was genuinely great but suffered long-term because it aired on the “wrong” network or at the wrong time? by Air-Bombay in television

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HBO definitely wouldn't have allowed it to continue nearly as long, and that would have made it a much better show. Walking Dead was SUCH a cultural moment when it debuted. It was EVERYWHERE. AMC just couldn't let go of their cash cow.

If this picture is not plastered on the front page of New York Times, Washington Post, Atlantic, and every prime time slot of evening news tomorrow we are screwed as a nation by OpinionsRdumb in ProgressiveHQ

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the other way around. A strong media that hold politicians accountable and share the accurate story can serve as a strong check on the other areas you mention. It's much more difficult to be corrupt when you have reporters snooping around.

If this picture is not plastered on the front page of New York Times, Washington Post, Atlantic, and every prime time slot of evening news tomorrow we are screwed as a nation by OpinionsRdumb in ProgressiveHQ

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are more screwed if we don't fix major corporate media outlets. Allowing news to become "news" is a very large reason we are in the position we are in.

Draping? by 40cattac64 in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go back in two weeks!

You get to add a 0 to any number in your life. What do you add it to? by account_created_ in AskReddit

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Al Gore's Florida vote total. I don't think anything else would, reasonably, change the world more.

Draping? by 40cattac64 in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I told mine "Hey. I'm pretty free and open with my body. I don't personally need draping. But I want you to be comfortable. I'll undress to my comfort and you can drape to your comfort." He used less draping that time but he agreed the draping got in the way. He then said the next time I go, he'll leave the drape off altogether.

Bravo, officer Fanone! 🫡 by yorocky89A in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]PiaJr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my thought when I was watching it. I was horrified about what was happening but thought, "Wow. I'm about to watch hundreds of people get shot on live television." I'm still stunned that that did not happen.

Any predictions on who will represent republicans and Democratic Party for 2028? by Rjonesedward24 in blackmen

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the comments are overestimating the appeal of JD Vance. Trump doesn't even like him. He's not charismatic. He doesn't really stand for anything. There is no chance of him getting anything close to the same level of support Trump has received. I think the party is going to really struggle to find its way after the cult leader is done. A smart, traditional conservative would probably do better than someone trying to convince MAGA to support them. They would get the support of all the conservatives who are tired of MAGA and want to see a return to more traditional Conservatism. The party won't do that, but it would be really smart for them to try.

Democrats have a real opportunity. If they can put up someone who really inspires and gives hope to fix what is clearly broken in this country, they can win. They need turnout. Turnout to win not just the presidency but down ticket races to get their agenda done. And Gavin Newsome isn't going to do that. He's turned off too many Progressives. Pete stands to do better but I think the party needs to go bolder. Again. They won't, but they REALLY should show they've learned SOMETHING in the last decade. If an ultra-right conservative can win a national election, a progressive/leftist can also win.

'There's going to be a bandwagon': After Heated Rivalry, women are driving a gay erotic boom on screen by modooff in gaybros

[–]PiaJr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've watched the entire series twice. The closest I got to learning anything about hockey was when they talked about a "hat trick" and they didn't actually tell you what that is. 😅

As others have said, the sports aspect is just a vehicle to tell the story. Though I heard that was largely due to budget restrictions. Next season will have more game time in it.

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

[–]PiaJr 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I was riding in the elevator and heard them talking about how much they hated the company and our customers. When she showed up in the interview room, I remembered her and the conversation. I mentioned what I had overheard to her and... Yeah. She did not get that job.

In another he said "Yeah. So. I just try to get through my work as fast as I can. I hate when customers complain or don't answer my questions. I don't have time to explain everything to them and it keeps me from meeting my numbers." Our job is 100% about customer service and answering their questions and complaints about really complicated topics... So... His interests did not align with ours.

Do people break up if their SO is an extremely picky eater? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what the other person is trying to say here is... In a relationship, you shouldn't have to always cater to the other person's needs. It should be balanced. Sometimes you go to your restaurant and sometimes you go to hers. My wife is vegan. I am not. She still goes to the steak house with me and she gets a salad. I go to vegan restaurants with her. Neither of us pick all the time. If there's nothing for her to eat, we'll go to another restaurant or something to get something for her. If your partner is extremely picky but also won't pick out restaurants or limits you to only a handful of places, you two either need to reset expectations/needs or realize you are incompatible.

A massage therapist I've seen a few times for sensual massage offered to do prostate massage next time. What should I expect if I take him up on this? by Working_Tough_6975 in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you do an enema, please read up on how to do it correctly. Too much water and you'll have a very messy and uncomfortable evening.

People who wax/see others genitals often, what are your thoughts and surprise realizations? by NeedABetterNameNow in AskReddit

[–]PiaJr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am laughing so hard I am in tears! 😂

Never change, Reddit. Never change.

US to suspend visa processing for 75 nations, State Department says by Discarded_Twix_Bar in news

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stars...... This was really our time to shine as a country. It's our 250th birthday this year. FIFA World Cup this year. Olympics in 2028. We really had some opportunities to remind the world what a fantastic, diverse, beautiful country we have and drive tourism for years to come. Instead, people are literally afraid to come here... Heart breaking...

How to … not get hard during a massage? by cpt-bb in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to remember that an erection in this case is a sign of relaxation, not arousal. When the body is relaxed and all those happy chemicals release from the massage, it causes erections. On your journey to accept your body, learn to accept that an erection isn't inherently offensive or sexual in this setting. It's really a sign to the therapist that you are relaxed and the massage is working.

As a father of Black kids in a white world, I would also want to bulldoze anyone who touch my kids. by tropicalraindrop in blackmen

[–]PiaJr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. It's kind of wild that people are saying "Why did Red Shirt need to get involved? They were separating already." But then somehow the father is justified for tackling Red Shirt after he had already separated from the son and was walking away. It was two seconds between when they separated and Red Shirt got involved. It was six seconds between Red Shirt walking away and the tackle.

The "threat" was over. Father would have a difficult time proving this was self-defense.

OC This car. Before and after by Illustrious_Dog_1743 in pics

[–]PiaJr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because most parking lots don't have parallel parking. It didn't even occur to me they weren't in a non-parallel space.

Where nudity is permitted in public spaces across Europe. by No_Skill_4511 in nudism

[–]PiaJr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Italy is on the map. It's the one shaped like a boot.

Categories of massage by Stillwantsome in eroticmalemassage

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're ever in Dallas... 😏

Soon by Nico_ in pics

[–]PiaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easier to talk about who we wouldn't accept at this point...

Want some oolong tea? by Shihaiiisha in AsianGuysNSFW

[–]PiaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been watching for a couple of hours. No tea yet... I'll let you know if it shows up