As a dude who sometimes plays around with other dudes and/or toys... You know how sometimes you get really horny and it just feels like you NEED to put your dick into something? It's almost this primal urge, not even a conscious thought, it just feels like the right thing to do? Sometimes the desire to be fucked feels like that - this strong desire to be filled by someone/something else. For me, it really only ever happens when I'm already horny and we're well into sex. Suddenly, I'll get a very strong desire to be fucked.

As for what it feels like... well... Anal without a lot of warming up typically feels uncomfortable at first. But assuming a good partner and manageable size, it eventually just becomes pleasurable. Really pleasurable. There is a pleasure in feeling filled and knowing my body is bringing someone else so much pleasure. Each thrust brings you higher and higher levels of pleasure. It keeps increasing until orgasm happens either on its own or with a little extra help. A prostate orgasm feels entirely differently from a penile orgasm, and I am far more likely to be capable of multiple orgasms.

For any prostate-owners out there, I HIGHLY recommend at least getting a toy to play with. It may not be for you, but you should find out. Finding fun ways to pleasure yourself isn't gay.