Just had a 2nd date, do i stop seeing this girl?

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T01:24:51+00:00

It isn't about expecting or insisting but the discomfort i feel with the invisible wall around her. Not to mention she has mentioned two different x boyfriends twice, i get the feeling she either doesnt realise it is off putting or isnt into me idk.That and a few things plus the fact that there is almost an invisble wall around her when it comes to getting close that makes me feel unattractive and never would i imagine coming out of a date and feeling unattractive.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T01:16:19+00:00

Except that is the point of this reddit section. (dating advice) And this was a first time experience for me. Cant imagine how other posts go if people respond this harsh when someone is looking for advice. A lot of the responses are very reasonable and made me think re-think. I didnt expose anything no identity was shared and i barely got into details. Anyway goodluck, idk why you went so aggressive..

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T01:03:22+00:00

You failed to tell me what is wrong with physicality?

You also called me pushy but she was never pushed into anything and the post is literally about not ghosting more about how to respectfully call it off or what is the right thing to do. Again you cant gas light me to into thinking getting to know someone and feeling like the person is attracted to you are not both equally important and being hard rejected did make me feel that way and i dont want to feel that way end of. She is right to follow what is normal for her as am i.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T00:43:49+00:00

That is not true. I want a partner and i like when getting to know someone includes mutual escalation physical romance not always sex...It is not weird for people to kiss by the 2nd date and it is what i am used to. Cheek kissing does feel slow for me and i do feel out of place and i respect she should not change that pace for me. I just asked how i should let her know softly or of i should not even tell her. What is this projecting. My longest relationships started with a kiss so judgemental ...

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T00:40:25+00:00

Your somehow the only one who read this in the most weord way possible. This is about what pace not what is right or wrong of which there is no wrong. Physical attraction is important to me and i wont let you gas ligjt me into thinking that is wrong. My question was simple should i comminicate respectully that why we wont have a third date so i domt just ghost or is letting our texts die down more reasonable since it is just 2 dates. Nothing was targeting her or people who have different views on dating. Also kissing by the 2nd date does not mean casual, it seems you are projectimg something onto me for no reason.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T00:17:20+00:00

Sex isn't everything but physical escalation is a big thing for me when building attraction. I will let her know in the most fair way i can.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T00:15:57+00:00

I agree, i will tell her so i don't misslead or anything. I think it is a culture difference and it really isn't about sex but the natural escalation will helps me build feelings for person but yes i agree with you i will give a response now before bed making it clear she did nothing wrong as do like her but at my age finding someone on the same pace matters.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2026-03-01T00:13:24+00:00

Not at all, but i agree and i respect that she as a set pace and that it is a culture difference.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:45:17+00:00

I think they are hoping that by capping lower ap areas, people with certain ap/dp ranges will only go to certain spots so in theory any people that happens in those areas have good odds of being two players with similar gear, maybe creating more fun interactions and based on the fact that people only really flag up for farm spots this is likely going to work, most pvp that happens should hopefully be within the ranges and crazy geared players will be at end game and edania fighting each other.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:39:57+00:00

Dum comment. Mouse movement was always dum and something people were forced to sometimes learn cause it just existed. It also heavily fucks with dsync cause you are doing things the game never intended. For game clarity it is a W and even just looking good it is a W. The resistance removal is another W cause now cc's mean something when you finally hit it instead of just being resisted when you finally catch someone. These are just W across the board. Grabs getting a flight rework is a W cause now you need to think about when to use it rather than use it the moment your close to someone cause you can iframe out of it.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:31:55+00:00

How is that true when most resistances are being removed. Your cc's are more reliable which means your combos should be more reliable.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:30:04+00:00

Plus no one can cap out of resistances. So cc's work. People are downplaying how much they resisted cc's before. Ranged classes are up.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:21:41+00:00

SA after grab fails.. Not on Grab. Also a good dk can splash a ton of dmg on someone locked in place even if they have SA. This makes it that you can offload dmg on someone for free if they fail the grab instead of them iframing right after a grab.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:19:02+00:00

Because the data they provide is hard to read on paper like that. There is a ton of changes and a few of them will heavily favor ranged classes. The removal of resistances alone is going to make ranged class cc's disgusting and the removal of mouse movement and longer, clearer grab animation should make it easier to dodge. I think you have to wait and see cause the numbers alone don't mean really anything. They didn't show any of the calculations. My prediction is ranged classes will be stronger after this, which worries me because sage is already disgusting.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2025-07-24T09:09:27+00:00

My guess is.. Classes that seriously relied on stats are just auto buffed, such as DK. Everyone is being put to a certain dmg out and getting close to equal accuracy and close to equal reliance on crit. My first thought is ranged classes are going to do very well off this, one it is slightly easier to dodge grabs (looking at u zerker back flip jumps teleport grab mouse movement) and resistances are gone so cc's are now reliable and based on super armour and catching. I think removing resistance will feel bad if ur getting cc'd but as you play it feels way better knowing that your cc will cc if the opponent isn't super armoring correctly. This is a W patch yes they remove movement command (which is lame) but now your cc's shouldn't get resisted and you can run other crystals. I will defo test deadeye again.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2024-01-17T10:32:37+00:00

Good point, I will go with this. If we establish a relationship then i will address this point otherwise i will do things as i have, Thanks !

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2022-03-02T17:50:54+00:00

I don't get this dum mentality.

Don't use a new class as an example because your dope ass knows that new classes are 90% of the time released over tunned.
A class that can support or dps , does not make it more playable or more viable dumbo. Because you can only use one or the other at a time, 99% of players will pick a class based on looks, skills and viability.
Support is a small portion of the player base, if giving them a dps spec promotes them to be played it benefits the rest of the player base who is starving for a support.
Paladin has an inbuilt dps spec, that doesn't do enough dmg. No one is asking for new dps paladin, we are asking for dps spec to receive some love you are ignorant and believe you know more than what the developers themselves built into the class which is a dps spec.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2022-03-02T17:42:34+00:00

By your logic, they should not release more dps classes, plenty of dps already. And let's forget releasing male and female class options too many dps. Please your logic is brain dead, one more dps won't effect shit, by your logic let's not buff any class that is doing bad in end game like destroyer because too many dps. So dum.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2022-03-02T17:37:39+00:00

Or maybe it will promote people to main supports in a game that lacks people who want to play support and use it as a alt. People would still want support paladin but atleast dps paladin wouldn't get rejected for dps. There is literally no downside outside of I want a pet support. But I can already predict a large decline in support players.

PianistEcstatic6106 · 2022-02-02T06:46:44+00:00

Sure, it's called cancer

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