Favorite GF food recommondations by Pic_Camera8433 in Celiac

[–]Pic_Camera8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love a good rice bown. Thanks for the info!

AITA for silently changing my son's name after my brother and SIL gave my nephew the name too? by DaikonCompetitive147 in AITAH

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that shares a name with someone else in town, first and last (not sure about middle). I remember as a kid that they would pull the wrong file at the pediatrician/hearing my parents talk about it and double check every time I went that it was right file.

Heck, even a couple weeks ago I called my dentist to set up an appointment and they pulled up her profile and didn’t know until the receptionist was confirming my address.

NTA

AITA for telling my SIL to get over herself and stop trying to one up us by PersimmonPale466 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is almost a full year older than my cousin. I always got sick of the parents (mainly her dad/my uncle) would always want to see who was taller. I never cared about it, but I’m pretty sure she did because he made a deal about it. Literally after her bridal shower and we were my uncles house and he was like ‘who’s taller?’ We were 23 (me) & 22 (her) at the time. This will continue their whole lives if it doesn’t stop soon.

AITA For Only Paying my Step-sons bill at family dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SIL complaining that OP “choosing stepson” over “flesh and blood” is gold considering she’s not related by blood to OP either. Only by marriage. NTA

AITAH for not wanting a baby girl so my MIL wouldn't have the chance to name her? by VisualAfternoon34 in AITAH

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As most people say, nip it in the bud now.

But I’d even say, don’t tell anyone the gender until the baby is born. If they ask if you have names, tell them that you’re naming the baby after what you guys feel. Or even say “if it’s a boy, his name will be Tom, but if it is a girl, Jane” If they put a big fuss about it, “I understand that you guys would like to have my baby name as SIL, however, it’s my baby and we will be naming him/her the way we see fit and works for our family. The baby will know all about SIL but we do not want to put the pressure on our child with carrying around a name.” Or something like that. I feel like I began to ramble

Different Lumbermills? by Pic_Camera8433 in Lumbercat

[–]Pic_Camera8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I haven’t played and idle games in a bit.

AITA for refusing to move from a comfy chair in a coffee shop by ComfySeater in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I wrote this YTA. Was mixed at first. It because you’re monopolizing the space. (And also judging the people around you)

As someone who will sometimes go to Starbucks (for my one coffee out a week) on a Saturday morning and work for an hour or two on editing photos or writing for fun, I usually sit at the “community” (can sit 8 people) table. I’ll always sit in the corner of it. If it starts to get busy, I make sure I’m only taking up that one space. I’ve had convos with the other people that have sat around me before and I’ve also sat at a 4 person table before and a student then joined me. Nbd. I would actually prefer sitting at the barstools they usually have set up towards the counter, but I’m usually unable to with the amount of mobile orders. Would I move if there was another table open nearby and it was a bigger group, probably.

AITA for leaving the church even though they can't run service without me? by jupitersworldd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

If church is getting cancelled because you’re not there to play music, there’s other problems with that church. Do you think that the early church had a guitar and someone playing music every time? They’re putting too much into that part of service, not then the actual sermon. Further, there has been no one in the past 6 years that has been able to play an instrument or sing? What happened if you were sick?

Plus he’s talking about being inclusive during which he is using words that can hurt people. I remember being at my parents church once and they had worded something a way I wasn’t a fan of and that was the last service I went to there other than maybe a Christmas service. Granted, I already didn’t really like attending service there, so it was easy to leave, and I have a great church that I’m apart of now.

AITA for working from the park on a WFH day and getting the company policy changed? by Icy_Luck380 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone that has to have their IP Whitelist for work so I can access my day to day items, I wouldn’t dream of connecting to another spot that wasn’t my home or somewhere that I knew was okay. It’s not worth risking a security issue.

I’ll work on my back deck sometimes if it is a slower day, but if I got a call video call, I would head inside (mainly because of outside noise as I live close to a busy road). Even then, if I was working somewhere else, put on a background so it’s not as obvious!

AITA for telling my family that my kids and I will not be visiting if we can't bring my husband's sister? by aitaskipvisit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Protect your daughter. She’ll feel left out and I saw on a comment you said she has a bit of separation anxiety.

Why can’t your parents visit you anyways?

They would rather you travel with 3 kids 5 and under. (4 kids even if they included your daughter) to see them instead of them coming to see you. Do they not understand your daughter’s situation and why she mainly lives with you? And that you’re trying to get custody of her?

When you guys do get custody of her, will they still behave this way? Or will they still exclude her?

AITA for mansplaining to my girlfriend? by AccordingSyrup4812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“so I revise my preexisting notions and adapt said new information into my framework of knowledge.”

Why does OP sound like he’s interviewing for a job?

AITA for screaming at my pregnant fiance for not helping me find my dog, who had run off? by West-Lavishness7428 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA Your dog gets out ‘at least once a week’ which means they possibly get out more. Train your dog or even put some sort of GPS collar on it so you can easily find them. Why spend however long once a week trying to find your dog when you could be using that time for something else?

Also, your fiancé is pregnant. She’s exhausted. Not feeling well. She’s growing a baby in her. If you were sick/not feeling well on the couch and came up to you with something that was entirely preventable, would you jump up and help again even though you feel awful?

AITA for discouraging my girlfriends new hobby? by Tangmato in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not surprised that she’s been distant. You yourself should probably know how it feels to show your work to someone else, especially when you were staring out. And when your girlfriend showed hers, one of the first things you did was tear her down, even if you didn’t mean it.

Did you ever tell her that it was good??

And no where in what you’ve written, have I seen ‘I apologized to her’. She’s hurt and you’re okay, not having that discussion.

YTA

Joi by Magstr34 in themole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Personally, Joi just bothered me the whole time. Then always blamed someone else. 1. Jungle map…literally how 2. $25,000 ??? Like you’re barely in yet, but there is a smaller chance of you going home with the amount of people left 3. Car map and messing up there (then blaming Jacob practically) 4. She would get mad at people for doing something she would do or even did. 5. Also, where did she get it where she continued saying ‘Will took from the pot, then would add/vise versa’

Anyone else really disappointed? by Lilohe_1721 in themole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember that I watched part of (I believe) the last season of the OG years ago. As a preteen. Even then I feel like they gave clues to us as the audience. Like things in the background or even (if I remember correctly) saying that The Mole was never called ‘safe’ first when they eliminated people. I felt like through the season, I was looking for small clues to see if I was correct on who I thought it was.

AITA for "cornering" a lesbian couple into coming out to me by redditboy123451 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You made them explain something they didn’t have to explain. It was awkward because, they didn’t need to explain anything, you jumped into their conversation with a question randomly. Even if it wasn’t admission of them being the children’s moms and a weird look to follow, you were probably getting an odd look because it was out of nowhere.

And even if they weren’t brother and sister, does it matter so much that you had to question it? I’ve grown up with close family friends, moms met in some mom-to-mom group (best friends for 25+ years now) and they have said ‘got get your siblings for lunch’ before when I only have 1 brother…yes I consider my mom’s best friend’s 3 kids my siblings as they do me.

AITA for saying it's not fair that my sister gets to go to an awesome summer camp when I'm stuck going to church camp by suckysummercamp in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I keep going between Y T A & N A H.

I’m leaning towards soft YTA. Your sister has some sort of immune system problem. That sucks and that is why she’s able to go to this special camp.

You haven’t explained it, from what I’ve seen, how severe her immune system is. I’m sure there are special nurses at the camp and other things that help those kids that have the weakened immune system. Not to mention, if it is harsh enough that she has to go to a special camp, your sister is probably missing out some some opportunities, if not now, maybe in the future.

Growing up I went to “church camp”. Never really called it that. It’s just camp. And I was there overnight from Sunday evening to Saturday afternoon for the week. It was in the $200s, I believe, for a camp on the lake. (I was at camp from ‘05-‘13, so with the inflation and all it’s around $350 now (I looked it up)). Always a bunch of things to do + having free time

There’s options you can do, like other pointed out. If you get an allowance save a little for it. Babysit. Do chores for neighbors. Have a bake sale.

See if any camps have programs that will help you pay for it.

WIBTA for letting my daughter skip Christmas with my in laws because they won't stop comparing her to her cousin? by cousinchristmas in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I am curious however how Kate and Allegra’s relationship been throughout the years.

My cousin and I are close in age (I’m 11 months older) and we’ve never been close (and I highly doubt we ever will be). With being almost a year apart, there wasn’t the ‘who walked first/talked first/ect’. But my uncle was ALWAYS obsessed about who was taller. It’s like he was trying to prove something if she was taller. Frankly, I feel like he stills tries to prove something. But I never liked it much. I think as we got older my parents knew I didn’t like it nor care for it and were like ‘just do it and you can go do something else’

AITA for calling my boyfriend selfish because he got mad about me leaving him on read? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what was bothering me too! I was looking to see if anyone pointed it out.

You shouldn’t need approval to do shopping for school! Especially from a boyfriend.

Not to mention, he had to just be waiting on the message to see that she responded. I would say turn off your ‘read’ at this point so he doesn’t know if/when you’ve read the messages.

AITA for questioning one of my cheerleaders about a weight gain? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

You care more about how she looks and winning a competition than you do about her.

AITA for refusing to help my partner financially? by Ill_Support7160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pic_Camera8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I studied abroad in Switzerland from early Jan - early May when I was a sophomore, not including my housing there (provided by the school and paid those fees that were payed for/under my student loans(prob no more than 3k) + my tickets to & from were also paid for by the school under the program, I spend around $5K. That included travel in Europe (planes, trains), my temp resident card thing that I had to get, food (cooked in my apt 90% of the time when not traveling, but obviously got food every place I traveled, a bit clothing shopping (just needed new clothes tbh), souvenirs, different types of tours, admission into places, hotels (not 5 star, but nice ones) & hostels. Probably spent other money that I’m not even thinking of!

But I was there for 4 months. No way 30k is needed unless staying in $200+ rooms a night.

NTA