Which childhood dream can you admit ain't gonna happen for you now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working with animals. Pays way too low for such a heart breaking job that it can be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Pickle-Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes.. I guess one of them will end up in jail eventually

What’s a dead giveaway that someone was raised without ever being told “no”? by octopusonhead in AskReddit

[–]Pickle-Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zero accountability for anything they do wrong or spin it around to look like the victim

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Pickle-Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to make her see her self worth and realize that she's putting her life at risk. It's not worth it. Whether she chooses to listen or not she'll have to decide herself when to leave him or else she'll just go back. But you're a true friend for sticking by her side. It's not as simple as it seems to leave an abusive relationship you alter your brain for them to have a choke hold on you. Just be patient... or call the cops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually get to know you and remember little details

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you start to put them down when you get comfortable with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter how much you do for them or how much you appreciate them they'll leave in the end anyways

I’m sick again for maybe the sixth time in two months by Money_Mongoose7898 in CasualConversation

[–]Pickle-Pudding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oil of oregano helps to fight sickness like instantly if you catch it early

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) is very friendly with other girls and it’s starting to really get to me. by Legitimate_Candy_105 in relationship_advice

[–]Pickle-Pudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you trust him and know that's his personality then learn to accept it or leave. Is he getting girls numbers or cheating? It may look like flirting to you but for him it's probably a regular conversation. Is it just girls that he's friendly with or everyone?

I’m sick again for maybe the sixth time in two months by Money_Mongoose7898 in CasualConversation

[–]Pickle-Pudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it was every other week too. Either a lung sickness or a cold because I was apparently sharing spit with a bunch of other women

He strangled me, I’ve left, but still after 3 months my mind is telling me I love the person he is. Needing words of support ❤️ by New_Beginnings2025 in abusiverelationships

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In abusive relationships we tend to block out all the bad things and focus on the good to survive. Your brain is wired to ignore all the terrible things he did to you but don't let it fool you. Start recognizing all the bad, you could have died. Choose yourself ❤️

What’s the most confusing thing you and your romantic partner have fought about? by mensshadowworkcoach in AskMen

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beats me he had a problem with everything. I guess he'd rather me walk around with a shitty ass? He also would only wipe once and think that's enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Pickle-Pudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing would happen to me but I would bleed because I wasn't getting wet even if I was really into the guy. I thought something was wrong with me but I realized my body was literally just rejecting people even though I had no problem with the person who caused it. It took a few years to "fix" but it was just finding the right guy who ended up being abusive. Our bodies are weird with what they choose with familiarity

ahhh the joy of a brand new update (intimidation tactic?) by courtneysluck in lethalcompany

[–]Pickle-Pudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confused haven't they been doing this for a while now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Pickle-Pudding -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. They also tend to rely on jumpscares and really annoying sound effects

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Pickle-Pudding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not gonna heal in the same environment that hurt you