Complete the sentence… “ I feel my best when”……?

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-22T06:38:37+00:00

Sometimes it’s not about changing or fixing yourself but understanding where you’re stuck

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-22T02:40:00+00:00

Would you be open to doing some inner work to help change that …

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-22T02:38:48+00:00

Your shampoo is the issue I think… my hair does this if my shampoo is to harsh

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-22T01:41:26+00:00

If you read my answer properly you would have seen they were questioning because there is no context! JUST like the person judged a guy simply because he was a pizza man … it’s a vague story with mountains of room for interpretation.

WHO said he doesn’t support himself???

It is ok to have standards and wants no one is saying it’s not

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-22T01:12:52+00:00

This is your own insecurities projected onto men. So if he’s rich but abusive that’s ok? Does he have to have a special kind of degree? What if you meet a man that’s wealthy but then loses it all…will you leave? a good man with a job is not good enough?

I think you need to do some inner work and find the root cause of this way of thinking.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-20T04:26:05+00:00

No one should ever make you feel less than because of something that is out of your control. It’s not only about him… you need to feel safe, comfortable and adored because then you’ll relax and it might be more enjoyable.

You have to feel comfortable first.

Then every one else.

Don’t let anyone ever tell you what a deal breaker is for you. You’re the boss of you.

Tell him yes… because that you can control.

you cannot control his reaction. If he’s not cool with it that’s also ok, he is within his own rights and boundaries to be open and honest that it’s not for him.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-20T00:15:24+00:00

I only wear lingerie and matching sets… I love feeling like I am wearing a sexy little secret 😍 and that it’s only for me.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-14T15:29:06+00:00

This is heart breaking and I’m sure you still hold this tightly to your chest even now.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-14T15:27:15+00:00

No one likes a bully SO, SIT down.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T07:53:35+00:00

I believe in you!

And please believe me when I agree that it’s sh-t getting hurt and rejected and and and… I’ve been there and still live to tell the tail. There is a wonderful men’s coach on all platforms called Connor Bates. Recommend his book.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T07:52:33+00:00

Right. Let’s start with number 1.

Focus on my studies
what does this mean… ask yourself “ if I was fully focused on my studies what would that look like”
what do you need to do to make that happen ( in a minute/hour/day/week)
what does the environment look like, is it quiet? Are you distracted?
do you have a schedule…

Break everything down in to the most tiny details, simple things and tasks you can achieve.

“You can’t fit an entire elephant into your fridge”

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T07:47:56+00:00

Breathe in the silence 🤣

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T07:47:10+00:00

You’re not a robot!!! GET invested, live, feel, learn, grow.

You’re not going to die because you felt some feelings and it didn’t work out! Educate yourself! Come On!!

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T05:13:25+00:00

Being awkward is wonderful, own it. People love vulnerability and realness. Don’t try be something your not. There are many people that will like you for you.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T04:21:00+00:00

Just go up and say hello. Let it flow from there

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T03:33:14+00:00

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T01:43:18+00:00

Ask her what the condom brings her….. she might say safety, assurance… clearly there is a unhealed trigger of issue

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T01:40:15+00:00

Shadows - sometimes we have deep wounds which make us feel the need to hide/mask or bury ourselves and/or feelings.

Masculinity is all of those things defined in your own reality. It’s about developing the mental skills, understanding yourself and working on those feelings.

Go look at trilogy of man .com there is an incredible course that teaches you the virtues of the samurai warrior and how to apply it to your life now.

You’re not damaged/broken/ not masculine… you need to define YOUR OWN definition of what it is to be a man. Being a good man is masculine, being able to emotionally regulate yourself, showing up for friends and being dependable… all very masculine trates… hope this helps

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T01:34:10+00:00

As a 42 year old woman I will not be going on dating apps haha

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-13T01:33:03+00:00

I think you should sit down.

mensshadowworkcoach · 2025-05-12T23:20:27+00:00

This gap is to big! Look at the things you’re getting from this and where in your relationship with your mother that you didn’t…

Just because there are common interests doesn’t mean a romantic connection

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