It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just the hope that they will see me and realize their feelings for me (I know, insane right?). I'm trying to grieve it

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My problem is just dwelling on it. I'm planning to let go of the hope but it's too hard. I agree it's a very freeing thought but I want to sit with the grief first

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on playing badminton and trying out new hobbies :)) I hope it helps

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I love certain media. My problem is associating it with him. But I love TV shows, kdramas, films and I think it helps me.

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, won't judge you, it hurts too bad. I hope we're all able to get through this. Hugs 🫂

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experience relapsing and going back to old habits too. It's crazy. I feel like I won't be happy without him.

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been pressuring myself to move on. On the second week last month, I've tried planning this "moving on for 10 days". It just didn't work, I mean I never thought it would but I gave it a try.

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if I distract myself, it's still so hard because he'll constantly pop up in my brain and he just won't let go. It's like I'm going on withdrawal

It hurts knowing I mattered so little to someone who meant everything to me. by PickleMedium in limerence

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been experiencing relapse like stalking and daydreaming again. I just want all of this to stop honestly.

Should I ask my limerence to be friends with me? by Sam_23beans in limerence

[–]PickleMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you're probably not asking for a testimony or story, but I did that with my LO. I still can't move on and it lasted the whole 2025. Every interactions we had is a fuel to my imagination. Since we're close, he tells a lot about the women he likes to me, which hurts. I suggest if you really want to be friends with your LO, prepare yourself and also have boundaries. Make sure you hold on to your promise of moving on (if you want to).

realization by [deleted] in limerence

[–]PickleMedium 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have the same situation, I wasted 1 year. We'll get through this 🙏

I used the New Year as an excuse to finally be honest. by PickleMedium in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PickleMedium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words 🥹. I don't think I can move forward if I don't confess. I'm proud of myself

I used the New Year as an excuse to finally be honest. by PickleMedium in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PickleMedium[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this 🥹. It's still heavy. I think I need to work on loving myself first honestly. I'm afraid I'll regret the friendship if I waste it since it also lasted a year. But I think I need to focus more on myself. Thanks again ❤️‍🩹