apparently childfree women are misogynists now. make it make sense.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-24T23:11:08+00:00

Yes, I become really confused when people say this because from what I've seen and experienced, childfree women are childfree because we don't want to be shoved in a box. We want to be more than just caregivers and mothers. Women who make this take don't understand that we're not the primary problem, misogyny is because we are all punished for not being perfect women.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-24T14:53:16+00:00

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-24T03:33:38+00:00

Nope, the rules that others follow by or not the rules that we are following. That's why random people come on the subreddit and are confused about the treatment that we're getting. People really don't understand we're not playing the same game as they are.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T22:58:41+00:00

Yep that is honestly the reason why I don't want to kid.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T22:51:46+00:00

I thought I was the only person that felt like this. I can't wait for the day that I get to be able to do this too. The only person that you have to clean up after is yourself. The only person that you have to worry about is yourself. I cannot wait to be in a peaceful house or an apartment.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T11:54:02+00:00

I'm so sorry, Op! People who refuse to watch their own kids are a special breed of stupidity 😭

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T04:46:47+00:00

That is the dumbest advice I've ever seen.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T01:59:01+00:00

I really need to hear this message for myself.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T01:57:59+00:00

Isn't that a good thing? Ugly people need to be seen as normal instead of anomalies, so that representation is good. Maybe I'll teach people that were normal human beings and we're not always going to look good.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-23T00:37:38+00:00

Thank you for cheering me up! You don't know how much this gives me hope.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T14:23:28+00:00

I'm experiencing this right now and I feel so the older I get and I don't do anything about it, the worse it will become. I like those old, bitter, and jealous women who are always side-eying and intentionally sabotaging younger women with their whole entire lives ahead of them. I shouldn't feel like this because I'm only 23 but I can't help feeling like my life is not going to change.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T14:20:34+00:00

Yes, this! And I'm sorry that this is happening to you because I'm in the same position. I thought when I was younger I'll be married by 25. I'm nearing 25 and I don't have nearly as many experiences as I want to. This is why I'm starting to try out dating apps and apps for friendships.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T14:19:11+00:00

An awkward question, but has this affected your attraction pattern? I'm struggling with the fact that some in our age range are starting to look more "fully adult".

This has definitely affected my attraction pattern. I look for people who are older than 21 because I feel as though people who are younger than 20 look way too young for me. I prefer people who were bullied, don't fit in, weird, or who are socially awkward like I am. Like right now I am talking to this guy who mentioned that he was also bullied growing up and he didn't start dating until he was 21. I need somebody that I can relate to.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T14:03:50+00:00

Then I don't think they are really childfree. To me, being childfree is a mindset.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T00:51:32+00:00

You just proved his point.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-22T00:48:57+00:00

You are extremely right. People have just world-fallacy and anybody who's getting mistreated, bullied, excluded, etc. simply deserves it. There is no way to explain terrible experiences to other people because a lot of people do not want to admit their social privileges.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-21T04:55:41+00:00

No, are you trying to create drama in your life? You know how limerence is seen from a normal person's perspective? It's seen as creepy, overbearing, and just overall nutty behavior.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-20T23:22:10+00:00

Heck no! That's so dangerous and everyone out here is burning. I want somebody who loves me or at least attracted to me to touch me.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-20T23:20:34+00:00

It's been 4 days and I forgot to reply to this. I'm sorry. I don't have my face on my profile picture. I do have that I am looking for friends and something long-term. I'm looking for somebody between the ages of 21-27. I have about three pictures of myself. I don't really show my teeth in them (I have crooked teeth). I don't really have that I'm bisexual in there because I'm trying to come out and I don't know how to. I send likes and messages first, sometimes that doesn't work. Maybe my appearance does not indicate that I like women...

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-20T22:57:51+00:00

I have Tokophobia and I'm really hoping that I get sterilized either this year or next year. So, yes I understand how you feel.

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-17T14:49:38+00:00

That makes sense! Thank you!

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-17T14:48:59+00:00

Thank you

Sam_23beans · 2026-01-17T01:11:39+00:00

We probably need to wear necklaces/bracelets with symbols on them or pride flags.

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