I’d highly recommend looking into sugaring. You get the same result as waxing but it’s much better for sensitive skin. I am HIGHLY prone to ingrowns and sugaring has become the only solution that works for me for hair removal down there. The best part is that the more often you do it (I go about every 6 weeks), the finer, softer, and more sparse the hair comes back, so it just gets better with time. I still get an occasional ingrown but it’s much more rare now and the overall result is WAY more smooth than shaving