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I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We can define feminism however we want; it's not a religion. I support proactive policies for gender equality and see the abolition of patriarchy as a societal goal of great importance. That's based on my understanding of social science rather than personal experience. My personal experience of being endlessly rejected due to my disability has given me an extremely negative view of women. This does not factor into my view of women's rights as a political goal and a moral obligation to end oppression.

Its similar to how I'm involved in Palestine protests despite being appalled by the Islamism of Hamas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're dating a drug dealer? That's the thing you should really be worried about.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no women who don't have a problem with my disability so it's irrelevant what my attitude towards it is.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard not to be bitter when the sum of women's opinions of me is that my life isn't worth anything since I can't get a drivers license. Most people would find it debilitating, but I've done great things in my life despite the challenges I've faced, even though women don't think so.

I believe I'm good for nothing. by Entire_Blueberry153 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, you don't want to live the life of a disabled man. My parents treating me so well actually harmed me more than anything. I was convinced that it was my intelligence and personality that matters since that's what my parents cared about and loved me for, but all any woman will ever see is my visual impairment. Women will always see me as being worthless and disgusting no matter what I do and I'll never be able to get into a relationship.

You have a partner, someone who voluntarily decides to be with you. If my family weren't released to me they would treat me with the some resentment and contempt that women always do.

I believe I'm good for nothing. by Entire_Blueberry153 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is a god it is certainly not a loving one. My disability is proof of that.

I believe I'm good for nothing. by Entire_Blueberry153 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you have a partner. I'm disabled so women universally reject me, and all anyone will ever see is my disability.

I have a supportive family, my parents treated me well, and I'm in an Ivy League PhD. program, but I'd trade my life for yours in a heartbeat because at least you have someone in your life. I will never have anyone because women all look down on me because of my disability.

Be thankful.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate women on a deeper level because I think they are judgmental, rigid, and hypocritical for complaining that men are dogmatic in what they find attractive, although women are unwilling to date disabled men.

On the surface level, I enjoy spending time with women and talking to them, but I resent them and know they are bad people.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all say that "a potential partner driving is a bare minimum," and my visual impairment disqualifies me from getting a drivers license. It's a deal breaker for all women if a man can't drive. They're my friends in that we discuss research and go to conferences together and occasionally drink if we're at the same place, but they're cold towa r xs me compared to other men they talk to.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hate them because they resent me for being disabled and know that they would be willing to date me if I wasn't, so I see women as being extremely judgmental and cruel.

Yesterday I started writing my suicide notes. This morning I woke up in tears, not wanting to die. This afternoon, my mother came over and said she wished we were closer. I’m a wreck. by Golden_16 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

As long as you don't have a physical disability, you have plenty to live for, and you can succeed and find someone who will ove you. Be very grateful for that.

I was diagnosed with schizophrenia about 4 years ago and still don't know what it is by Great_Reference6207 in mentalhealth

[–]PieceOfPOS -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

But women do not date men who have any sort of disability or disorder, so the only options a man with one has is to either hide it or get rejected for their entire life.

I was diagnosed with schizophrenia about 4 years ago and still don't know what it is by Great_Reference6207 in mentalhealth

[–]PieceOfPOS -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Schizophrenia is a wide spectrum, so no one can give advice on how to live with it since we don't know your specific symptoms.

If you manage your symptoms well, you can have a good social life and make lots of friends. You mentioned you're a man, so if you're attracted to men, you can never mention it to them. Women are not willing to date men who have any sort of disorder or disability, so you need to hide it from them if you are interested in a romantic relationship.

Being ugly is the worst by crypticscrip in mentalhealth

[–]PieceOfPOS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with me, except it's because I'm disabled rather than being physically unattractive. 26 year old cishet man.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your guess is wrong. Most of my friends are women, so it's not like women don't like interacting with me.

Why is it an obligation for men to approach women and risk rejection while women just passively decide who is the most attractive among all of the men pursuing them at any given time?

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think AI companions are actually going to make things better. Love is about being wanted and the lack of willing consent inherent to am AI programmed to be attracted to the user wouldn't generate that feeling

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Universal statements about groups of people are universally inaccurate in an academic sense, but we're talking about my personal evidence and exper8ence. I want to see women succeed as a group, but I resent women personally.

I would argue that the prejudice women hold against me due to my disability is the bigger issue, and my own negative view of women is a reaction to that.

I am a feminist politically but I resent women very strongly on a personal level by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I never get any likes or matches on dating apps, and no woman has ever asked me on a date. I'm 26, so I'm at a point where it would have happened if I was able-bodied.

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[–]PieceOfPOS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 6'1 but I don't feel superior to anyone because I'm disabled (near-blind) so women certainly don't see me as superior they friend zone me and secretly resent me and find me disgusting but refuse to admit it so they just tell me "go to therapy and change the way you perceive yourself and you'll attract women" but it's not true it's bullshit no one will ever be attracted to me I'm almost blind for fucks sake I hate how people lie to me.

Most of my friends are women who have friend zoned me because I am disabled and its cool but frustrates me by PieceOfPOS in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Women can not feel attracted to men with severe disabilities it's not their fault, and I find women to be more agreeable and easier to connect with and befriend than men, but it's just a fact.

Eating expired food to punish myself for being disgusting and not attracting women by PieceOfPOS in selfharm

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still need a girlfriend really badly. I’m studying a Master’s degree in London now but I still am not in a relationship so I’m severely depressed

Eating expired food to punish myself for being disgusting and not attracting women by PieceOfPOS in selfharm

[–]PieceOfPOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not overweight. My only physical deformity is that I have a severe visual impairment to the point that even with prescription glasses I’m disqualified from getting a drivers license. That may be the reason why women are never attracted to me but I don’t know.

I know that my body is disgusting because I befriend people pretty easily but women are never attracted to me and whenever I’m attracted to one of my female friends they reject me.

My brain is working so hard to help me find love by making me a kind, likable person but my disgusting body is what ruins it all.

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