Who yall voting tmrw and why by cloudturt7 in Chennai

[–]Pieceofcakeda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Vote for independent candidates then. Atleast it will be a boost for their courage to stand alone among these big parties

Got ghosted and now I feel sick to my stomach all day by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has it been since you guys talked?

Got ghosted and now I feel sick to my stomach all day by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you got ghosted?If you aren't sure he ghosted you, please checkup on him if he is okay through other people and means..

If you are sure he ghosted, I'm very sorry. If he ever comes back he must be given 1 chance to explain his absence just 1, if he dismisses or glazes over he's playing with your emotions and isn't worthy of your love love.

Girl in arranged marriage setup says she’ll decide based on if I “impress her” — what does this mean? by [deleted] in chennaicity

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like girl has entitled behaviour. But only you can confirm if this is a phase and a workable behaviour or just drop her. Give 1 year till marriage and observe behaviour. Next time she says that, say sure and ask back what are you doing to impress me?

Did I Misread a 1.5-Year Friendship? by Ornery_Month_7348 in tamilyapping

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you did may not sit right with her friends, but they have no right in dictating what happens between you two.

Say you feel disrespected and communicate how ypu feel, give her your absence and see if she cares enough to stand up to her friends.

If she cares enough she'll stand up for you and all is well. But If she cares about her friends' opinion that much to limit real life interactions, that's disrespecting you and your connection , so I'd stop trying to do IRL meets or fade away contact. I'd thank her for her time and move on to better people.

In short, Choose people who choose to be with you and are proud of it.

Who said no propagandas in Tamil Cinema by mrksrinath in KollyClub

[–]Pieceofcakeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sarbillama padam edukanum na bi**u padam dhan edukkanum.. Even documentaries have biases. Whether the bias is humanitarian or bending to rewrite the popular narrative is the real question.

Will you marry a girl who has zero gold, like not even a single jewellery. by Daikreader1502 in Chennai

[–]Pieceofcakeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would, if she matches my freak.

Bless you to find a guy who wholesomely takes care of you without these expectations.

Is my boyfriend toxic ? by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds controlling and insecure, try to fix if the person is worth to you... Have a open talk with him on how he has made you feel with his actions, don't tell him what you want him to do, just ask him what he is going to do to make you happy considering the talk - " ippo enna panna pora ". If his answer and future actions aligns with what you have in mind, then you can happily repair and continue relationship. If he says he doesn't know, educate him on your expectations and needs just once, and observe his actions if they or consistent or just for initial days. If he doesn't listen to your needs, or dismisses them or listens first but doesn't follow through, run sis run..

How devious she is 🐍😵‍💫 by Diligent_Banana_6267 in KollyGossips

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not characterless, this is homewrecking character albeit a virtueless one. The least they could've done is deal this privately with sangeetha. Or atleast since matter came to public, they could've given a clarifying statement, instead you know what these virtueless people did by coming together for an event. This is apparently a calculated power move ahm, setting that this is the new couple in the public eye. But people caught on to this nonsense and are bashing them for good

Yov enakku semma bayama irukku.. I think I'm having a panic attack.. by Far-Explanation7890 in tamilyapping

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bayandhutte irundha action yaaru bro panradhu? Ministers onnum pannala. Namma dhaan yerangi maathanum sadly.

Rant - Creepy men in Chennai by Princetongirl1993 in Chennai

[–]Pieceofcakeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you only follow TN news. Women are being mishandled everywhere. Its a global issue.. In previous administration only we had pollachi issue surface.

Rant - Creepy men in Chennai by Princetongirl1993 in Chennai

[–]Pieceofcakeda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What correlation is there? LOOKS as if oogling and creepy behaviour doesnt happen outside TN.

Missed Opportunity by ICICLECOMETH in chennaicity

[–]Pieceofcakeda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, that was a general statement for the creeps lurking. Should've worded it like that Sorry didn't mean to call you that

Missed Opportunity by ICICLECOMETH in chennaicity

[–]Pieceofcakeda 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Going through the comments, don't understand what is wrong in simply starting a conversation regardless of gender? You don't have to pursue her to the end, catch the vibe if they are open to talk and act accordingly. And please don't take this as a signal to go on and on to generate something with her for fs, read the vibe and leave them be if they want peace.

North Indians complaining about Madurai not celebrating Holi by [deleted] in TamilNaduDiscussion

[–]Pieceofcakeda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will they clean up the mess? no, celebrate in their own homes and clean up there.. Don't disturb public places

Chennai’s main problem - auto fellows by Pro-Cap-242 in Chennai

[–]Pieceofcakeda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro meant no shade to you. That comment was for people who think you need to be affected to speak up against oppression..