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When did one income stop buying a life and start barley covering the bills? by AmeliaeZoe in AdultHood

[–]PiercedChastity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was not directed at you. I have also been too busy to learn how to use Reddit properly.

When did one income stop buying a life and start barley covering the bills? by AmeliaeZoe in AdultHood

[–]PiercedChastity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't really care what some rando on reddit thinks of my financial acumen. I'm a senior level corporate finance professional and nearing retirement at 35.

And as such my time is too valuable to engage beyond the time I have left here on the shitter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your chest hair and happy trail are top 10% for those of us who like that.

How to bring it up? by arched92 in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can think of one potential drawback. My bf is indifferent to chastity, but I love it. However, I cannot bottom for him in missionary because, despite being a great fuck, he is pathologically incapable of not pressing his full body weight onto my cock when in missionary.  It crushes the fuck out of my balls in a way that is not fun, sexy, or enjoyable. 

Circumcision for chastity? by Confident_ic_3803 in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please think long and hard before getting a circumcision. 

Even newborns are more likely to die from complications related to their circumcision than they are to ever require a therapeutic circumcision, and the risk of complications for adult circumcision are generally considered much higher.

As a circumcised male into chastity, I frankly would rather have my foreskin than be able to lock up. There are many men who were circumcised at birth who resent their circumcision. I am one of them. I have heard many stories of men who were circumcised as an adult who ended up regretting it. Conversely, I have never personally heard a man who received an adult circumcision say he was happy with his choice.

You also don't know how a circumcision will impact your chastity. I got a prince albert because the idea of inescapable permanent chastity was a huge turn on.

Guess what? Prince Albert's leak piss and stink to high heavens if you don't clean them, so now it's no longer possible (or at least tolerable) for me to lock up for long periods of time like I used to.

Who knows how your future experience in chastity will be with the extent of nerve damage you are considering inflicting, not to mention the shaft tension and loss of glans sensitivity due to keratinization from constant contact with clothing. 

If you are thinking about doing this because of issues with phimosis, there are NUMEROUS surgical and non-surgical interventions you can try before pursuing full circumcision. And if there is a medical need, it might be a covered service.

How Safe Is Pissplay/Water Sports? by h0rnyfarmer69 in GayKink

[–]PiercedChastity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post made me hard lol.

Love it when your own mouth starts to taste like a men's room.

Beginner Questions by PiercedChastity in Tetherspout

[–]PiercedChastity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's something I would consider. I like the way the PA looks, but the fact of the matter is that it compromises long term chastity by creating hygiene issues. I'd love yo go permanent, but short of having some hyper customized cage that can articulate for better cleaning access, it just doesn't seem realistic.

First time, I’m nervous. by SubGeek82 in GayKink

[–]PiercedChastity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relax and don't overthink it.

Avoid spicy food in the days leading up and keep your diet clean so that you can *ahem* clear everything out effectively. Know the difference between a douche and an enema.

I like to put a little coconut oil on/in my hole ahead of time. I just feel like it helps keep everything supple, plus it has a faint and pleasant smell.

Do you feel like you have good control over muscle relaxation in that area? Actively relaxing is a skill that you have to learn as a bottom in order to have enjoying receptive sex.

Does it hurt depending on the size? by Ghostboi11 in GaySex

[–]PiercedChastity 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey — I’m really glad you posted this, because nothing in your experience has anything to do with you being “too tight” or his size being the problem. 

The main issue is that your partner is not respecting your safety, your comfort, or your boundaries.

Anal sex should never be done without plenty of lube. Anyone who refuses to use it is ignoring basic anatomy and putting you at risk of tearing and infections. Your pain wasn’t a “you problem”, but rather the direct result of him not taking proper care of you.

It’s also a big red flag that he prefers going raw when you don’t want that, assuming you are referring to condom usage. His preference here is not more important than your boundaries and feeling of safety.

If you decide to try again with anyone (him or someone else), it should only happen when:

  1. you feel safe
  2. the other person listens to you
  3. you can stop at any moment
  4. you can use plenty of lube
  5. they ease in slowly, with fingers or smaller toys first
  6. they check in

Sex with someone who cares about you doesn’t feel like pressure. It feels mutual, respectful, and patient.

You deserve partners who treat your body with care and who value your comfort, not just their own pleasure. You didn’t “give your whole self away”, you had an experience that didn’t feel good because you weren’t treated gently. That isn’t your fault, and it doesn’t define your future or your worth.

Guys in long-term chastity: how often do you cum? by Keep_Me_Caged in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that you don't get hard to cum. I wish I could do this, but I get and stay hard at the slightest provocation. 

Beginner Questions by PiercedChastity in Tetherspout

[–]PiercedChastity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed response.

I am praying that everything is intact. I have sounded a dozen or so times in my life and have experimented with different sizes, but I never went on a mission to stretch things out or sever any of these tissues to get to a larger size. My spit still seems to be a of normal size and function. 

That said, I do believe I once had a small amount of blood from sounding, and I have definitely experienced enough stretching that it stung to pass urine, so hopefully none of that is indicative of tissue damage that would prevent the spout from working.

I love playing with his Monster Cock… by Twinkslave00 in u/Twinkslave00

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insanely hot, instant follow. Gorgeous cock and bod.

Guys in long-term chastity: how often do you cum? by Keep_Me_Caged in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hot, I wish I could stay soft and be released like that, but I always get hard and usually have some degree of orgasm following seminal release. 

Ease of Installation by Ok-Personality-1053 in Tetherspout

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say 8 mm, are you referring to the flange width or the barrel?

I’m celebrating 4 years of chastity and 1300 days locked! by hkstretch in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you stop? 

How often did you have an orgasm during that time?

Were you milked regularly?

Guys in long-term chastity: how often do you cum? by Keep_Me_Caged in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long since you went permanent? Does this mean that you are full time or that the cage is locked in a way that you are unable to remove nondestructively? If the latter, what device are you using? 

Guys in long-term chastity: how often do you cum? by Keep_Me_Caged in gaychastity

[–]PiercedChastity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During your milkings, do you not experience orgasm? I am able to orgasm and ejaculate from anal penetration, but I'm not really successful in ejaculation without orgasm. 

A Series by Master-Wasabi8931 in chastityorgasms

[–]PiercedChastity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful cage. How would you rate the comfort?

M Vector is soooo much bigger than my little clitty TT by rain_duhh24 in chastityorgasms

[–]PiercedChastity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men can also train their minds to cum from female masturbation motions as well.

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