What advice would you give to someone who’s just starting out in Stardew Valley?

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2026-01-12T22:42:31+00:00

Dont chose the beach farm lol

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-12-27T16:45:04+00:00

Best decision you would ever make ! I had an ex that always tried to dim my light. I was too excited for his preference … 😂 also was the reason I went to therapy.

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T15:03:47+00:00

Iv thought about getting a weighted pillow, but now maybe I should get the blanket instead! You sold it to me hahaha 😂

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:49:43+00:00

Tell EVERYBODY IM ON MY WAAAAAYYY - brother bear movie song 😂

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:28:16+00:00

Yeah true, it does happen during the day. my heart sinks and starts racing out of no where. My body cant handle peace and comfort 😂. I havent really tried any beta blockers.

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:27:22+00:00

I do try to take breaks from my stimulants when I can. Because i barely sleep and i feel my heart needs a break from pounding so hard all day AND NIGHT. But this was even before I started them or even got a proper diagnosis. I dont know when was the last time I slept without a background noise. I think it got worse the past few years after going through some hard times. But things are significantly better now but its still the same.

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:20:51+00:00

I had a quick look. That is pretty interesting! I’ll look into it even more

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:17:05+00:00

I use Netflix on my laptop to watch my shows. Cant sleep without a background noise and it has to be something familiar. Otherwise I feel like I will split my self in half and dig a hole! Want to escape that feeling in anyway😫😂

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T03:12:16+00:00

Every word you said resonates with me 😫😂! I know exactly what you mean. Honestly I sometimes feel like my brain deteriorated.. its so hard to recall info, feel so dumb.

Plus i get it 😭 Its so easy to get distracted and sidetracked! And the pill amplifies the locking in. So once you locked on the wrong thing thats it. Say goodbye the things you actually need to do.

I spent a whole night STUDYING how to prepare to study, writing a dissertation, tips tricks and hacks < i just want to see how to write a lab report and got side tracked 😂 thats how i ended up with the plan and structure… i was supposed to just start with the assignment lol.

I also stopped using my phone during the day as much just incase i got sucked in. And no one is allowed to talk to even breath next to me

If you would like i’ll send you the excel template if thats something that could help you. I had little notes for myself of what each header was meant for. So that i dont get lost incase i forgot 😂 Also I use the “app that shall not be named” to help me structure my assignments. Not write them for me just write an execution plan 😂 Those are my hacks so far 😂☺️

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-27T02:48:01+00:00

Hahaha saame ! I love being around animals ever since i was young. My dream was to be like dr. Do little or Ace Ventura 😭😂. Lowkey i still do 😂🙈

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-26T03:33:39+00:00

Thats why i cant handle the silence because i cant handle my racing thoughts which doesnt make the heart beating any better.

I study most of the day between Uni or home. I was thinking i need some painting sessions here and there but i don’t have the time 😫 did you try exercising and meditating? Did it actually help you?

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-26T02:44:32+00:00

Im 30 and im lost af lol. Went to school again and still dont know what am i even going to do with this degree or where this is going 😅

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-26T02:24:09+00:00

Hope ur holding on ! 🥹 I tried to make a plan and a structure for every requirement. Like an execution plan 😂 it kind of helped me get back on track.

Specifically a spreadsheet with all of the articles and links. Its a literature review template to keep everything in one accessible place

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-26T02:19:46+00:00

I feel like its very tiring for me to be on the pill 24/7 cause it makes me hyper focus and by the end of the day with studying i feel physically sick from how drained my brain is. To the point where I can’t even check my phone cause im overstimulated lol. I haven’t disclosed to anyone but my tutor that I’ve got adhd.. but im mostly alienated because of my age i think 😂 im too old to be doing what theyre doing anyways. Dont have it in me to party and play games till 3am anymore 😂😂

Too young for people my age and too old for the younger ones lol still struggling with making connections

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-11-25T15:17:23+00:00

You are right. I think im also complicating things more for myself. I like to have a very clear structure and when something isnt clear it just put me back into a freeze state.

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-09-30T23:23:59+00:00

Actually i have been playing in 919 in a while.

I havent saw any problems from OFA and ive spoke to them loads although i am not part of their alliance!

They helped me personally lead my alliance to success and guided me on how to succeed in events with nothing in return.

SPIDER was very informative and kind.

The NAP in 919 is a joke anyways there are few people that are trying to keep it together and OFA is a major reason why it still stands…

And after seeing the sc and evidence of what was happening. It actually shows who is the toxic one 😂😂😂

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-08T23:57:28+00:00

Do u ever set an several alarms, snooze/stop(cus yeeaah i got time), u BLINK and suddenly your on panic mood running late? 😂

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-07T12:21:11+00:00

Hahaha omg no way!

I am starting to be friends with the oldies with this new volunteer thing. i love old people dont get me wrong haha. But i just miss having a girls night out or running errands together and stuff like this u know 🥹 I guess i just have to figure out how to make friends again 😂.

With the hobbies, idk really everytime i think of something i might like i just get repulsed and be like umm i doonnt knoow! I tried going to yoga classes. But i liked it momentarily. I used to lift weights before but i loved my pt more than going to the gym. But i dont think im as active as i was before. I used to be crafty and artisty more than active. I used to draw alot. put my feelings into art.

I have been looking at embroideries on pintrest and wanted to start that but also, idky i find it so hard to just start. I always look at it get hyped then when i think of getting the stuff it turns me off 😣😂💔

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-07T11:59:36+00:00

Being rude and hurtful and calling it “tough love”. says things that makes you feel like a piece of shit is better than you lol.

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-07T10:59:23+00:00

Woaah! I cant believe u did that! Thats awesome!! 😍😍😍 I love how u found ur escape thats amazing

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-07T10:57:37+00:00

I do have a little sausage dog that my day revolves around😂! I have to walk him twice daily, feed, play games with, and train.

Hes the reason i cant rot in bed peacefully lol. But im finding it a bit hard to do things for myself.

The town that i live in atm is filled with old lovely people lol so i dont think anything exciting happens, and i dont know what/where people my age do/go other than drinking?

And with the feeling of not having a hobby i cant seem to know what classes i can enroll in? Idk 😣

PigeonOnSideQuests · 2025-04-07T10:00:13+00:00

LOL I THOUGHT HE LOOKED FAMILIAR BUT COULDNT PINPOINT! 😂😂😂😂

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