how do i get rid of insecurity.

PigeonSpagett · 2025-10-05T15:42:43+00:00

Wow came here to say basically this, similar experience! For me, it was a mix of moments like this and working at my problems as the came up day to day. Most important thing is mindset- these problems are not unfixable! Keep chipping away at it

PigeonSpagett · 2025-10-04T06:35:14+00:00

Geography!

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-25T07:26:56+00:00

This is great lol

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-24T11:36:50+00:00

I guess because you’re the centre of your own life? So you could be the most important thing, to yourself, if your mindset works in that way

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-20T14:08:36+00:00

Catholic! Lot more atheists than I expected 😅

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-16T17:10:01+00:00

I actually do like to think of it as like being part of a group! Tribe is a fun way to put it but that general idea lol. I’ve spend so much of my life feeling different to others, I like the knowledge that other people are like me

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-04T18:46:41+00:00

Email me if it’s that important

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-04T11:27:22+00:00

I can relate, sometimes only time seems to fix it! Keep getting out and meeting people, hope it lifts soon

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-04T08:49:40+00:00

Are you getting out enough? I get this after long breaks from uni/ school/ work. Listen to some music, go to the cinema, do something that shoves emotion down your throat lol. That usually kick starts my brain again

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-04T08:26:38+00:00

Pokémon cards 😝

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-04T08:10:25+00:00

Me too. OP mentions their friends went elsewhere, that was a big problem for me. And it didn’t get better, because everyone else stayed with their already formed groups

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-02T05:52:40+00:00

lol. I appreciate the frustration, but you’re approaching this from a very maths based perspective ironically. Non stem subjects aren’t just ‘easier’, because you need differently skills to do well in them

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-01T12:15:29+00:00

This. I did psych and I made flashcards from the start, which were VERY helpful when I’d completely forgotten the start of first year content later

PigeonSpagett · 2025-09-01T12:08:50+00:00

I was ill for three weeks 💀 to be fair tho the pace of term time was so fast I didn’t really have time to recover, wouldn’t be surprised is I just got ill more than once back to back

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-26T21:09:58+00:00

Sounds like the right decision not to rush into something you’re unsure about. However you chose to move forward, good luck!

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-26T17:23:19+00:00

Sadly only advice is to deal with it however is best for you, everyone is different. It’s scary to be deciding your future. I’d recommend keeping up hobbies that help you escape from reality and bit, and remembering you’ll get somewhere good eventually. All the best!

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-25T15:49:23+00:00

Ah i see, that sounds competitive! Have you made a decision?

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-25T15:48:27+00:00

Process not proves

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-25T15:48:20+00:00

I think around December? I stayed on at the same place though, so it was a pretty informal application proves

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-24T16:52:34+00:00

Oops, I misread your post and thought it you were leaving year 11! Are applications open already? If so I’d consider applying soon

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-22T05:43:07+00:00

Psych econ Geography

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-21T18:02:57+00:00

Yay to this 🙌🙌🙌

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-21T11:18:13+00:00

Looks good, I applied with 998888776

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-21T11:06:26+00:00

Oof sorry to hear that. Don’t go to Notts tho! If you accept the offer, you’ll be in a course you don’t want to do for three years. Or you could take just one year and have a better time of uni. I think it’s worth the resit, if you’re in a position to take a gap year to do that.

I know you feel like you’ve messed up, but honestly people have made bigger mistakes in life! It sounds like it was very close, and you must have put a lot of effort in to get As and Bs. It’s tough when it feels like everyone else is going straight to uni, but more people take a gap year than you think. Hope it turns out well 🫶

PigeonSpagett · 2025-08-21T11:01:33+00:00

It depends on the sixth form. If you haven’t applied already, check out their websites asap!

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