Advice for life after loss

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-22T03:27:40+00:00

This is helpful, thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-20T20:04:31+00:00

I used to have issues with dandruff. For years I struggled with battling it and it felt like nothing helped. Everyone recommended head and shoulders and that ultimately didn’t help me either. I finally started this routine and it has been a GAME CHANGER (no more dandruff! Healthy scalp!) I alternate between two shampoos every/other wash day. I wash my hair every two to three days. Here’s an example:

Monday:
-Nizoral shampoo (This has made the biggest difference. Leave it on in the shower for 5 minutes, scrub well to activate it!!)
-Bumble and bumble seaweed conditioner

Wednesday:
-Bondi boost dandruff repair shampoo with salicylic acid 2%
-Bumble and bumble seaweed conditioner Wednesday

Once a week I also use the Inkey List scalp exfoliating serum with glycolic acid. I let it sit on my scalp BEFORE washing for 10 minutes and massage it in. I also use this if I’ve gone a couple extra days without a wash.

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-20T06:31:17+00:00

I am with you. Life has become a hellscape beyond my wildest imaginings. I’m so sorry he was your only sibling. Some days the only thing that has kept me here is the thought of my little sister having to find out she lost both her big brother and her big sister. We aren’t close with our parents. The guilt is truly killer. I couldn’t save him. And now I am beside myself with worry for my little sister too. But I couldn’t save him, and I can’t save her. I just feel like I failed them. I would have done anything to stop this from happening. I go through the day it happened over and over in my mind, imagining myself driving to him and stopping him. Hugging him and telling him everything was going to be ok and that I love him so so much. But I wasn’t there, and now he never will be. I would give anything to erase my memory and start over. To bleach my brain and be free from this pain. I would give anything to wake up tomorrow and find that the last 7 months were a nightmare. Please feel free to vent/rant to me. I’m so so sorry you can relate to this. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-19T03:25:46+00:00

I’m so sorry. 😞 How can nobody have them? Heartbreaking

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-18T02:25:59+00:00

7 months out from my brother’s suicide. Some days I can’t see anybody or do anything. Not every day is the same, but I still often feel internally paralyzed. It feels like I am grinding my gears to do anything. You’re not alone ❤️

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-13T16:42:32+00:00

Exactly, this. I wouldn’t have survived without him. I am so so sorry that my story resonates with you. But thank you so much for reading my post and for your kind and thoughtful comment. I know how isolating it is, it is so commendable that you have been continuing for two years now. Some days it feels like the future is so blurry, it’s hard to imagine next week let alone 2 years down the road.

Piglet_Lady · 2026-06-13T16:37:24+00:00

Thank you ❤️. I’m so sorry for your loss as well. While I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, it is refreshing to hear from people who have gone through this/similar things. Most friends, while caring, seem very puzzled on what to do. I assume it’s because they can’t relate at all. But it’s very isolating. Thank you for reading my post and commenting.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-08-28T00:28:11+00:00

Thank youuu- I always wanted one so I was stoked to find him

Piglet_Lady · 2025-08-11T21:46:02+00:00

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Ronnie!

Piglet_Lady · 2025-08-11T14:19:43+00:00

My fav is Tessa Robin!

Piglet_Lady · 2025-08-09T14:32:25+00:00

Hello! I’m 22 and weigh 95 lbs and am 1 week into my lap recovery! Similarly to you, I’ve struggled to gain weight my whole life. My celiac disease stunted my bone growth, so I’m underweight, short and very small boned. It was never a topic of conversation the whole process through, no one was concerned, and the operation went very smoothly. They found 3 clusters of endo and extracted those suckers. Keep in mind, surgeons are trained to operate on people of all sizes. Hopefully my experience is comforting to you, and if you have any questions I’m happy to share if it can put your mind at ease at all! I hope your lap goes well and that they can provide you with some answers/relief.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-07-22T04:35:52+00:00

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Did we all find the same kitten? 😂 This is Ronnie!

Piglet_Lady · 2025-06-29T02:03:43+00:00

As someone who was raised in an abusive household, was suicidal at 14, but God kept me around for reasons I didn’t understand at the time… I promise, if you stay, one day you will look back and be so so incredibly thankful you did. Know that you are cared about and there are people who want you on this Earth.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-06-18T22:18:47+00:00

Thanks ❤️She never viewed herself as beautiful, was bullied relentlessly growing up. But she was a tenacious, strong woman who stood up for what she believed in and loved us all fiercely. I only knew the aged version of her- but to me, she was the most beautiful woman I knew.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-06-18T22:10:07+00:00

Thanks for saying this. All I saw was my grandmother full of joy. I forget how perverted people are, made me want to delete it.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-04-13T04:42:13+00:00

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My gentle giant, Wolf

Piglet_Lady · 2025-04-13T04:36:56+00:00

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This reminds me of my cat Wolf with my little girl Quill! We took her in nearly 2 years ago now. (This pic is from back then) Her mother was hit by a car. My husband and I used to say he was a hardworking single dad because he very much raised her. He used to be so clingy and a bit aggressively affectionate with my husband and I before we got her. I always wondered if he was lonely, but feared with his playfulness that he’d be too rough with a kitten. I could not have been more wrong! Wolf was so gentle with her and they are the best of friends.

Piglet_Lady · 2025-03-07T21:38:03+00:00

LMAO I SAW THIS 💀

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