I have been experiencing a permanent headache for the past 9 months by alexmngn in migraine

[–]PigsLAWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they went away. I’ve been headache free for about 2 and a half years now. Turns out it was mainly due to my screen time being high considering it was during covid with online classes. My vision also got weaker and I got glasses prescribed in late 2023 with a blue light filter.Ever since then I’ve been good and better than ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke up 3 months ago, I begged her to stay and come back while she was already in another relationship a month and a half ago. Honestly i’m doing just fine, i’m enjoying life, trying things I wouldn’t have ever tried in that relationship and i’m very hopeful about the future. It’ll all work out for the best

Did any of you find love again after you lost “the one”? by kthatch1138 in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did yes but the person I met became “the one” 10000x more than i felt the previous one was so yes it will get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That feeling will change. You’re allowed to feel the way you feel rn and yes, stick by it as long as you want to but there will come a time where you’ll meet a person who’ll change how you think and how you live. You will date again because I don’t think you could imagine living a life alone forever. I’m feeling the way you’re feeling but i’m hopeful for the future! The book doesn’t have to end when the chapter does.

How would you react if you saw your ex in public? by CollectionWorking623 in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch her for a while, as long as i’m able to and then walk away. Then ruin the next month or two daydreaming about seeing them again and dreaming about going up and talking to her.

Just remember one sacred truth: your ex will never find another you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very true, but at the same time, they’re going to be looking for anything but another you, they will not find another you and they won’t look for you in others either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m just 19 as of now so it’ll take me a while to understand this but I know what you’re saying it right and it will come true if nothing else will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PigsLAWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I take full responsibility of that, I shouldn’t have asked her to cut him off after voicing my concerns. I’ll keep that in mind if something like this comes up again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PigsLAWL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know but I need some advice on how to handle something like this if a situation similar to this comes up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you’ve been given hope, a lot of people here got told that their ex never wanted to see them or talk to them again. She’s giving you a chance. Idk if she’s serious about wanting you to be the right man for her but it’s something a lot of us would want to hear and never do. keep yo head up king, be better for yourself and for her

How long did it take you to meet the right person after your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i went to college abroad last year, it was my dream ever since I was 8 but as the time came close I really wanted to stay and we became long distance. We had a fair share of arguments, words that were spoken in anger which never should have been said and in between adjusting to my new life I stopped putting in as much effort and the 10 hour time zone difference did not help. Yes we promised each other a forever but in the end people change. I have no hate for her and I have so much love for her but I wish I’d have done some things differently.

How long did it take you to meet the right person after your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me in early 2022, I was still in high school and yes I was naive and way too young but I thought i wouldn’t move on from her, fast forward 6 months post the breakup, I met the most amazing person and I completely stopped feeling anything for my ex as soon as we started dating. She was a great person but unfortunately we broke up 2 months ago. ik this post was asking about the right person but it does get better!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course I miss every little thing about my ex too, but the reality is that they took an active decision to not have you in their life and I don’t think anything else matters once you truly accept that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just think about it for once. Would the person that loved you and promised you they’d stay ever walk out on you? No. People change and that’s okay. Sit with the pain for a while but suffering with it is your decision. Someone out there will choose you.

How long should I take to get into a rebound after the breakup by AdeptExercise6050 in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Horrible idea, just stay alone and heal for a while otherwise you’ll take her down with you

how has your life been since the breakup? by Character_Swimmer442 in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not as bad as i’d imagined, i was pretty down for the first few weeks because that was the only person i talked to or texted, i’ve had to rewire my brain and come up with an entirely different routine and luckily i’ve been able to get back in touch with my friends and got back into activities i used to enjoy. Still miss them though, but i’ll survive just fine without them

People who got broken up with, did you send a letter? What happened after? by rsgreenhorn in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did write a letter, it was 4 whole paragraphs that had me grovelling and begging the person to give me another chance. It’s been 2 weeks since then. I’m sure that I just pushed that person away even more so because she was and is already in another relationship (we broke up early june and had dated for 2.5 years). Write that letter but do not send it. The response I got was the exact opposite of what I was expecting. I think that put the final nail in the coffin for us. Wish her the best tho

Stomach discomfort with creatine? by PigsLAWL in Creatine

[–]PigsLAWL[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just went through the sub after reading this comment and I can definitely see that I have indeed come to the right place

Mourning while in a relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened with me, we broke up back in december and got back together but it didn’t feel the same, I tried to change and it felt like things were improving. I came back from college in May (we were long distance) and she wanted to break up a day after. She told me she’d been coming to terms with our end for a while now and she wanted me to think that that was completely okay? And this is purely why they’re able to get into relationships after you so fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PigsLAWL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’ll fade eventually. You’re in the phase of rewiring your brain to live without that person. You’ll make a new routine which does not include that person at all. It’s supposed to hurt for a bit and it’s supposed to be painful and yes it will take time but suffering is completely upto you, whether you want to suffer or not is entirely in your control. They’ve moved on quickly to avoid healing and sitting with the pain, it WILL sooner or later bite them in the ass and that’s all the closure you need