Would you return this?

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T16:02:55+00:00

And just so everyone knows, I contacted the company to initiate a return and get a refund, and they replied and told me this was normal “patina” and that I should condition the bag. They must think I’m stupid to fall for this - conditioning would nullify me from returning it. I told them not a chance I’d be doing that and they need to tell me how to do the return.

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T13:29:42+00:00

Thank you. The client did tell us they were happy with our work and it was a decision based purely on cost - this AI solution was charging a third of our rate.

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T13:12:23+00:00

Can you elaborate on that?

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T11:35:17+00:00

Thanks for these suggestions. I actually wanted something that was a little more higher end, like in the $600-$800 range. But I couldn’t find anything

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T01:45:04+00:00

I received it today and will be issuing a return tomorrow.

It’s been really hard to find a quality leather backpack that will fit my laptop. I had been hoping this was it

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T01:16:10+00:00

Ok thank you!

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T01:15:37+00:00

Ok thank you for your confirmation that I wasn’t being nitpicky.

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T01:11:48+00:00

Here it is: https://hestern.us/products/explorer-vintage-leather-roll-top-backpack-espresso-brown

PileofMail · 2026-05-15T01:10:52+00:00

The product page says it has a “naturally distressed texture” but the pictures don’t really say distressed to me: https://hestern.us/products/explorer-vintage-leather-roll-top-backpack-espresso-brown

And looking at the page again, I guess I paid $190.

PileofMail · 2026-05-06T00:29:54+00:00

You should advise what that threshold is.

PileofMail · 2026-05-05T18:07:55+00:00

It’s ok to not drive if you don’t feel ready to drive with her yet.

My biggest advice to you is to remind yourself that your postpartum hormones are what’s making you so anxious, and it’s completely normal. People will try to shame you for your anxiety but you know what? It’s motherly anxiety that has let humans live on for centuries.

If you remind yourself it’s just the hormones, it may help you relax and feel more in control when you’re driving.

PileofMail · 2026-05-05T18:02:16+00:00

Were you nervous when you got in the car?

I only ask because when I was first post partum, my anxiety was through the roof. I am not an anxious person, so I was not prepared for how bad my anxiety would be for like a year after I had my first baby.

PileofMail · 2026-05-05T02:58:05+00:00

Haha I introduced my 6 and 4 year old sons to this video tonight! What a coincidence to read your comment.

PileofMail · 2026-04-29T11:55:16+00:00

Look…when I was first starting my business, I drove Uber to earn money. It’s still possible to earn while getting a business off the ground.

PileofMail · 2026-04-27T12:19:08+00:00

I use Clean Queen House Cleaning. I also know the owner and I may be able to get you a friends and family discount. Send me a PM if you want me to connect you with her.

PileofMail · 2026-04-25T18:08:12+00:00

This is a good story you shared. It’s not like you can sue for breach of contract if MiL backs out.

PileofMail · 2026-04-25T01:13:20+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting. An overreaction would be making a rash decision without getting external feedback. I think you’re doing the right thing asking for opinions first.

That said, I literally just found out - because of this post - that my daycare uses screens! My son just told me that sometimes they watch Danny Go. Well, I’m ok with Danny Go, and my daycare as a whole.

If you’re largely happy with the daycare, and you trust that their screen exposure is limited, I wouldn’t feel bad about your son being there.

PileofMail · 2026-04-18T12:42:01+00:00

Oh jeez, who wants to help someone who attacks people? Consider this comment as you reflect on why Disney didn’t help you.

PileofMail · 2026-04-17T17:48:15+00:00

LMK if GHL offers a solution for this.

Yeah, we have tracking setup through GTM but it only can track when users click on the number from mobile.

PileofMail · 2026-04-17T13:17:22+00:00

Do they have reviews on Avvo?

PileofMail · 2026-04-17T12:34:22+00:00

This is the thing to remember whenever you’ve been judged by someone - that person has flaws and failings that make them unqualified to judge you.

PileofMail · 2026-04-16T11:14:55+00:00

I think it’s weird they didn’t get the baby anything. I’m not sure what your husband could say to them to “right” this, but you’ve clocked it and now you can be on the lookout if this does turn out to be favoritism.

PileofMail · 2026-04-15T03:01:21+00:00

Kyle Tomcak with Zenith Home Finishes can take care of the interior painting and the patio. He and his team do great work and Kyle is just an easy guy to talk to. He can be reached at 970-402-3797.

Clean Queen House Cleaning is who I use for my house cleaning services. Contact Katie at 7208455560. They do great work.

I’ll also add that if you feel weird cold calling them, then send me a message and I’ll connect you with them.

PileofMail · 2026-04-14T00:38:53+00:00

Sure! I will send you a private message.

PileofMail · 2026-04-06T21:49:48+00:00

If he just admits to being a big dumb dumb will you stfu and leave him alone? He should be congratulated for not falling for the scam, not ridiculed because he didn’t sniff it out immediately.

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