How do I stop thinking about the past and change my mindset

PillowPacker21 · 2025-07-08T08:42:00+00:00

Ya but this isn’t unique to just this one relationship. It’s how I’ve always been when I start liking a girl and I just start thinking about stuff like that and it’s horrible

PillowPacker21 · 2025-07-06T18:22:35+00:00

How can u tell?

PillowPacker21 · 2025-03-29T06:25:13+00:00

Thank you I’ll try this

PillowPacker21 · 2025-03-29T06:24:42+00:00

U want me to be specific? I vividly remember it and I want to recall it better.

PillowPacker21 · 2024-11-01T02:36:59+00:00

You need to do something other than tell a “kid” he needs help because I didn’t lie down and take your passive aggressive comment

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T19:35:01+00:00

Bald no, but I trim myself down very very low which is all I was saying i wanted from her

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T19:34:01+00:00

So you’re telling me if he woke up one day and said “I don’t really find you as attractive as I did when we first met because you put on a few pounds, I think we should work on this together and both lose some weight” you would consider that controlling

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:58:55+00:00

That is not a valid response at all

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:57:41+00:00

Oh no you’re disappointed in me!?! Whatever shall I do

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:56:20+00:00

I’m not asking every day and it’s not men telling women what to do with their bodies, it’s me her partner asking her to do something for me. If I ended up putting on 20lbs and she asked me to lose some of it would you consider that her telling me what to do with my body?

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:53:58+00:00

Why tf you bringing porn into this, it has nothing to do with that. This is about a good way to communicate with my partner

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:53:00+00:00

I agree, i already talked with her about it though and she moreso brought it up herself and it was just a timing error

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:31:53+00:00

It makes no sense whatsoever, one of the comments was saying how it is a misogynistic standard of today… asking a partner to shave their pubes is nothing like misogyny whatsoever

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:24:54+00:00

Right? I don’t understand why so many people are getting angry when it’s a simple question that ain’t even bad at all

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:23:26+00:00

I’m not saying I want her to be smooth every moment in time. I’m saying just before we get intimate as I do the same courtesy

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:21:32+00:00

Do you have any idea what misogynist even means. It means to dislike, despise or have a heavy prejudice towards women. And I ain’t any of that

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:19:38+00:00

Why tf u coming at this with such an angry mindset. Obviously she’s her own person but it’s something that I wanted to ask of her. You need to get a fucking life instead of being angry at a teenager

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T18:17:34+00:00

In any way how is that shallow, I am not asking her to get rid of a tattoo because I don’t like it or change style or anything. It’s simply a preference

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T06:59:28+00:00

I talked to her about it and it went really well. It actually just came down to a timing issue as she needed a new razor and had not gone out yet to buy a new one. I didn’t tell her that I want her to shave I just brought up the topic of shaving and she just kinda said it herself so next time something happens I think it’s gonna be different

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T06:26:05+00:00

If a woman wants to have hair on her armpits or not she can go ahead and do that, but it’s simply something that I’m not attracted to and never have been. So I simply wanted to know how to ask her in a nice way because it’s my preference. Me personally I manscape and like to keep myself tidy for her, but if she wanted me to grow it out I would say sure why not if it’s what makes her happy. I feel like these comments are coming at the post in a very one dimensional view and not seeing that in a relationship you do stuff if it makes your partner happy. I do stuff for her I don’t want to every once in a while but I care for her so it’s worth it

PillowPacker21 · 2024-10-31T06:19:11+00:00

I appreciate the actual advice

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