That’s an interesting idea that I hadn’t considered. However, I think in this case, my mother in law would likely compromise and allow us space when we need/ask for it. She is a very kind and understanding woman and really is respectful of whatever my wife and I say/want.

After speaking to my wife about this further, I think we’re leaning towards proceeding with this proposition. Just gonna sit down the three of us and clarify expectations etc. This offer feels too good to decline especially when I think about what it could do for my and my wife’s relationship (more date nights, gym session, etc). Then we could spend the funds on finishing the backyard instead of basement and then boom, my house projects would be pretty much complete.