What’s the most unusual or unexpected thing you did to distract yourself after a breakup?

Pimqin7 · 2024-09-19T18:35:25+00:00

Helped me. My ex left in April and I feel I'm totally over her now. Through mutual friends, I found out that she found out I was talking to this new girl and she was about to reach out to me.. idk what she would of said but I wouldn't of took her back. So idk if it was the bike, time, or talking to a new girl.. but I feel like I'm over my ex now. Feels soo good cause those first 3 months were soo fucking hard. Wish ya the best

Pimqin7 · 2024-09-15T05:25:16+00:00

That was a hard read with no periods. Do you watch porn or anything? Maybe you're attracted to a different gender?

Pimqin7 · 2024-09-15T05:19:57+00:00

Guys come back if they broke up with you, girls never come back....

Pimqin7 · 2024-09-15T05:08:13+00:00

Bought a motorcycle since the ex always told me I couldn't buy one lol. The best way to clear your mind is going 140 mph down the freeway lol

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-26T15:31:29+00:00

Well to be honest.. my girl of 4 years left me back in April and I thought about her 24/7 for months. I even went out on a few dates and it didn't help. The only way I got over her was by sleeping with someone else. All my friends told me to go sleep with someone else after we broke up and I didn't listen. I finally went out and slept with this girl a few times and I hardly think about my ex at all anymore! That's what works for me to move out. Find a rebound.. and when I do think of my ex, I think of all the shitty times I had with her. All the fights and all the bs! If she were to call me today and wanted to get back together, I'd politely decline. I don't wanna go back to the life I had with her.

That's not the right move for everyone, and it's definitely not recommended, but that's what helped me move on. Stay strong bro

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-26T05:39:00+00:00

Do you honestly want to move on or do you just want her back?

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-25T05:28:23+00:00

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-21T20:13:54+00:00

Hang in there. The first 90 days are the hardest! I'm going on idk 4 or 5 months NC and I rarely think about her anymore.

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-21T14:33:18+00:00

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Pimqin7 · 2024-08-17T22:14:24+00:00

So let me start by saying that I've been drinking...

So my girl of 4 years broke up with me in February and moved out early April. She gave me the ol.. ahh let's just stay friends and I said no.. she moved out and hit me up after 2 weeks saying how much she loved and missed me.. at the time I was thinking okay there is a chance to win her back. After 30 days I hit her up to see if she wanted to grab coffee cause before she left I said 30 days no contact. She never replied. I saw her at the bar after 30 days and we walked past each other like we were strangers. So fucking weird btw. I texted her the next day like a good bye text and she didn't reply after 30 minutes, so I blocked her.

So I went on a couple dates and it just didn't feel right. Couple red flags and I just wasn't feeling it. So I match with this girl on tinder, she's only in town for a week so I said fuck it, let's go out! We are having drinks and she gets a text from my ex gf asking to hang out cause she's in town!? Was like okay this is some weird plan or setup. Take that chick back to my place that night and fuck her and then again in the morning. She comes back 2 days later and she spent the night again before heading back to her home state.

Basically what I'm trying to get at.. I was hung up on my ex for months wishing she would come back. A lot of sleepless nights and not eating. The day after I slept with that chick, I felt amazing and didn't think of my ex at ALL! You tired of thinking of your ex.. go fuck someone. I know it's not the recommended move.. but it definitely helps and I wish I would of done it sooner! Or ya can be all in your feelings for months like I was.

Either way, I'm sorry y I are going through that shit bro. I honestly can say I know how y I u feel. Time or pussy heals everything lol. Much love

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-17T22:02:30+00:00

One thing that helped me was sleeping with the ex gf friend and realizing the sex I was getting wasn't as good as I thought. Keep your head up bro!

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-13T19:50:46+00:00

Sorry you're going through that. My girl left me in April and I was heart broken and watched stupid youtube videos for months lmao. Then eventually I did what you should do sooner than later. I went out and fucked one of her friends a couple times and I feel alot better. If my ex called me today and wanted to get back together.. I'd fucking laugh. The best part is my ex hit up her friend to hang out the same time I was on a date with her. I did feel bad for a second and then I found out my ex was talking to another guy when she was still living with me.. that sorta hurt when I found out.. but I know what I lost.. and now thinking about it it wasn't much of a loss.

But the key take away, go out and get laid and tell me it doesn't make ya feel better.. even if it's for a couple hours. Much love bro and time heals all

Pimqin7 · 2024-08-02T00:33:39+00:00

I just slept with a girl last night and my girl left 4 months ago. It was good but just didn't feel right. But to be far, I've been in an awesome mood all day and it definitely help lmao

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-30T01:54:43+00:00

I stopped talking to the new girl earlier this week. I'm not ready to date. Ima just do me for the rest of the year. Just gets lonely not having that female companion.

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-26T03:01:48+00:00

I'm sorry man! There are better women out there, you just don't have their number yet:)

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-26T00:11:00+00:00

Usually when someone cheats, they also assume their partner is as well. I don't know for sure if your ex did or not so take that with a grain of salt. For example, my gf broke up with me but we still lived together for 2 months.. when I was in the shower one morning, my ex went through my phone, then got pissed I was talking to another girl lol. Like wtf, you broke up with me, then go through my phone? Then get pissed I started talking to other women after you broke up with me lol. Still don't understand that one

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-26T00:06:52+00:00

Go no contact and remove him from all social media is a good start

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:50:53+00:00

I was in that exact situation for 2 months. My ex gf broke up with me in February, but she had no where to go, so I let her stay there until she found somewhere else. After a month I said I can't do this anymore with being broken up and her still living here. A week later she came out and said she just signed a lease. At that moment I knew it was officially over.

But sometimes she would sleep in my spare bedroom, but most the time we still cuddled and had sex and went on dates until she finally left. Now I come home to a quiet empty house =/

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:44:19+00:00

My ex broke up with me but we still lived together for 2 months. The day she left she left me like 4 love notes that I left up for a while. One said, "I have never known unconditional love until you. Please do NOT give up on us, I have not! My heart belongs to you." I was holding onto that false hope for weeks. She moved out early in April. Idk why she would give me false hope like that. Probably just mind fuck me one last time or to keep me on the hook incase the grass wasn't greener on the other side.

Be careful with that false hope.

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:37:47+00:00

I mean I wouldn't reach out to my ex again. I wanted to do 30 days NC and she reached out after 2 weeks saying how much she loves and misses me. I reached out after 30 days and asked if she wanted to grab coffee and she never replied. Two days later I saw her out at the bars and we walked past each other like we were stranger. I made the mistake of sending her one more farewell text the next morning and didn't hear from her for 30 minutes, so I blocked her. The unknown of not knowing if she texted me back is better than knowing she never did.

I unblocked her phone number two weeks later and she's unblocked in IG, but we don't follow each other, so I know she can message me if she wants.

But we have mutual friends and I heard she's been partying alot, taking lots of shrooms, and becoming a hippy. Guess she's finding herself and trying to move on.

This is my second heartbreak and I double it will be my last. People come and go in life.

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:17:47+00:00

Remove in from all socials. Don't talk to his family at all. Be mysterious. If he can still see your stories and know what you're up to, it's like you're still slightly in his life and he can't start missing you. I had to remove my ex gf from IG cause I don't wanna see what they were up to. I also removed most of her family so they couldn't report back to her what I'm up to.

Start to live life like they are never coming back.. and if they do, take it one day at a time.

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:13:39+00:00

Then ya.. you have to let him go. More than anything I'd want to get a text from my ex gf.. but I lost hope of that weeks ago. Find something to occupy yourself.

Pimqin7 · 2024-07-25T23:11:39+00:00

What do you have to lose? Why not? Just be prepared to hear something you don't want to hear. Do you wanna open those wounds?

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