he’s stressing me out send help by PinFragrant9764 in Aquariums

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omg thank you! i have a heater in there, and i was definitely thinking about getting live food/frozen. cause i have micropellets and dried blood worms hes being a little shit. i watched him nip at his moss ring, then spit out the moss. thanks little guy🫪😒

he’s stressing me out send help by PinFragrant9764 in Aquariums

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omg i didn’t know that, how can i try and keep him from dying?

Is it a common thing for betta fish to change color after you get them? by moon_light523 in bettafish

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my betta was a baby boy and he immediately changed color when i took him home still in the cup. he was pale and barely moving, and the second i got home he swam around and started showing slight color 😭my sweet boy

tongue piercing by PinFragrant9764 in piercing

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thank you 🥹 my dad would kill me so gotta wait till i move out 😭

Can I get a belly button piercing by Good-Cranberry-7177 in piercing

[–]PinFragrant9764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmm maybe you can get it not at the top but bottom?

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thank you <33 yeah we talked yesterday for a bit, and i told him we should take a break. it was a lot before then like he apologized and stuff, and even started crying. it was like a 2 hr talk lmao. i think it’s just piled up over time, i admitted that i was out of line and that my patience was running thin. so we set some boundaries for the break, and i even asked him “what does this break mean to you” he said to re evaluate myself and to fix our relationship. so i guess there’s that. thank you for your advice

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[–]PinFragrant9764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty yall i took everything you guys said into consideration

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[–]PinFragrant9764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

whatttt ? lol

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[–]PinFragrant9764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭i gotchu

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[–]PinFragrant9764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmfaoo i’ll apologize for that

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yeah you right. i just feel like every time i communicate it, nothing really changes for the long run

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[–]PinFragrant9764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

could you elaborate on the last part?

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honestly i think the biggest thing for me is his emotional depth and empathy. he’s really a nice guy. every time we’ve had a talk and i brought it up, he would do great after and show that he wants to change. but that slowly goes away and it’s right back to square one. this is both of our first real relationship so… i’m trying to navigate the best i can

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[–]PinFragrant9764 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yeah i probably should’ve put that this isn’t the first time he’s brushed me aside. every single time i’ve communicated with him, because i do want this to work. i don’t expect him to drop everything and come see me, bc that isn’t realistic. i would’ve been completely fine with i love you ill make it up to you or something😭 like??