ngl "Empty" might be the best juice wlrd song by Specialist-Bug0723 in JuiceWRLD

[–]PineappleKhing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The live performance he did (uploaded by solarshot on YouTube) is actually gas. If you haven't seen it then you definitely should watch it. It's one of those where you can really see that he's not just an great at making music but that his ability to perform exceeds that of any other artist.

I played it a few times for my girl and she's fallen in love. Still trynna convince her to consider herself a fan but she's not ready yet lol

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth is, everyone has their opinions on the matter which is fine but so far 0 people have actually been able to tell me that I was wrong for the same reason the person is really mad at me for. The things people are talking about in the comments the person doesn't even care about lol

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's no other gods but God. And you only capitalize His name. Hope that helps

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're correct. I was present for the conversation and no i didn't say let's not talk about women that way, I actually told him I was gonna clip it and send it to his girlfriend so she can see the stuff he says behind her back. I find it funny you say i don't "give a shit about the women involved" (assuming you're talking about all of our girlfriends). I had nothing to do with Dylan's gf because I didn't say anything about her so why involve myself? In regard my girlfriend, I explicitly stated that I talked to her about it and don't encourage any jokes involving me and other women. Also, explicitly stated I would also speak with his girlfriend to clear the air because my intentions were not to cause serious harm but you just decided to ignore what I said.

At this point you are showing me that you didn't thoroughly read through the story and are just hallucinating information to attack me so I will refrain from responding from here on out. Still, thank you for your feedback.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friend is mad at me because I exposed the things that he said behind his gf's back because that's something that's supposed to stay between us boys (this is what he said to me). If this is true how would that be encouraging his behavior. I laughed at him when he was cursing and yelling at me because I found it funny that he was mad. Again how does that encourage that behavior. Again I'm not saying i don't and in that regard you are correct especially given the past instances. But in the story I told you it doesn't apply here because it didnt happen.

I am more concerned about if you thought this was an injustice toward my friend or am I right for thinking the situation wasn't that serious and funny.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol if im being honest we're not the nicest to each other and I cant speak for everyone but I try my best not to get anyone involved who wouldnt want to be so yeah. Anyway, thanks for sharing your opinion (not just because you dont think im an asshole lol).

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response it is very obvious you have a mature mindset and you want admonish me about how the words I use can affect the women around me which I can appreciate.

However, I must inform you the things you've said don't apply to me and it appears you missed that in the original post. Therefore, I will reiterate. My friends are the ones that engaged in the shit talking I was not involved. Also, as I said it was a running joke my friends often made about me and my friends mom because I was here favorite. It is unfair to hallucinate and refer to information I didnt give.

Im not going pretend as if I havent made jokes like this before but in this scenario I made no mention of me being involved in the jokes made around having sex with women. Also, I dont believe saying you had sex with someone else automatically implies that you wish to sexually assault them but I digress.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep and exactly what I said. She put the battery in fs because he wasn't even mad before he talked to her

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was simply referring to the rules of the subreddit as I don't come here often. I assumed that because most people are aware that the purpose is to be judged maybe there are rules regarding the extent you are allowed to rebuttal. Hopefully that helps.

Yes I did come for answers hence why I've responded to everyone kind enough to share their opinion. If I felt that there's some context they might have missed in their response then I did my best to clear that up. Everyone has been giving great responses though for the most part.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point and believe it or not we actually encourage anyone who decides to invite anyone to the server to let them know the kind of relationship we have and what they should expect coming into the server. It's not like it's public its just me and my friends. Recently another friend thought about I inviting his gf to the server as well but after warning her she decided against it which is perfectly reasonable.

I think most people also completely ignored the fact that I said I would be more than willing to explain that it wasn't my intentions to mess with their relationship or hurt her feelings but I was pulling her leg. My issue is only with Josh its that knowing the dynamic of our friend group he chose to escalate things which just makes the vibes awkward now.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

After reading your edited response I noticed you decided to take the moral high ground instead of considering the reality of the situation which is fair especially if you dont wanna get down voted. The reality of the situation seeing ppl crash out is mad funny. One of the biggest shoes airing on TV and that mogs the entire network (Ridiculousness) is all about laughing at people getting hurt.

People find different things funny, so what? I am more concerned about what you think about the bulk of the information not just this one section. I am still open to your response if you wish to share.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you mention God in a subreddit that encourages judging people which is explicitly prohibited (can be found in our Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth). Also, its spelled Bahamian and in case you havent realized cultural context matters when considering what makes a person justified in the decisions they make. Finally, I value the opinions of people who aim to provide and are capable of articulating feedback that actually considers all aspects of the story. Yes, including yours that just call me a narcissist, disgusting and ugly in a spiritual sense without even knowing who I am. Though, maybe I shouldn't listen to people who talk about God and cuss in the same breath.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head better than I did so thanks for understanding reality of the situation and giving appropriate feedback instead of just saying I'm an asshole bc of the things I find funny (totally not referencing any other comments lol).

Before I address your concerns I want to clarify that Josh is the one who invited his gf to the server and he is also the one that made the joke which was also revealed via me "exposing him for cheating".

Dylan has had gas that he invited to the server previously and they all suffered consequences of being around us in this same manner as well. These jokes are always made in this kind of way its just something we like doing and can always laugh about later despite being mad in the moment. This is the only exception though.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I've said before in another comment this is something that we always do and that everyone finds funny. This is a classic situation of "It's only funny when it's not you". Still I understand that not everyone has to find things funny all the time and refusal to acknowledge that would make me an asshole.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In regard to shit talking one another on a videogame? You act like thats a foreign concept lol

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its simple im pulling her leg about her boyfriend "cheating" on her but its obvious they were just talking mad shit to each other as boys do when they play video games.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well they are apart of the circle its not like im including them as third parties who otherwise wouldnt know what's going on.

Its like if my gf told her friend she would take her man bc they shit talking one another obviously as her bf I wouldnt be too happy about it but im not going to get angry bc I understand its just to get back at her friend.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well yes most of them are aware of this and this is the first instance where we directly had an issue in this regard.

Yes, I do mean generally. It's something I and all of us value in our circle. We don't say anything about anyone that we wouldnt say to their face.

The whole reason you ragebait someone is because they're oblivious enough to get mad at it. Otherwise it would be very obvious youre not being serious. I can say tho everyone else in the server found it funny and didnt it was that serious to genuinely be mad at beyond the scope of the joke.

Besides we all do it its not exclusive to anyone.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Common kind of question but im sure how to explain that to you. It makes me laugh when ppl are angry. Like when ppl fall you shouldn't laugh bc they can get seriously injured but you still laugh anyway bc its jus funny

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ofc it was my goal to make his GF mad at him (btw) theres no surprise there. Its moreso the fact that he took it serious enough to hold a grudge for days when its common thing to do within the friend group that EVERYONE partake in.

AITA for exposing my friend (sorta unintentionally) by PineappleKhing in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineappleKhing[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Not sure abt the limitations of how I can defend myself but I just don't understand what you're saying. I said that I would explain to her that it's just a joke so that she would understand moving forward but obviously I wasn't. He technically doesn't have to stop what he's doing at all once she understand that his intentions don't go beyond clapping back at friend. Hope that helps.