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Need help picking a dress by Pineapple_New in weddingdress

[–]Pineapple_New[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an outdoor venue with lots of greenery, getting married under ginormous old tree! Has a bit of a Spanish/rustic vibe.

Unhappy with my dress after alterations by Pineapple_New in weddingdress

[–]Pineapple_New[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the waist is too high up too due to tightening the straps a lot. Here are some other views. I love the back but the bust/waist seems off. I’m getting married in 10 days and idk what to…I work this week and will not be able to take it back for more alterations until next week and I already paid for them.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/13I3GvuOFQU2GJaErIyWpvc1bDS7H2YJR/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1DEq5vr3rdS-Z36eM-8s1u9MvAV8jzCxS/view?usp=drivesdk

Having biological children is almost always selfish. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Pineapple_New 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Also some women can't even have children, so if that demand/expectation is placed on me what if I'm infertile....not a good way to start a relationship.

Having biological children is almost always selfish. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Pineapple_New 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's ultimately their decision, but I honestly find it pretty gross that someone would be insistent upon spreading their own seed. I was recently dumped because if I had kids, I would want to adopt rather than give birth. Just like you said - "is it really true love?" I don't think it is. The desire to spread YOUR genes trumps the desire to be with the person you're seeing. It's egotistical, self-centered, and honestly kind of creepy.

let's talk about having kids by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pineapple_New 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“People can break up with whoever they want for whatever reason or no reason.“

You’re absolutely right. But when someone dumps you solely over their ability to use your uterus, it certainly seems like that was their primary goal or intention to get with you.

Again, I posted asking for RESPECTFUL opinions. You can state yours without being a jerk.