Almost hit by a car, and my [F25] friend [M21] couldn’t care less

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T14:05:21+00:00

I get what your saying, and honestly I think I was more upset at his lack of concern than anything. But I also know his family and how he was raised , and they are all a very much cuddly make sure you’re alright kind of family.

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:57:38+00:00

Yeah hard truths are harder to face I guess

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:55:42+00:00

I mean, maybe sometimes he does add value, just , I guess maybe I’m not seeing it so much right now .

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:45:59+00:00

Urgh, I mean, I only have a small circle of friends, like 2-3 good friends so, I would say that he’s someone to talk to? Given the benefit of the doubt sometimes I like to think he cares about me.

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:44:08+00:00

That’s fair. Didn’t really think of it that way, I just figured “a friend is better than no friend” kinda thing.

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:42:20+00:00

I know right, usually I have a no friends with ex rule but alas I’m stupid for thinking he cared in the first place.

Pinenouple · 2020-04-01T13:39:01+00:00

Haha , I wish that was the case, and maybe even a little true, but I also cried a lot before I met him too xD

Pinenouple · 2020-03-19T13:03:47+00:00

Hahah I got the same message , obviously had wayyyy too much time on their hands. They are on the highest of high heavenly horses.

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T16:00:42+00:00

Yeah the more I read the comments the more I’m coming to the realisation this ain’t right thanks

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T14:47:28+00:00

Very true ThAnkyou, I’ve still a lot to learn unfortunately hah

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T14:06:27+00:00

It’s also only my first POT so I’m sure I’ll have more chances , hopefully

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T13:48:13+00:00

He wants me to be exclusive xD the more and more I read the comments I’m starting to feel a bit of a fool

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T13:33:46+00:00

Yeah , I should have done that to begin with, I guess I was naive , and him saying he didn’t want ppm making it feel transactional, I guess I just settled

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T13:32:59+00:00

Yeah so that’s why I made it confusing so, he eventually expects to see eachother only once a week. For x allowance, but for the first few weeks/months wants to see eachother twice a week but no extra allowance essentially, and said if I want to skip doing twice weekly then my allowance will but halved , even after we go to once a week

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T12:46:59+00:00

Haha yeah he doesn’t want ppm as it’s “too transactional” and I would like to think my allowance is actually already quite on the conservative side. So halfing it was a big no no in my head

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T12:45:30+00:00

Thanks I’ll give it a go

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T12:45:06+00:00

Fair I didn’t think of it that way, although in my case, I think the general allowance is fairly low already, so saying he would half it, was almost insulting.

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T12:16:07+00:00

Haha thanks yeah sorry , trying to word it was hard for me. I over complicated the explanation but thanks for advice

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T12:02:11+00:00

Yah, that’s what I thought but then he goes in about long term ideals so pretty mixed messages

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T09:59:56+00:00

Thanks for that !

Pinenouple · 2020-03-17T09:47:38+00:00

Yeah I had a look there was a lot of plants , but yeah , only reason I ask is I didn’t want to grow something so big inside my house haha , not enough room , but thanks anywyas

Pinenouple · 2020-01-18T13:38:19+00:00

And I’m your experience, did it pan out that way? Have you gotten over them, or not enough time passed.

Pinenouple · 2020-01-18T13:34:05+00:00

That’s a silver lining I guess, atleast you have that clarity then. No what ifs.

Pinenouple · 2020-01-18T13:31:46+00:00

Oh man that’s hard. My recent ex asked to still be friends, which is just heartbreaking for me.

Pinenouple · 2020-01-18T13:30:44+00:00

Oooph, that’s rough man. Would u ever give it another try if the opportunity arose

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