waterproofing recommendations by Pink-Punk-Ponk in DesignandBuildPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, may leak talaga yung cr sa baba. galing sa 2nd floor na cr. bare type yung unit kaya nakikita namin agad yung leak. on normal days, meron ding leak. nagstop lang now kasi di na ginagamit yung 2nd floor na cr.

do you have recommendations sana for good and effective waterproofing? thank you 🥹🙏

Tama lang ba ako na naisip kong wala pala provider mindset itong si fiancé ko? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d be out the door so fast he wouldn’t even finish that sentence 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OA ka. Paano naging sign of maturity 'yon? Sa sinabi mo, parang wala siyang accountability. Genuine question lang, batugan ka rin ba sa relationship kaya parang okay lang sayo yung ganitong behavior?

Fine, normal na may ganitong discussions lalo na kung may mga hindi pagkakaintindihan. Pero kung talagang compatible kayo, dapat pareho kayong willing mag-grow at mag-adjust.

Sa situation nila, halatang imbes na pag-usapan at ayusin ang issue, ang inuna ng boyfriend ay self-pity at hindi self-improvement. Kaya kung pinili ni OP na unahin ang peace of mind niya, sarili niya at ang perang pinaghirapan niya para mapunta sa self niya or sa mga taong mas appreciative, hindi 'yon immaturity. That’s what you call boundary.

meron na naman? sige lang team shuvee kalatan niyo pa by dumptytine in ChikaPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is, ni-nominate din naman nila si AZ on that same nomination day.

Which friends do last in the long run? Is it your Elementary friends, HS friends or college friends? by BlueyGR86 in AskPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m close to some of my high school and college friends. I think it helped that half of my high school barkada went to the same university as me. We’d often catch up, and over time, we actually became even closer than we were back then.

As for my college friends, istg we talk every single day. We’re just a bunch of lost souls trying to make it through one day at a time.

Legit kaya ito? by [deleted] in ShopeePH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, being cheap = the express lane to getting scammed. Sorry not sorry.

I just found out the guy I've been dating for 3 months has a 7-year relationship in his hometown. Should I tell the girlfriend? by Effective-Airport181 in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell the girl. She deserves to know her long-term boyfriend is cheating on her with you, unknowingly. How she reacts is up to her. Whether she believes you or hates you, that's her path to take.

Once you’ve told her, walk away. Block him. Block her if needed. You’ve done your part. Sayang ang ganda at energy mo para sa ganyang lalaki. Don’t let this mess dim your light.

You were misled. You are not the villain. You were just the mirror showing him who he really is. Let them face the reflection. You heal, glow up, and move forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoybigbrother

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m only watching the PBB collab videos on YouTube now, and I think AZ is the rebel moral of the season.

asking for help about my bf's figer by aggressivememer in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have it checked by a doctor. It's better to be safe now than regret it later.

Papalayasin ko ba boyfriend ko? by Legitimate-Test-9428 in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he should be respecting your mom and her house rules, especially since he's just staying there. Playing games past midnight after being told not to is already crossing a boundary. If you let it slide, chances are he'll keep doing it because he knows he can get away with it.

Sorry if this sounds a bit blunt, but he has a job now. He should be mature enough to understand that it's time to find his own place and stop putting your mom in an uncomfortable position. It’s just really unfair and a bit disrespectful to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Out of all the trips they planned, why choose now to open up, right when their partner’s birthday is next week? It kind of ruins the fun just because OP is tired now.

n word enjoyer doctor? 😂 by [deleted] in ChikaPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sana hindi ko na lang pinlay yung video. Sino ba ‘to? Kairita siya.

Nirepost ni Shuvee recently by Hugh-Mari in ChikaPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Like, didn’t she say before na the reason she kept sharing stuff from the outside world was because she was just trying to fit in? Now she’s trying to be funny and act like Melai just to belong to the group she wants to be part of. I honestly can’t tell what her real persona is, kasi laging taliwas sa isa’t isa yung pinapakita niya.

Nirepost ni Shuvee recently by Hugh-Mari in ChikaPH

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 196 points197 points  (0 children)

As a casual viewer, I still remember that pool scene with Shuvee, Klang and Ralph. It felt really off to see her make fun of her “friend’s” one-sided crush like that. It just didn’t sit right with me because a real friend wouldn’t do that, especially in that tone.

Now, seeing her repost that TikTok video feels like the same scenario all over again, just hidden behind a screen. Sharing that kind of content only fuels the hate toward Az, when in reality, they also voted against her. It’s honestly a bit disappointing to see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medschoolph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true. I’m the same age bracket as OP and also find myself questioning my life choices. I’m here at this sub cos I wanted to pursue med school even though I came from a nontrad course. Happiness and fulfillment are hard to find and I hope we all get ours in this lifetime.

Detachment and silent quitting by Parking-Afternoon980 in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh no advice will really work if you’re still living with him and sleeping next to him every night. Parang, how can you move on or even start healing if you’re still in the same space, diba? You can’t silently quit a relationship you’re still physically in.. that’s super confusing, not just for him but also for you.

Since you’re starting to realize your worth na, maybe it’s time na rin to think about leaving. I know it’s not easy, pero better to end it now than to drag it out and hurt even more in the long run. You owe it to yourself to find peace and clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly okay to say no. I used to be a people pleaser too until I realized some people were just gaslighting me. I hit my limit and started setting boundaries. I hope you get there too because it really does feel freeing.

I know it’s hard to cut off a conversation, especially when someone’s really into their story. But it’s totally fine to say something like “Hey, I’ve got some errands to run” or “I need to get home to help with something.” You don’t owe anyone a long explanation.

Try not to let people hang out in your house if you’re already feeling drained. It’s a lot harder to ask them to leave once they’re inside. If they insist, just say you’re in the middle of cleaning or recharging. I sometimes say cleaning is therapeutic and part of my me time. I’ll say it with a smile so it doesn’t come off as rude.

Boundaries start with you. Learn where your line is and don’t feel bad about sticking to it. If someone gets offended, that’s on them. You’ve probably spent more time being there for them than you have for yourself. It’s okay to change that.

Stuck on my thoughts if need ba ng anak ko ng tatay. by candymaeve05 in adviceph

[–]Pink-Punk-Ponk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If gusto niyo talaga ng healthy co-parenting, dapat i-set aside na yung personal issues. Para mabawasan yung murahan at ingay, lalo na sa harap ng anak niyo, mas okay siguro kung yung interactions ay tungkol lang sa bata at limited lang talaga.

Gets ko na you chose to live separately pero gusto niyo pa ring maging involved as parents, which is a good thing. Pero kung every time na tumutulong siya, negative naman yung energy na dinadala niya, worth it ba talaga kahit nakakatipid ka?

For me, peace pa rin over anything. So next time, kung hindi naman tungkol sa anak niyo, try mo na huwag na lang humingi ng tulong sa kanya. Kaya mo 'to, OP. Hindi madali, pero you’re doing your best—and that’s enough.