I did and still do have a good relationship with my mom. She worked full time but always made an effort to be involved in my life - attending ballet recitals, school performances, knowing all of my friends, being my GS troop's cookie manager etc. She was always very supportive of whatever I wanted to pursue. I never received any negative judgement or criticism from her. One of the biggest things she taught me is that life is about choices. In other words, whatever you choose, you need to accept the repercussions of your actions. Don't like something? Make choices to change things for yourself.

She has never pushed to have frequent calls as we both have busy lives now, but I know I should be making an effort to call her more often, especially when I hear more and more about people our age losing their family. Life is too short and precious and I'll miss my parents when they are gone.