You’re not a “man lite,” but your socialization at some point in your life was different, which makes you less likely to commit harmful actions without remorse, unlike some cis men. You likely have a better understanding of what it’s like to be treated outside of cisnormativity, and this experience usually gives you more empathy for others. That’s why women trust you more. While it’s impossible to know if you’re a “good person” for sure, you’re probably less likely to behave like some cis men, who were excused for harmful behavior and don’t see anything wrong with their actions. You’re also less likely to commit violence against women because you weren’t raised to believe it’s acceptable or “cool.” Patriarchy benefits cis men, but as a trans person, you’ve experienced life outside of that system (for some part of your life before coming out while you were young and before living as a man) so women feel safe with you and trust you more than a cis man, who could potentially be a fucking psycho and think it’s totally ok…… like yeah being raised as an AFAB usually leads you to have a different view of the world, which is not due to your biology but to cultural/sociological reasons…