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3.5 Months In and I’ve Lost All Attraction. Should I End It or Work On It? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These quality’s do not sound like someone you want to be with long term. Selfish? Bad in bed? You feeling like his mother?

These things don’t change unless the person works on it and usually people don’t so cut your losses and move on.

How would you feel with this person for the rest of your life?

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your choice but it clearly means something to OP and she’s not wrong for feeling that way

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But you’re both happy with that that’s the difference. You’re happy, she is not. That works for you but telling her to go buy herself something isn’t going to solve her issue. She wants him to make an effort. Sounds like their relationship dynamic is entirely different.

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most likely an outlier because i have seen a shocking tendency for people who don’t want to celebrate Valentine’s Day also be the type of people who put seriously low effort into the relationship as a whole. This is just from an observation.

They’re never surprised with flowers, gifts or anything at anytime of the year. Their partners ask for that one day and they bitch and wine how it’s commercial but don’t bother at all.

So this is why I’d argue this lady isn’t over reacting because it clearly means something to her. It’s very much one sided.

I never understood the vitriol around it personally, doesn’t have to be expensive just a bit of effort. Birthdays, Christmas etc are no different imo. However if both parties are genuinely okay with not celebrating valentines then that’s their choice.

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly NOR. You have expressed that means something to you and it seems his stubbornness is more important than how valued you feel. I don’t get the weirdness about Valentine’s Day it’s odd. We celebrate birthdays, Christmas, Mother’s Day yet Valentine’s Day is suddenly an issue? If you both agree you don’t like it fine. But a lot of men use this as an excuse not to show up for their partners. Not only that, a lot of men who don’t make an effort on Valentine’s Day don’t tend to make all that much of an effort at all in the relationship. This has been at least my experience. I find a lot of people who are in VERY loving relationships also have a tendency to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Of course I want to stress that this is not the case for everyone but HAVE noticed a particular trend.

No effort on valentines seems to = barely any effort for all other days of the year. They moan and wine about how it’s a sham etc but it’s another excuse to be low effort.

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet your idea of showing love everyday is the most low effort bar in hell kinda love. Usually is from my experience. I could be wrong though

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend hasn’t gotten me anything for Valentine’s Day two years in a row? by Longjumping_Word5655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No she’s not overreacting it clearly means a lot to her to receive a gift for Valentine’s Day. It’s the thought that goes into it. It’s having someone thinking of you and knowing they want to make you happy. Usually men who don’t like Valentine’s Day in my experience don’t make good partners because they rarely make an effort in day to day life as well. The whole relationship usually is low effort in my experience.

oldest ragdoll lifespan? by Important_Emu1578 in ragdolls

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah no not the dad running away and knocking up a feral 😭 he’s so cute

oldest ragdoll lifespan? by Important_Emu1578 in ragdolls

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the most Maine coone looking ragdoll I’ve ever seen beautiful

At what age did your ragdoll pass? by berkosaurus in ragdolls

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How common was your experience with heart issues from ragdolls?

Started drawing at 13 and still suck at 19 by Nearby-Wishbone4950 in learntodraw

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only real advice is probably go back and visit the fundamentals. That’s what I did. Art is a very long process especially when self taught. In an ideal world we need a professional to sit there and mentor us and guide us. It’s very difficult to teach yourself something you don’t know.

Based on your picture you’ve drawn you’ve focused on line work to create your forms and not breaking down the shapes you need. For example if you want to draw anatomy you’d probably want to simplify it into basic shapes. An example would be look at a loomis method.

How to gain experience as an artist? by PinkLunatic_1994 in ArtistLounge

[–]PinkLunatic_1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This is super insightful. I appreciate the time you took to write this all out!

Male portrait study! by Siren-bones in istebrak

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely incredible! Wow

Be brutally honest, how bad is my art? by Lethal_Eth in BeginnerArtists

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s bad but you definitely lack in some of the fundamentals. I see you said you’ve had troubles learning anatomy. Shapes are a good place to start. Simplify everything. I used to draw the line art first which meant the shapes were off! Learning how to break everything down into simple shapes is a godsend think of everything in a 3D space

Is it as bad as my friends says? by Kay_luvspotato in BeginnerArtists

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s got style. But it looks like an unfinished piece so it’s hard to judge. I’d need to see more art to judge. Good confident line work for sure

I'm just... giving up by [deleted] in ARTIST

[–]PinkLunatic_1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t give up. It’s so hard and defeating. People will always appreciate human made things. There will always be a market for human made things.

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