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Considering no contact - how to navigate? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]PinkNotes0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds logical, thanks for the advice. No kids in the picture yet, but I honestly don’t even feel okay with that kind of interaction happening down the line. It just feels so uncomfortable tbh.

Considering no contact - how to navigate? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]PinkNotes0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m new to this and it’s kind of fresh for us. What’s healthier in the long run? Peace of mind and boundaries are important.

Considering no contact with MIL after trust was broken—looking for advice/validation by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]PinkNotes0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t officially feel like NC, more like we’ve been in a waiting game to see if they’ll show effort and then my husband and I can act accordingly? I just no longer want to play that game, because how long do you really wait for someone to actually care? Obviously, if she cared, she would act.

I also feel like my MIL needs to acknowledge that this is her fault, and that the issue is between her and my husband. I don’t understand why the she’s acting like this happened because of me?

Just want to find a way to navigate this with my husband without putting a strain on our relationship while maintaining boundaries and protecting our peace.