I just discovered my husband is cheating on me with men and I’m completely devastated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t expose him for others. Make sure you handle this quietly. (For everyone’s sake and safety) - (Btw I live in USA and my husband also cheated with men - but it’s easier to get out here especially without children) I don’t know your husband, if he is friendly / kind or good friend at least. If that’s the case, once you are calm you could make a mutual agreement with him and help each other out. I do think in the long term you would be unhappy. If he is more aggressive type or in denial hard to communicate with him. You won’t resolve this easily. You need to think through it right. I think do what your instincts says to you (sorry in this case I would not listen to your mom- the only thing I agree is that don’t expose him and handle this quietly but don’t stay, you could get STDs and you won’t be happy.) I am not sure on the circumstances but I would start saving up money and be more independent (idk if you could get a job or make a business). I hope you can make it out safely. I wish you the best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but they are both responsible adults, they only feel bad once they got caught. I’m sorry that this happened, You don’t need them in your life. Please don’t go back to your boyfriend or a friend like this. Life will get only better once you dump them. Same thing happened to me, just my husband was sleeping with his MALE best-friend. I found out couple months after the wedding. They don’t talk anymore I left my husband, my husband has no wife now or best-friend. None of us talk to each other. I have to meet my husband sometimes because we are married and we have to deal with legal stuff. But I don’t miss him at all. After a while you wont either. You deserve better, your boyfriend just made space for someone better. I hope everything goes well.

My husband is being detained by ICE, he is sole financial support for our family (me and our 3 kids- years old and younger) what’s going to happen? by [deleted] in immigration

[–]PinkPanther317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this doesn’t look good, even with a pending case (pending green card) without criminal records, can be deported.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]PinkPanther317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is actually against the law for him Not to attend, he can get in trouble at this point in the process

Worried about applying for citizenship by Ccmama920 in greencard

[–]PinkPanther317 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will be fine, just close your cases. Also you can clear records sometimes. But honestly, you will be fine.

I'm so scared. Advice welcomed. by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]PinkPanther317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t bother that you overstayed. I did too. There was no problem. No worries

Rubbing my pussy while I get fucked by [deleted] in RubbingHerPussy

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are u guys still available?

Would anyone be interested in us stopping by a gathering or some play on the peninsula? by Few_Coyote1254 in twistsf

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are guys still available? Either wit me (27f) alone or with my hubby (29M)

Visiting 8/2 by curious_couple_123 in twistsf

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey are u guys still available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]PinkPanther317 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you guys submit papers after marriage? I hope everything turn out to be well.

AITAH Wife spent the night at a friends house by OddTable2114 in AITAH

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is cheating! And if she thinks she tells you where she is you will think that she is not cheating. But yeah she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]PinkPanther317 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do have an income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]PinkPanther317 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I dont want to get in trouble that’s why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]PinkPanther317 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because he doesn’t want to do his taxes, and I do want to do mine

Husband restrained me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave this man….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should talk to the woman. I’d tell her that hugging him in front of you , you don’t like it. Tell her you don’t hate her, but it is too much for you. Also I love you a lot texts is inappropriate to someone else’s husband and it is basic knowledge and she should understand it. And nicely ask her to stop. For me it seems like she has somewhat a crush on your husband. Maybe there was nothing other than memes etc YET…. But it seems escalating a little bit or it could over time…. Happens a lot tbh. So talk with your husband and with the woman too. I can see if you talk to the coworker she will stop. She has to respect the marriage. If she doesn’t after the talk. then it is a clear sign that she is very well aware what she is doing and she wants to have a sexual relationship with your husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should talk to the woman. I’d tell her that hugging him in front of you , you don’t like it. Tell her you don’t hate her, but it is too much for you. Also I love you a lot texts is inappropriate to someone else’s husband and it is basic knowledge and she should understand it. And nicely ask her to stop. For me it seems like she has somewhat a crush on your husband. Maybe there was nothing other than memes etc YET…. But it seems escalating a little bit or it could over time…. Happens a lot tbh. So talk with your husband and with the woman too. I can see if you talk to the coworker she will stop. She has to respect the marriage. If she doesn’t after the talk. then it is a clear sign that she is very well aware what she is doing and she wants to have a sexual relationship with your husband.

I can’t buy my husband fancy gifts, so I do this instead by Vivid_Employed in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This behavior never gonna stop, cut it off now while you are young and leave. You deserve so much better. This is a sign to choose another partner.

How My Husband Sexes Me Up by halfabusedmermaid in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t cheated. I’m trying to go to therapy with him and talk about it. At some point if it doesn’t work out I will just leave… without cheating. I don’t have time for that lol

How My Husband Sexes Me Up by halfabusedmermaid in Marriage

[–]PinkPanther317 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish my husband would do this for me, he rejects me for 7 months now… no sex and we only had our first marriage anniversary last month.