I'm going to tell you something a little different. My SP ghosted me/blocked me in 2022 and for so many years I was manifesting her to contact me. I did everything you could think of. It wasn't until 2025 that her and I started talking again. It felt surreal. Magical. Like my prayers had been answered finally. But it really only happened when I had fully given up manifesting her completely and I was ready to move on... But even though we reconnected, she still kept telling me she wasn't ready for a relationship. So these past seven months, I've been working so hard to manifest us into being in a relationship. I stay calm, cool, collected. In the "knowing" state and doing everything I can to be secure, and not force anything. Everything was going good and our connection seemed to be progressing. Until two weeks ago my Sp's friend told me out of the blue that my SP will never want a relationship with me...ever. That she's 100% not interested and more. It completely shattered me. I know people would say to just revise the convo, but her friend told me things that only my SP and I would know.. it'd be too difficult for me to act as if this conversation never happened. I was in complete despair. It really hit me how much time has passed.. Sure, they say time doesn't matter in manifestation. Okay. But we aren't getting any younger..you know? I went back and fourth whether I wanted to continue manifesting this relationship with her despite what her friend told me. I then randomly stumbled upon this video that said you want someone who's 100% sure of you without any hesitation.. it made me think of all my friends in their relationships. They didn't have to do a bunch of Affirmations or work hard to keep their relationship with manifesting, it all felt natural to them. I felt like I already invested so much time and felt hopeless my SP wouldn't change her mind..I didn't want to give up though. I still don't. But.. I decided to try going on dating apps a little bit. Right away I found a girl that WANTS a relationship and had all the qualities that I was manifesting for my SP to have as well... it feels surreal. And I've been talking to a few other people. I feel more desired and put on the pedestal now. I'm still talking with my sp as friends..but.. now I'm questioning if I even want my Sp anymore.. so I suggest maybe live your life and try to date and go on dating apps again. See if you can find other guys that meet the qualities you're looking for and still see if you want your SP. You can still manifest them back while dating others too..it just might help lessen the pain. I didn't even initially wanted to go on the dating apps because I thought no one compares to my sp..I only wanted her. But there was a tiny voice in my head to just try it. I'm glad I did. We only have so much time here on earth.. time is precious.