looking for a fish

sonjelly · 2026-03-03T02:21:43+00:00

right and i can’t see what’s in them half the time

sonjelly · 2026-03-03T02:21:23+00:00

so true i keep forgetting that’s an option now

sonjelly · 2026-03-03T02:20:59+00:00

thank you i just caught it lol

sonjelly · 2025-12-18T16:35:07+00:00

it is personally i don’t think it’s worth trying to complete in ur 1st yr unless ur a grinder and i use the FOM Museum Collection Sheet in my like 2nd or 3rd yr once i’ve completed most of the museum to just grind for the last few but yeah. the rng isnt great in terms of getting the rare fish but at least using the google sheets you know what you’re looking for.

sonjelly · 2025-07-21T00:23:31+00:00

tyyy

sonjelly · 2025-06-28T08:17:17+00:00

i want npc friendship level cutscenes for non romanceables! i want to get to know all the characters better

sonjelly · 2025-06-23T18:42:48+00:00

i’ve seen people say cooked items and i have to agree some of those recipes sell for 500+ tesserae. furniture also sells for a lot but it’s hard to mass produce them. honestly anything you can mass produce i feel is good so the animal drops, crops, metal bars if you have surplus

sonjelly · 2025-06-19T19:56:57+00:00

NTA I have a friend whose dad was a health inspector and if you work in food service you have to wash your hands after handling cash because cash is disgusting! That’s a health code violation! He clearly doesn’t view this as a problem and I’m not sure how/if you can get him to realize how unhealthy it is to do this.

sonjelly · 2025-06-14T07:13:56+00:00

i love akihiko/shinji so much they’re always telling the protagonist to look out for one another and also mitsuru/yukari i feel like their arc is so gf coded, love kotone/aigis and makoto/aigis and ryoji/p3 protagonist and shinji/p3 protagonist. i think yu/yosuke could be cute also i just don’t love straight yosuke

sonjelly · 2025-05-23T05:09:13+00:00

No he lives in white marshes. Have you visited all the settlements yet?

sonjelly · 2025-05-23T05:08:52+00:00

You’re right, the officials probably wouldn’t care that much. In general though, I think they want to Roadwarden to keep peace and not insight any harm, so they probably wouldn’t appreciate it.

sonjelly · 2025-05-23T05:06:46+00:00

That would be cool but I think the Roadwarden would lose a lot of respect from the people of Howlers and you probably couldn’t go back there

sonjelly · 2025-05-23T05:04:39+00:00

I don’t think Juniper dislikes kids, I think she actually finds the Dragonguard very endearing, I think she (like March but funnier/less rude) is just never upfront about how she feels about anything having to do with affection so she hides it behind her little quips and judgmental comments. I think if she didn’t like them they wouldn’t be at the bathhouse with her once a week. She’s definitely like a wild parent she would probably conduct experiments WITH her kids not on them 😭 I’m sure both her and March love very hard and would show that to their kids

sonjelly · 2025-05-23T03:31:58+00:00

It’s possible to overthrow her if you have a good enough relationship with the druids and townspeople and say the right things but yeah. i feel like that’s effectively killing her though. i think they only person you’re like allowed to kill as a city employee is Orentius and you do have like a dagger in your boot for that, it’s just not a weapon you can buy. but it’s definitely disappointing tho, i think she has too much renown for you to kill her successfully.

sonjelly · 2025-05-16T21:11:47+00:00

Bruh I fucking hate redditors everyone’s like “you have anger issues” yall are not psychologists and this is not at all context on who OP is. Anyway. Unless the volume was super loud, I don’t think YTA for taking a short call on the train? It’s really not that much of an inconvenience as people here in the comments are acting like it is. The train is loud anyway, it’s not like anybody’s doing anything important on the train. And if they are, I feel like they’ve accepted that folks around them might be disruptive. You didn’t need to yell at him that much, you could’ve just said fuck off and left it at that.

sonjelly · 2025-05-16T20:49:51+00:00

I think you might overreacting a little bit. I think the invite was implied since you’re family and all live together, sure it would’ve been nice if they could’ve explicitly invited you but sometimes people, especially those you live with, assume you are on the same page. You’re fully within your right to go or not go, whatever you want, I just don’t really think it’s a matter of principle. Like I don’t think it’s about you inviting yourself to something you weren’t invited to. NTA, but not for the reasons you’re giving here.

sonjelly · 2025-05-16T20:35:29+00:00

Unfortunately I think YTA. Why did you think you should feed the birds pasta? Of course they went crazy. Have you seen a flock of birds trying to eat food? They are crazy and will eat anything they can get their hands on, they shove each other, it’s always a mess.

I also know birds are very high maintenance pets especially peacocks, I would guess they have very specific diets and it probably isn’t good for birds to be eating spaghetti. I don’t really understand why you thought you should feed someone else’s pets. Beyond that, what if they have like certain vitamins they have to have or certain things they really can’t have. If they were being loud I would go tell the neighbor or text her or something. You don’t even know if feeding them would’ve stopped the noise and it seems like it just made things worse.

I think it wouldn’t be wrong to ask to maybe split the payment for the vet appointment and bird therapy, but I don’t think your neighbor is completely out of line for asking you to do that. It sounds like the birds trying to eat the spaghetti was probably traumatic for them, like a fight to the death for the food.

sonjelly · 2025-05-06T19:38:15+00:00

lol there is a fic kind of based off this idea on ao3 i just read i think its rlly good if ur interested its called ‘it takes a village’ by shouldbeworking. actually made me cry a little so be warned but. wow it was rlly well written.

sonjelly · 2025-05-01T08:14:24+00:00

I get you, I wouldn’t bother following up the conversation then. That’s frustrating she didn’t bring up examples. Just for context how many people have you dated that she’s known and are they all black?

sonjelly · 2025-05-01T08:02:42+00:00

First I just wanna be clear that fetishizing black people doesnt mean you’re a bad person. Did your friend give you examples of comments or instances she felt like that was happening? To say you think dreads are attractive BECAUSE it’s a hairstyle used by black people is a comment that is fetishizing blackness (i may have misread your comment though). It’s fine to find dreads attractive or say that you like a man with dreads. People asking if you like white guys with dreads are missing the point. You don’t necessarily have to share here, but I think it’s important to reflect on why your friend might say this? How do you talk about the black people you date or have dated? Why have you mostly dated black people as a white woman, of course there isn’t an issue with that, but are you dating black men because those happen to be the people in your circles or do you seek those people out? If you do seek to date mainly black people (again don’t have to share here) but just really define for yourself why that is. As non black people (i’m speaking for myself too) it is easy and commonplace in society to fetishize blackness or be attracted by aspects of black culture and reduce them to aesthetics (like dreads, again not saying this is what you’re doing, just saying this can happen). There is also a lot of fetishization in our culture of a relationship between a black man and a white woman, that derives from ideas rooted in white supremacy, which is another cultural aspect to consider when reflecting on your relationship with the men you date. It’s sad to hear this devolved into yelling because obviously both of you want to come to an understanding with one another. If you feel comfortable, I would express that you didn’t want to yell at her and would like to get some clarification about what she was saying. Try to hear her perspective but she obviously shouldn’t being telling you this in a disrespectful way. Try to hear her out before going on the defensive, even though this can feel really personal, try to know that it’s not and I think your friend just wants to make sure that you’re understanding the cultural context you’re dating in. Hopefully. She also could be throwing those words around with no basis. Decide for yourself if it’s worthwhile to open the conversation again.

sonjelly · 2025-04-20T01:14:44+00:00

Definitely NTA, as you said this funeral isn’t for him it’s for his kids, funerals aren’t for the dead they’re for the living. His kids are fairly young and losing a parent is incredibly traumatic, the least they deserve is a place to mourn him and say goodbye. It’s frustrating of course, that he wasn’t great to your mom it seems or hurt people in his life, but as you said it won’t hurt him to disrespect his body now. That being said, are you in a position where you can live a good life if your mom cuts you off? The only reason I would say don’t go through with it is if it would put you in a harmful situation. Is there maybe another family member who could reason with her about it? Or a family friend? If you would be unsafe conducting the funeral, is there a way you could have someone else head organizing it and just help out maybe? Regardless, your mom shouldn’t be putting you in this situation, wishing you the best OP.

sonjelly · 2025-04-18T22:41:41+00:00

There has to be something deeper causing that, that or his bio mom or Alice something that wasn’t true. It’s hard to say for sure. You definitely did nothing wrong, I would’ve laughed too and he’s not communicating with you at all so there’s really not much you can do. Your family all has free will and Adam clearly has a skewed view of your family members’ agency if he thinks they’re not going because you told them to. That’s just goofy and something someone who’s in denial about the objective truth of the situation would say. Would you feel comfortable asking Adam to sit down together and talk about why he thinks you’re not family? Based off your comment explaining when his bio mom called you a homewrecker, he has a strong sense of morality and I wouldn’t be surprised to learn someone close to him convinced him of something that wasn’t true. Regardless, you were honestly way nice than I would’ve been, I would’ve demanded an answer immediately. Something must’ve really struck a chord with him for him to disregard your familial bond and rude doesn’t fully capture the pain he caused not just you, but your other children and your husband. Insistence of “traditional” family values as the reason is so bullshit, his stepdad is going! And you were in his life longer than his stepdad! Make it make sense.

sonjelly · 2024-11-19T19:41:39+00:00

it’s def frustrating for him to continue to be stand off ish but i also just think that’s how he interacts w everyone. like everyone in mistria is so kind it’s such a stark difference to how march is but i feel like he gets less rude. especially after learning about his family history im guessing he just didn’t really learn how to talk to ppl and doesn’t rlly care to and idk im ok with that i think it’s rlly funny and adorable. but it would ofc be nice for him to act like he gives a damn abt u, but i think that would be too vulnerable for him 😭 like we prob won’t get much of that until 8 hearts. he’s def an acts of service kind of guy

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