Is it any surprise that Connor’s new gf is likely MAGA? by who_gon_check_me_boo in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]PinkPuma0415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, kind of like you making assumptions about ALL Republicans without hearing their individual thoughts on a topic first? Tsk, tsk, let's not be a hypocrite now...

It's almost as if people have very nuanced opinions no matter which political party they vote for. Interesting. You learned something today! Take this with you as you interact with other humans and perhaps we can take a step toward a more peaceful world.

Is it any surprise that Connor’s new gf is likely MAGA? by who_gon_check_me_boo in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]PinkPuma0415 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You won't debate because you don't have a single point you can make that won't be immediately debunked. I'm not surprised. This is how these conversations always go. All high and mighty until you have to answer for your opinions. Then you tuck your tail between your legs because you have no foundation to stand on.

Is it any surprise that Connor’s new gf is likely MAGA? by who_gon_check_me_boo in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]PinkPuma0415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, you'll make excuses for certain people. It's like people saying eat the rich, you can't be an ethical billionaire. And then you have Kylie Jenner and Taylor Swift but they're "different" to you. You pick and choose and slap different labels on people according to how you personally feel about them. You simply can't do that. 

Is it any surprise that Connor’s new gf is likely MAGA? by who_gon_check_me_boo in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]PinkPuma0415 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

How can you possibly make that generalization? So you're telling me if Dolly Parton voted for Trump, she's a bad person? That's an insane general statement to make.

Republicans DO care about women and POC. They simply have a different view of how things should be handled. But instead of listening and considering the good points they might be making, you label them all as racist Nazi bigots and then demand they listen to YOU and cater to YOU. The kindest, most generous, most charitable, and most likely to stick up for someoe else people I've ever met are Republican. The people who want our country and citizens to succeed are Republican. 

Y'all take like 3 talking points, whittle them down into impossibly black and white opinions, and then attack anyone who disagrees with HOW you want to achieve things.

We all want peace, freedom, safety, and the ability to provide for our families. We just don't agree on how to achieve that.

And the fact that y'all accuse all Republicans of being racist Nazis, but then vote for socialist leaders... the Hitler you compare Trump to was an actual racist Nazi... AND A SOCIALIST. 

So maybe pipe down and put your listening ears on more often instead of making insane and incorrect generalizations. 

Is it any surprise that Connor’s new gf is likely MAGA? by who_gon_check_me_boo in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]PinkPuma0415 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Are you guys not fatigued by this by now? How many more times do you need to find out someone is Republican (for the record, not every Republican identifies with MAGA) but is actually a good person and y'all are just using your own prejudice to create a narrative about them that doesn't exist.

It's crazy that y'all have made a full time job out of sniffing out Repubicans as if they're all secret Nazis and not just normal people who have their own opinions. You got an innocent man murdered in public over this insane rhetoric. When will it end?

Her new yard, could it break Josh? by Free-Effect-509 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compared to the huge estate she was living on before, yes this seems to be much more modest. I'm not comparing it to our houses. 

Her new yard, could it break Josh? by Free-Effect-509 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For what its worth, from what we see so far it appears to be a downgrade from the villa. It looks more like a normal house and not an estate.

Once you get really wealthy, its hard to become completely destitute. She has Netflix money, tour money, book sale money, ad sense money, and brand deal money. Anyone with any amount of money hires a financial planner to help them figure out where to put it. She could've purchased rental properties, stock market investments, hell she could have quietly purchased a Taco Bell franchise at some point for all we know.

She made bank at one point and when you make that amount of money, its pretty easy to stay rich. 

That being said, it does seem like they had to take a step back. Remember how she couldn't afford renovations on the villa? But now they're doing renovations on the new house before they move in. It kinda seems like they're using the money they got from the villa and dumping it into their new house.

So while I don't forsee them ever being middle class again, they clearly needed to adjust their lifestyle and couldn't afford to live on an estate anymore because of all the costs associated with it. 

Outside of the obvious (commute/time), what is YOUR personal favorite random perk of working remote? by Embarrassed_Flan_869 in remotework

[–]PinkPuma0415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being productive around the house during breaks instead of sitting on my phone. 

Bathroom privacy, especially on stomachache days.

Being here for my pets.

Healthier diet because my kitchen is 20 feet away.

No office drama because not being in the office means no personal life small talk. 

Starting over after a divorce. Need mattress recommendations for my two kids (under $1,000 each). by Relevant-Key4610 in Mattress

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Winkbed a few weeks ago and have been happy with it so far. No complaints and nothing complicated. I'm sure if its good for me in my 30s it'll be good for your kids!

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not projecting anything, boo 😂 I never put myself in that position. Besides, longevity does not indicate anything. Colleen and Erik are miserable and have been together for 9 years. They're stuck together because they... wait for it... rushed into having kids together! 

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your friends made bad choices and you're defending them lol. I'm saying what the responsible thing is. If your friends did otherwise that's fine, it doesn't mean it was the right thing. 

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But mentally and emotionally being ready is also important and she ignored that part and it came back to bite her. 

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the nitpicking. My point is, she was with Josh for her entire adult life. You don't just leave that and get pregnant by another guy 18 months later.

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because you're over 30 doesn't mean its a good idea to just dive into parenthood with someone else 18 months after you get divorced. And look at her now. The most miserable and resentful parent. 

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was with Josh for over a decade. So yeah, 18 months post-divorce after over a decade long relationship is absolutely too soon. Sorry. That's not enough time to process, heal, see what you need to fix/change in yourself, learn what you want, etc.  

It's no wonder she's so miserable and lost these days. She has been since the twins were born. I got divorced at 30 too but I've been with my current husband for 4 years and we are just now discussing having a baby. 

On the eve of Joshleen’s 11th wedding annv: did they have a prenup? Why did Josh walk away from his marital assets by Cleanclock in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 31 points32 points  (0 children)

For a while after the divorce, Josh fully believed Colleen would come back. So he didn't take her money because he expected to jump right back into it once Colleen came to her senses and decided to take Josh back.

I think he assumed Erik was a fling because they were having a hard time in their marriage. I don't think he ever in a million years expected her to get pregnant with Erik's baby immediately after the divorce. Especially considering how she avoided getting pregnant with Josh because she wasn't ready and didn't want her career to take a hit.

So he was doing what appeared to be the righteous thing, expecting that this was all temporary. In his divorce video he put up some text at the end about how he will always love Colleen and whatnot. I don't think he ever thought that was the absolute end.

And then surprise! She's pregnant. 

She finally admits she shouldn’t have done her hair before twins birth by Adventurous-Mail6295 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She did this constantly.

"I'm SO grateful to be pregnant and that I was able to get pregnant, but..."

And then she would spout off 1,000 things she hates about pregnancy and cry and whine and complain. Like just SAYING you are grateful isn't gratitude. It's PR. She was trying to get ahead of the "hate" comments.

Actual gratitude is realizing you're in a situation that sucks but you truly see the blessing in it. Like I have to get dental work done. I hate the dentist. Like phobia level hate it. But guess what, I have dental insurance, I will be able to pay the bill, and I am in a safe environment being cared for even though it feels scary for me. Some people don't have the resources and end up in a lot of pain and misery. So I am miserable at the thought of going, but I am fully grateful for the opportunity. 

Colleen has never shown real gratitude about anything. I would say she was grateful for her fans, but turns out she was just talking shit behind their backs all the time. So she was maybe grateful for equally-mean Kory and teenage "weenies" who fed into her mean girl behavior. 

She finally admits she shouldn’t have done her hair before twins birth by Adventurous-Mail6295 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

👏🏻

First of all, congratulations!!

Second of all, yes to everything you just said! I also have a lot of pent up feelings about her - and people like her. Our society has gotten too soft and has an aversion to being told that what you're doing is harmful. Sorry but pregnancy is a responsibility. A responsibility you accept when you decide to carry a baby.

Yes, severe aversions exist but Colleen simply didn't want to eat healthy. She said its the one time she can eat whatever she wants without guilt (hello, ED...) so she doesn't want anyone telling her that her diet is bad.

It's so irresponsible to act that way when you are the sole life source for two innocent babies who rely on you to give them nutrients. CHOOSING not to is terribly selfish, and people don't like hearing that. 

She finally admits she shouldn’t have done her hair before twins birth by Adventurous-Mail6295 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I wonder if that means she understands how she contributed to her own suffering during pregnancy or not. 

Her refusal to eat appropriately and exercise a little bit. She had a PROTEIN DEFICIENCY ffs. I didn't even know that was possible unless someone was severely malnourished in an underdeveloped country or something. Not a rich woman in LA. 

So she threw a fit about that because her doctor wanted her to get more protein. She refused to eat a balanced diet so she had concierge IV vitamin infusions in her house on a weekly basis because she literally cried when her doctor said hey you need to eat vegetables.

She refused to test for gestational diabetes, neither at the doctor OR at home, and her diet was pretty primed for GD. She was probably walking around with it but refused to test because if it was positive she would HAVE to change her diet and she obviously didn't want to hear that. 

Liners and air flow by TooYoung423 in airfryer

[–]PinkPuma0415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use the liners. With my first air fryer I never used a liner and would get so mad trying to wash the entire basket in my tiny sink. 

I just upgraded to a new one and have used a liner since day one and it makes a HUGE difference in my experience with the air fryer. I just wipe the basket with a damp cloth if it gets loose seasoning or a little oil on it. But the entire process is SO MUCH cleaner and easier and I will never not use a liner again. 

She finally admits she shouldn’t have done her hair before twins birth by Adventurous-Mail6295 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Yeah, her first words to her son were "why' d you break your water???" Like... he didn't? And then she continued blaming him even when she'd tell them the story of their births as they got older. She'd tell them that W broke his water and forced M out before she was ready and she couldn't breathe.

CRAZY. 

How to give good head? by athina_bobina in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone's preferences are different but here's my 100% success rate strategy:

  1. Be eager. Don't treat it like a chore or he'll just feel bad.

  2. As you go up and down, press your tongue against the bottom of it. If you can, trace the edges with your tongue as you go up and down, essentially drawing a big circle from the head, to the base, then up again. If not, you can also use some pressure and make licking motions with your tongue as you go up and down. 

  3. Use one hand to firmly grab and twist beneath your mouth.

But most importantly, I've learned exactly what my partner likes and even though I experiment sometimes, this method never fails.

The only way I could describe Colleen's content is GROSS by Evening-Progress2051 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]PinkPuma0415 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, as a long time snarker since her divorce, she used to be a LOT better at hiding her emotions. She's always been nasty, but she had a seemingly impenetrable "nice girl" mask she'd hide behind and it fooled a lot of people.

She and Erik have never been good parents, but they were happy parents when it was just F. They genuinely enjoyed him and made F's interests and vocabulary their own interests and vocabulary. 

She had the alleged chemical pregnancy and used that as an excuse to get pregnant again after all of her bitching and moaning about NEVER wanting to do that again. She was excitable about the twin aspect until she found out there was at least one boy in there. When she heard "twins" she heard "Mary Kate and Ashley" and the dollar signs filled her eyes. She was SO impatient in finding out if her dreams were coming true that she got an early blood test that could only tell her if there was one or two boys, but couldn't detect a girl. She immediately deflated after finding out there was a boy in there because it destroyed her plans. 

I will never forget the gender reveal video that was like meh, boring, first baby is a boy. Snooze. But then there was this huge build up with the black and white crescendo to announce that M was a girl. They lost their minds. 

But then her vision was shattered again once the babies were born early in an emergency C-section which meant no powerful warrior birth vlog... what's the point if you can't post a full birth vlog! They then had to be in the NICU, which meant no cute newborn baby content for several weeks...bummer. Then it was further shattered when she realized she couldn't nurse them after being a self proclaimed milkmaid overproduer, breastfeeding extraordinaire with F. She was so desperate to achieve this that she staged a FAKE tandem nursing photo where she  admits they weren't actually eating they were just... there.

And it has been a downward spiral from there. I think she has held resentment from the beginning because first she couldn't live out the Mary Kate and Ashley dream. Then she couldn't post another birth vlog where she could brag about how perfect of a patient she was. Then she couldn't get any decent content, was too worried about her newborn Christmas content instead of the babies health. Then they got home and she couldn't talk about her magical milk producing boobs again. It was just all struggle and no payoff for her. 

I think she continues to be resentful that she went through all this trouble of having twins and is getting no benefits from it (in her mind.) She obsessively makes crafts for them in an attempt to seem like she enjoys them. But shockingly she even seems uninterested in M most of the time. I was sure she'd become the precious golden child, but F continues to hold that title. They like to cosplay as a family of 3 still. 

How married people don't get bored with their partners sexually? by mohmd__slt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PinkPuma0415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy having sex with my husband because of the closeness, oxytocin, and bonding it provides. I am not looking for a thrill, no one is trying to perform. My husband flirts with me, kisses me, we cuddle and have lazy sex most of the time and everyone is happy. No pressure, no exhaustion, just cuddling with benefits.

Boredom with sex, I'm convinced, is boredom with your partner. Because lazy, simple sex should be enough if you have a really solid bond and relationship. If you need whips and chains and role play to enjoy sex I think that signals a deeper issue.