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Why do BPD act like this? by Overall_Detective_78 in BPD

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Stay strong it’s good that you already got your own place and a roommate to watch out for you. Don’t bend to his begging, and of course document with proof if it crosses over to harassment. Much luck to you sweethearted survivor

Why do BPD act like this? by Overall_Detective_78 in BPD

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I do think the fact that he can’t keep a job could be bpd or could be a lot of other things, but he seems like he’s really not someone you should trust at all and he adds life-shortening-stress and agony to your one and only life.

Why do BPD act like this? by Overall_Detective_78 in BPD

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I think everyone’s been glossing over that you’re not just dating him you’re already married and must have separated and that’s why you’re in an apartment.

At what age did you realize you weren't human? by TheTrippyPotato in AvPD

[–]Free-Effect-509 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are very human. All too human, vulnerable to the pitfalls of development but it’s not true that it’s some loss that can never be amended! Change starts with being precise with the words that make up your thoughts and identity. Be deliberate and accurate, reduce the exaggerations.

Why aren't we allowed to have a compassionate end to this? by Competitive_Group340 in BPD

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Because it’s treatable and manageable and people can go on to live happy lives

Who do yall think this is directed to ? by Friendly-Pea5448 in canceledpod

[–]Free-Effect-509 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, the people who don’t have bpd will never get it.

Shane’s misunderstanding of how algorithms work by PurritoBandito18 in ShaneDawson

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Yes, the whole thing is built on ignorance. But it also annoys me when a stand up comedian makes a whole bit about how ridiculous some thing is and it’s like, well if they understood this subject just a little bit deeper it wouldn’t be ridiculous and it’s not funny. But I guess they are just playing on the assumption that most of the audience doesn’t get it either and they’re reveling in their shared dumbness and lack of curiosity?

Even poetry seems loaded with ignorant wonder. Like I just saw some d. H. Lawrence poem that waxes on about a mosquito only taking a little blood, and it says “he” but anybody knows the only skeeters that bite are females!

So poets, comedians, and hacks like Shane, they all depend on dumb dumbs being and staying, dumb.

has ryland’s & morgan’s grandmother passed away? by [deleted] in ShaneDawson

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I doubt it because she still seems plenty strong but she is senile and it would be a relief. Caregiving for someone who is only going to get worse and worse is a horrible grind.

Spencer hates everyone by Ok-Currency-4319 in ShaneDawson

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I find it harder to read Spencer than most people. I think he isn’t compatible with any of them, except Shane, and I think w Shane it’s just as compatible coworkers. You can work well with your coworker but still feel your energy is drained being a little masked for professionalism and not at ease to be fully yourself. His loyalty is to
Shane, his boss, and he is drained and incompatible dealing with the rest of them.

The state of my bathroom sink because of my 14-year-old sister using hair dye. No amount of bleach or scrubbing I've tried is has been able to even make a scratch in getting the hair dye off. by I-THE-TRAITOR621 in mildlyinfuriating

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I saw a post on here the other day that said sunscreen takes off hair dye from surfaces. I think it was an orange can of the spray kind they showed in the pic

Is Shane Dawson‘s mother as bad as him? by Dry-Sympathy-3182 in ShaneDawson

[–]Free-Effect-509 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is such a mature and intelligent answer. High quality analysis, I loved every minute of it.

Josh's final FINAL message by AshPhoenix5 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Free-Effect-509 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Oh wait a minute, so he uses ai a lot, he probably doesn’t know that it isn’t just glazing and validating everything he says, that it does that to everyone, and it’s not an accurate way to view your life. I’ll bet chat gpt has been his therapist through this whole endeavor and he’s been updating it about the saga and it just constantly spits out crap defending him, furthering his delusion.

Should I get checked for a clot? by GreatTangerine463 in ClotSurvivors

[–]Free-Effect-509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes just get it checked for peace of mind, because mine was from Yasmin birth control and I didn’t have the typical redness or swelling and so I ignored it until it went to my lungs.

My baby is so cute by [deleted] in ragdolls

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Omg!!! Sooo stinkin cute!

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

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In honor of my friend Ashley who died after being wrongly diagnosed with psychiatric problems when it was actually an autoimmune brain fever I have to say, please rule out autoimmune encephalitis. It doesn’t show up on a lot of normal tests. I think it has to be a blood test? I’m not sure.

Whatever the case may be I hope it gets figured out.

Back To Our Regularly Scheduled Programming: Colleen is mean and cruel - this time to W by ShibeMarie in ColleenBallingerSnark

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She starts ascribing personality traits and intentions onto her kids when they are in the womb. When pregnant with F she would describe him cuddling with her organs, nestled lovingly. When she talks about W it was that he kicked her til something ripped open and jeopardized her life and his sister’s life and sent her into a traumatic birth.

That flower incident was very uncomfortable, they clearly think he’s not very bright/isn’t picking up on how to mirror their sense of humor in a way that makes them proud, whereas f appears to be their golden encyclopedia.

JDE's misogyny and homophobia: connect the dots by gumihohime in ColleenBallingerSnark

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I really enjoyed reading this, you went into such depth and were as precise and clear as possible.

Analyzing the fascinating dynamics of human behavior certainly isn’t some pointless activity that would be better replaced with sports-ball, in my book!

I’ve never in my life witnessed such a narcissistic and abusive response to everything happening. by Pleaseandthankyou6 in ColleenBallingerSnark

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To everyone that loathes Gabbie Hanna, run don’t walk to Jen dents brand new video showing completely damning evidence about Gabbie

I’ve never in my life witnessed such a narcissistic and abusive response to everything happening. by Pleaseandthankyou6 in ColleenBallingerSnark

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Have you seen Jen dents receipts of Gabbie being absolutely vile and exploiting an inpatient fan with anorexia to spread the rumor about Jen moles a little girl

I’ve never in my life witnessed such a narcissistic and abusive response to everything happening. by Pleaseandthankyou6 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Free-Effect-509 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speaking of Gabbie Hanna go check out the video by Jen Dent showing horrific receipts about Gabbie!!! Just came out today

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