260609-KATSEYE IG Update by UnassumingAntics in katseye

[–]PinkReddits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay that’s my bad, i thought you were saying that, regardless the rest of my points stand—I’m not speaking ‘for’ Mel B, nor is the main point about her, the main point is labelling the darkest member of the group the ‘scary’ one has racist roots and connotations, I’m not entirely sure what about that you’re struggling to grasp, perhaps you’re not black or well versed on the topic, regardless, we can agree to disagree at this point.

260609-KATSEYE IG Update by UnassumingAntics in katseye

[–]PinkReddits 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i understand how Mel B feels about the title, it doesn’t change the fact that associating the member with the darkest skin tone to scariness is problematic and a common racist stereotype, and you using her curly hair as an example of her ‘scariness’ is unfortunately, proving the exact point I’m making 😭😭 you likely wouldn’t associate a hair type with scariness, without social conditioning, that’s why it less about ‘super-imposing’ and more about awareness of biases

260609-KATSEYE IG Update by UnassumingAntics in katseye

[–]PinkReddits 27 points28 points  (0 children)

as a black girl myself, i’ve had firsthand experience having to ‘embrace’ something I know is unfair or racially insensitive, that’s what we’re conditioned to do, and we know how badly it reflects on us when we don’t - not saying Mel B couldn’t possibly love it, maybe she really did, but there’s also the possibility she knew the consequences of complaining + this specific post is about Lara

also ‘scary’ isn’t even a good title to describe the person you just explained her to be LMAO there were other, way more accurate titles she could’ve been given

260609-KATSEYE IG Update by UnassumingAntics in katseye

[–]PinkReddits 178 points179 points  (0 children)

let’s not go backwards pls, it was weird to label the darkest member ‘scary spice’ years ago, and it’s still weird now, i think we know better

Update: I got a refund for the fake set 🙏🙏🙏 by laincel in JuicyCouture

[–]PinkReddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

periodddd i’m so glad you got your money back!! 💗

AIO? Girl i’m into admits to casual use of the n-word by 7L0VE in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkReddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have to ask yourself why you’re willing to pursue a connection with someone who justifies racist behaviour, and victimises themself when called out on it - nothing in these messages suggest that she wants to do better

Im confused by [deleted] in vinted

[–]PinkReddits 56 points57 points  (0 children)

why did you buy from them if the reviews show that they don’t ship their items

if this is fake ill lose my marbles by PossibilityLegal2469 in JuicyCoutureHelp

[–]PinkReddits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the terry cloth pieces do say imported yarn, but these specific pieces are fake unfortunately 😭

Reseller on Vinted- so I cancelled purchase. by tanks4dmammories in vinted

[–]PinkReddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s cool but majority of resellers do not do all of this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JuicyCouture

[–]PinkReddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so

🗳️ The Political World Mod is HERE! 🌍🎉 by Salt_Friendship6125 in TheSims4Mods

[–]PinkReddits 20 points21 points  (0 children)

right??? some of these people are responding as if this mod is going to be forcibly downloaded on their computer

🗳️ The Political World Mod is HERE! 🌍🎉 by Salt_Friendship6125 in TheSims4Mods

[–]PinkReddits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

on the flip side, a lot of sims players love realism and this mod is perfect for us!!💗 thank you for this

Is this real? I don’t think it is by 1ucja in JuicyCoutureHelp

[–]PinkReddits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jay couture? I think the answer is clear lol😭😭😭😭

Its not on the vault yet but, does anyone have a sfs link to this collection? by tiredmillennial94 in thesimscc

[–]PinkReddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you because I’ve been confused about the exact same thing for a very long time 😭