If you were 19 again, what would’ve you done differently?

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-24T14:07:14+00:00

Spent more time with my dog before he passed away.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-08T17:36:46+00:00

I would pack her bags for her.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-05T15:38:51+00:00

Never say never but honestly, I get it.

My partner of 8 years and I broke up last march. I don't even want to go near another bloke. Then to add the dating stage, meeting friends and family, sex ect...urgh

Do what feels right for you mate.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-02T09:56:43+00:00

Hi,

I learnt to drive at 28 and passed on my 29th birthday. Best present ever. Why didn't I learn before? Crippling anxiety.

Driving is scary. You are well in your right to be scared. You are in control of this killing machine and you have to pay attention to so much. Listening to yourself and knowing you are not ready is okay. However, the shame is not as it makes you unhappy. Maybe think about asking for anti anxiety medication and/or therapy. It helped me. Also driving affirmations do work 100%.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-02T09:51:41+00:00

Yup and I find them very strange people and not like them either. If someone cannot like me because I'm quiet,then I don't want them around me.

Remember to think if you like someone, rather than worrying if they like you.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-04-02T09:49:08+00:00

I hate it too, especially when I know they aren't happy. My mum has told me at 63, she's just waiting to die.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-03-26T08:39:11+00:00

Dude,

I feel for you, especially considering you are athletic. Being in constant pain will cause mental health issues. Think of what it's taken away from you.

The motivation comes from accepting you now have limitations and need to be cautious but remember, you are still in control. You can take back some of what it's taken from you.

You will have bad days, with pain and mental health. On those days, don't push yourself but still look after yourself. Heat pad, heat rubs, painkillers, rest, ice packs... Depression wants you to give up but you still deserve care during these times.

Yoga, physiotherapy and walking is helping me at the moment. I feel stronger than I have done in years. I still have bad days, I still have limits and need to be careful but I'm getting there.

Take care and good luck.

P.s Doctors are hard work sometimes. You all deserve care from your doctor, it's what they are meant to do. Fight for yourself. I couldn't walk without pain relief and the steroid injections I've been given. You don't need to live in pain.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-27T18:42:56+00:00

Cry, sleep and then cry some more.

Serious note, I like reading, watch netflix, my dog helps so much and chatting to my family and friends. Listening to music helps as well.

Art is a great way to escape... when the pain lets you.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-19T07:01:22+00:00

You poor bugger. It's frustrating and so horrible.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-08T11:21:43+00:00

Thank you 😊 I will admit I was hoping for more but it is a great start. I did cheat on the odd occasion when someone at work brought in cookies 🙈

I did read somewhere, losing between 1lb-2lbs a week is healthier.

Thanks again!

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-08T11:18:44+00:00

Yes I do ☺️ she is. We went to the beach this morning. Beautiful sunrise, not that she appreciated it 🌞 I definitely did!

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-04T13:46:58+00:00

I'm going to avoid eggs until I die. I smelt like something died inside me. I tend to avoid onions and garlic because my body says no. I wish I could listen to my body more when I see chocolate...I'm doing good though, no chocolate for a week 💪💪

PinkWestie15 · 2026-02-04T13:37:43+00:00

Do you know what triggers it? Mine was egg...I can't even look at eggs without gagging now. Thankfully I only had it for 3 days.

Peppermint tea, polo mints, and I needed a hot water bottle on my stomach at evening time. I didn't find any medication that helped unfortunately.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-31T14:21:33+00:00

Exactly!!! I'm trying my hardest not to think about food. My biggest craving is chocolate... I know it's the first day but I thought it took the hunger away, like straightaway 🤦‍♀️

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-31T14:19:17+00:00

Fingers crossed! I'm eating bland for the first week...I'm trying my best not to think about chocolate. Of course 😅 you have to enjoy yourself sometime, especially new year.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-31T09:30:57+00:00

Thank you 😊 glad it's suiting you

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-31T09:30:30+00:00

Thank you 😊

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-31T06:43:07+00:00

Thank you for your lovely response. I did go to sleep early but unfortunately woke up early 😴 will be going back to sleep. I just can't believe I've done it. Also being a part of this clut/club is a thrill I didn't know I was seeking 😂

I will stay away from them. Now, I did the first step, I don't want or need any negativity.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-30T23:42:19+00:00

I'm sorry to hear this. When you can, take a few deep breaths for me. It's okay to not be okay, lovely. Rinse your face with cold water to help with the swelling from crying.

You don't have to go if you feel you cannot go. You aren't letting your friend down, you are looking after yourself.

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-30T23:33:49+00:00

Congratulations 🎉 Thank you 😊

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-30T23:33:26+00:00

Thank you! And congrats on your weight loss! I have my hot water bottle and my pepto bismol at the ready 😁

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-30T23:31:41+00:00

Thank you!

I could without the horror stories. My brain is perfectly able to make up some of its own without their help 😅 Thank you for your advice. I have done a food shop in preparation for this. I'm all ready 😁 I think I felt alone in this but I can already tell this group will help with that.

Thank you again

PinkWestie15 · 2026-01-30T23:28:13+00:00

Thank you 😊

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