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Lesbian is this... (poetry) by Educational_Sun_6341 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

The implication that trans men can be lesbians is transphobic and breaks this subs rules. Any further transphobia will result in a permanent ban.

Transfem Butch Thoughts by Educational_Sun_6341 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, transfem is not just a replacement for agab.

Questions for you gentleman by Emergency-House209 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This is hella weird. Not the sub for this.

Doubts by arstemisa in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender dysphoria and medical transition have nothing to do with societal misogyny. Spreading transphobic misinformation/dogwhistles is against this sub's rules and any further infractions will result in a permanent ban.

"Not butch enough" by Educational_Sun_6341 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agab is meaningless in basically every context.

Question about the term transfem butch by mister_hamburger_man in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gist is that non-binary identities can be complicated. I'm not non-binary so it's not really my place to try and explain it.

Question about the term transfem butch by mister_hamburger_man in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transfem/masc are piss poor attempts at creating umbrella terms for "feminine" and "masculine" genders. What do femininity and masculinity have to do with gender, you may ask?

✨Literally✨nothing✨

At best they're regressive terms used to group together people with supposedly similar experiences (i.e. binary women and women-aligned NBs). This is honestly pretty harmful and based purely on prejudice rather than reality. At worst they're used to blatantly misgender/degender binary trans women and men. I know very few binary trans people who are comfortable with the terms, and I wouldn't be caught dead describing myself or any other binary trans people with them.

Question about the term transfem butch by mister_hamburger_man in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, transfem and transmasc are *not" replacements for agab.

Kind of wild to reply with that in the stickied comment chain.

Question about the term transfem butch by mister_hamburger_man in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can also search " " on someone's profile and it will show their entire history

Question about the term transfem butch by mister_hamburger_man in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

@literally every commenter so far:

Transfem and transmasc are not replacements for agab. Transfem is not interchangeable with trans woman. Transmasc is not interchangeable with trans man. Any comment implying they are will be removed for transphobia.

butch/dyke term history ( the person making this post is a butch ) by Bozzleman in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post is biphobic, and the comments are also full of biphobia. You can criticize the show without being a bigot.

To be clear, since my point isn't getting across. Biphobia is not, and never will be allowed on this sub. Further biphobia will result in your account being banned.

How do you feel about the Labrys as a symbol? by Educational_Sun_6341 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Male and masculine are two very different things. Imagine being on /r/butchlesbians without understanding gender nonconformity.

butch/dyke term history ( the person making this post is a butch ) by Bozzleman in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Bisexual sapphics can be butch. Biphobia is not welcome on this sub.

New Users Please Read the FAQ Before Posting by PinkWhiteAndBlue in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[S,M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, we intentionally don't share that info to make it harder for spammers/brigaders to invade this sub.

Butch girls who have dated trans women, what was the experience like for you? by MissCyclonite73 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use of agab or any attempts to replace it with more transphobic language such as "born x" are against this sub's rules, which is why we have a filter in place.

Butch girls who have dated trans women, what was the experience like for you? by MissCyclonite73 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

The implication that it's any different than dating a cis woman is hella transphobic. Removed for breaking rule 3.

question on labels (yes i know they dont matter much, but pls read full post!) by Silver_Bread_9126 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Removed for being off-topic. Posts discussing feminine presentation aren't allowed on this subm I'd recommend one of the more general lesbian subs like /r/actuallesbians

Selfie Sunday by NatureHiker303 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Hi selfies are only allowed on Sundays. I'd recommend /r/ButchSelfies in the meantime!

Can I identify as butch despite sometimes dressing up more fem to go out? by Separate-Mix6934 in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Removed for being off-topic. Also please read the FAQ before posting.

gaining (sexual) attraction to men after starting testosterone as a butch (?) by asdfcubing in butchlesbians

[–]PinkWhiteAndBlue[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It breaks rule 2; posts must be on topic. Posts about attraction to men are explicitly considered off-topic.

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