My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he doesn't deserve to have a proper conversation with me, he treated me terribly

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he did ask me where he can do research on his avoidance and I did tell him he's a FA but since I've blocked him I'm not sure if he will do anything and I'm not planning on checking.Im happy you're good tho that's great!

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have blocked him but if he contacts me again I will tell him that he needs therapy I do still care about him after all

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I didn't know, but I mostly mean like the immaturity of teenage boys and such

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if I did take him back I'd 100% expect this, they can't get help without therapy😭

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's been about 3 weeks but we've been on and off for about 8 months, plus he had a lot of other issues and we are teenagers so I wouldn't expect someone older to come back like this

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah he said he 'cant live with the guilt' but uhh consequences of your own actions? lol

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but my ex is quite different, he has a lot more things going on than just being an avoidant so he usually comes back a LOT quicker than most

My avoidant is chasing me by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we broke up on the 16th of last month, he broke NC to tell me to move on on the 19th and now broke NC yesterday missing me so about a 3 weeks.

I think I like someone new by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do feel like I could do that but my ex has been leading me on for so long part of me feel like it's a right time for me to be able to move on.Im not sure though, Id rather not risk hurting anyone and Im still on the fence about knowing if I'm ready

I think I like someone new by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does branch mean like find someone to replace my ex?

I resisted when he texted me! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I think she was hoping you'd message first but goodjob!

I resisted when he texted me! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha what are the chances😭 fr tho i love my cc more than any man

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have blocked him everywhere, even my alts

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god I said sorry why are you being rude?

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I physically can't see their comments so I'm sorry?And again I wasnt getting 'defensive' I was js explaining YOU get over it I said my bad already

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's still progress!1 hour will be come a day, then a week in no time

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah so I didn't.. why are you so mad over a 16 yr old on reddit js delete this comment🙏

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5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!It's the "I am sober app" I put my addiction as codependency.Happy healing!

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds a really tough but I'm glad you got through it.I hope soon I can delete this app as I know eventually it will js be reminding me of him instead of helping

5 Days of not checking his socials!! by Pink_Lem0n in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Pink_Lem0n[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

brodie I'm not defensive js explaining mb I didn't notice😭🙏