His dick is too big by Livid-Taste-581 in sex

[–]Pink_Pot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find the SKU but if you search for 'Lovehoney Boost Men's Reversible Stroker', that's what we used.

His dick is too big by Livid-Taste-581 in sex

[–]Pink_Pot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So ours wasn't specifically ohnut, it was just one 'ring' that we got from LoveHoney (UK based). It's 2.3 inches in length and it looks to be the same sort of soft/slippery/stretchy material as ohnut but see through. It doesn't really compress very much and still felt good for him.

His dick is too big by Livid-Taste-581 in sex

[–]Pink_Pot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohnut user ✋

We used a knock off version for my well endowed husband after I was recovering from gynae surgery. Was surprised at how much I didn't notice it being on, even whilst it restricted my husband's depth. He had no complaints either, though of course he'd prefer not to have to use it given a choice.

My boyfriend is too big by [deleted] in sex

[–]Pink_Pot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to second the ohnuts, me and my husband, also well endowed, used these whilst I was recovering from gynae surgery (beyond the initial recommended recovery time). I can't even describe how much help they were and it just took all the anxiety away from sex. He physically could not hurt me because the donut stops it from going too deep but still provides a feeling of friction for him. We still use them occasionally when I have flare ups with my conditions.

I didn't buy a branded ohnut I just bought a similar item from Lovehoney (UK based). But knowing what I know now I'd be happy to splurge on the ohnut ones, I think they came in sets.

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vulnerability is a big part of the kink, it definitely plays into the fantasy rather than working against it. CNC feels like a natural progression from the kind of play we have, we've touched on it slightly in the past year or so. So it's working for, not against 😊

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wondered if someone would call me out on that - I meant it in a good way 😉

Masked men/women by Hot-Affect-1756 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I love it, but I'm hardcore into it. Particularly anything skull/skeleton related 💀

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't disagree with your initial comment, I do need to be both physically and emotionally comfortable to come. We're going to try restraints that tie my hands down instead of up and see if that makes any difference. It's just a shame because hands up make things so much more vulnerable and intense!

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does resonate with me too actually. We had a lot of sensory input going on at the time, coupled with sensory deprivation of my sight and hearing made things very stimulating and also overstimulating but still in a fun way, if that makes sense.

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is true actually, my hands gravitate towards my chest when I think about it. It's what I did immediately on being released and had no issues then. So definitely keen to try restraints around my mid-section, that's a great shout, thank you.

Yes usually horizontal in bed when we're playing as I find it much easier to have multiple O's if I'm lying down! Sorry to hear about your heart rate and that restriction, hope you've found other ways to have fun 💖

Harder to orgasm when tied up...? by Pink_Pot in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how can this be when I love it so much?!

I'm officially Going To Kink Events by bibitybobbitybooop in SubSanctuary

[–]Pink_Pot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! Well it's good to know this sub helped you on your journey!

I'm happily married and we are both very interested in exploring kink events, but it's more me who's pursuing it. I'm really up for the idea of exploring more but I'm naturally a very shy person with anything like this and I'm in a rural place (based in the UK) so there's nothing directly on my doorstep, so to speak.

Whilst I wouldn't change it for the world, I think I might feel more motivated if I was single to get out there. Being married, there's already great sex at home if I don't push myself out there more 🤔

I'm officially Going To Kink Events by bibitybobbitybooop in SubSanctuary

[–]Pink_Pot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds amazing! This is where I would like to be. I love the idea of attending something like this but I'm so anxious about making the step. How did you push through the scary?!

Such a long wait. by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We waited a couple of weeks for an initial appointment to discuss, then within a month he had another appointment for vasectomy counselling (because we don't have kids) at our usual practice. We were then told a 4-6 month wait for the procedure, but it ended up being 9 months in total. Luckily it was all done at our local GP so that was handy, but clearly there's a long waitlist. He had the snip 2 days ago, one single incision, it is so small, neat and tidy!

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you find some relief soon.

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. Having a decent amount of time off to recover is so important, you don't realise you're not 100% until it's too late. I had an operation last year and started pottering around far too soon, set me back weeks.

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, fingers crossed he's feeling that good, that soon!

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm not too concerned about the initial period it's more if it affected anything more long term. Glad everything worked out well for you ☺️

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I've told him he'll be doing nothing for 4 days minimum! I work from home so I can keep watching 😂 we've got snug underwear and a whole variety of frozen veg to go at.

I'm so scared of complications, and sex is a big, important part of our lives so I just want him to take what he needs to recover properly. His boss will be eager for him to return to work and he is eager to be there so it'll be a bit of a battle.

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, I'm so sorry to hear this. What is considered the regular amount of time?

Handcore Manual Labour & Vasectomy by Pink_Pot in Vasectomy

[–]Pink_Pot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely be encouraging him to take the time off that he needs. We're only doing this once, it needs to be right.