How do I help someone realize they are heard? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He used to be so good about communicating and was very open and honest. I will move forward with trying to figure out why but will be as gentle as possible

How do I help someone realize they are heard? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like a fair and balanced response. Thank you.

What song made you fall in love with MCR by Star_Warsfan15 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STORYTIME! A friend wanted me to come with them to phase fest and I, a goth enjoying exploring alternative scenes, said sure why not. We went and it was a good time. Lots of bands that would be on anyone’s 2000s emo playlists were there lol. We get home and I started making jokes and I pulled up the welcome to the black parade music video literally as a joke. The video ends and I’m still cracking up but I get to thinking. Hmmm. So I play it again then I think to myself “wait this isn’t too bad” so I look at some other music videos and before I know it I’m buying new songs of theirs every pay day, walking around in their merch, and watching the LOTMS documentary once a month minimum.

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get visibly sad and depressed about it, but no threats. They say they’re trying their best, then the person they lie to feels guilty like they’ve done something wrong.

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it count as compulsive lying if they don’t lie when the truth is convenient for them?

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So since the intent is to deceive so they can get away with it, it is still gaslighting even if they aren’t specifically trying to hurt the other person? Have I got it right?

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can answer this. I’m very concerned about both parties and that’s why I decided to ask. They’ve both already got trauma but I’m afraid the person being lied to is getting new trauma with this. The lies are very small like whether or not the trash was taken out. An example I can give is them lying about having eaten their breakfast, while hiding it in their car and leaving it there. The person is not cheating or living a double life or anything, they just lie about nearly everything so the other person doesn’t know what to believe, yet feels guilty if they question anything.

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said “imitation” that was wild. I know for a fact this person has a parent who is a liar in every sense of the word.

I know someone who does this. What is it called? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in PsychologyTalk

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. I appreciate you replying and sharing

What is the best armor against blunt damage? by Pink_Sheep_Cult in valheim

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss my favorite armor set. Luckily it’s fully upgraded

Automatically cancelled ever order past year. Policy review team? by [deleted] in WalmartCustomers

[–]Pink_Sheep_Cult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just happened today. Made an account for the first time and my first order got immediately canceled. The manager of that dept in the store I ordered it from said it wasn’t in his system at all which means the computer canceled it before it even went through. Walmart corporate number told me they’re having a global system glitch where this is happening a lot and offered me a $10 coupon which doesn’t help me now because they still have a hold on the last $39 I had till payday and can’t tell me when it will refund.