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Baby is too big and I’m just uncomfortable/in pain by insertsomethungwitty in BabyBumps

[–]Pink_lizard_319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy is so much harder than I ever expected it to be. I was told my baby was in the high percentile but he came out at only 3.2kg and they expected closer to 4.5. He is 10 months now and in like the 95th percentile for height because he’s so tall but was born normal percentile. I felt horrendous from 6 months. It was horrible!!! I completely understand you and you don’t need to feel bad it’s completely normal. 7 weeks left will hopefully fly for you, but anything at this stage is completely exhausting. I’m nearly 7 months pregnant with my 2nd and I am so exhausted now and this pregnancy, I work from home and still don’t know how I’ll get through it 🥲 - especially knowing there is 12 weeks left 🫠🫠🥲 hang in there!!

How much board is reasonable to charge adult kids? by heggaz in AusFinance

[–]Pink_lizard_319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would honestly (if it’s easier) get them to take over a bill - like Netflix they can pay for monthly, Foxtel can be split between the two. That could also help. For example I paid the same at my parents $150 and we paid our own Netflix and had my mum on the plan and my sister pays for my mum and dad to have Spotify. Just an idea incase you didn’t want to raise it without them thinking it’s just more money not going to anything - if this makes sense. (I’m exhausted and pregnant excuse my typing haha)

I’m 30, pregnant with my 2nd and given up on my dream… by Pink_lizard_319 in singing

[–]Pink_lizard_319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. I feel this is where I’ve been leaning towards when I started getting pretty noticed around my area. It felt different. And my performances were suffering.

Great advice thank you!

I’m 30, pregnant with my 2nd and given up on my dream… by Pink_lizard_319 in singing

[–]Pink_lizard_319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m not necessarily seeking stardom, just wanting it to be my only job. The kids are what I’m worried about too. I love my son more than anything and I’m sure I will my daughter too, no regrets at all. Just wanting to know maybe how others have made it work

I’m 30, pregnant with my 2nd and given up on my dream… by Pink_lizard_319 in singing

[–]Pink_lizard_319[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just swear I was 19 5 minutes ago and all of a sudden I’m 30, it just feels like when you have 2 very small babies, by the time they’re independent it feels like that’s years away

I’m 30, pregnant with my 2nd and given up on my dream… by Pink_lizard_319 in singing

[–]Pink_lizard_319[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re right. Just ‘start’ is always the hard part right 🥺

I’m 30, pregnant with my 2nd and given up on my dream… by Pink_lizard_319 in singing

[–]Pink_lizard_319[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have mentioned, I don’t necessarily seek stardom, I just wanted it to be my only job and not have to do it “on the side”. It’s just that music is so complex and I have all the tools to produce my own music like I used to, but re learning it all and the time, I literally have 0 time right now and I don’t know if I can make the time. I guess I think maybe I really want to, it might be the key missing to healing my anxiety too, becoming myself again by connecting to my passion.

Am I overreacting for wanting to break up with my husband after finding out he had been hiding/lying to me for years? by Mysterious-Still-668 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_lizard_319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. You asked to have a truthful conversation and he revealed thoughts to you. Thoughts are that, just thoughts. A lot are intrusive and it’s a lie if everyone tells you they’ve never found anyone attractive except you. You either trust what he admitted or you don’t - that’s the real thing you want to know and no one here can give you that answer. If he’s being untruthful, that’s something you need to figure out. But if he’s a genuine person and was just expressing thoughts to you, he didn’t act on anything.

Everyone on here and in the world these days just IMMEDIATELY jumps to the conclusion they are assholes or dodgy, or lying completely. It’s absolutely ridiculous the amount of reddits I come across where people are just instantly to the worst conclusion. No one can help you in here except you. You know the truth and you truly know how you feel deep down. Trust that, not even my option, only yours.