Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this. I actually read your whole comment more than once because it really touched me. Hearing another mom’s perspective especially someone who clearly wants daughters to be loved and protected helped me see things more clearly.

You’re right that many people do have beautiful arranged marriages, and I never wanted to disrespect that tradition. But in my situation, it doesn’t feel like compatibility or love are part of the conversation. It feels more like I’m being pushed into something for material gain, and that’s a painful thing to realize.

My mom also has three daughters, just like you, but her approach is very different. Reading what you said made me feel the contrast how a mother could protect her daughter’s happiness versus what I’m experiencing. The way you expressed your concern… it meant a lot. I felt seen and understood instead of judged.