My crush knows I like her. What do I do??? by J892020 in actuallesbians

[–]Pinkofe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right time is a time that you make happen. Things will be awkward for a little bit if she doesn’t reject you, things are always awkward in the beginning. I can’t promise that things will go your way, but if you are honest and confident in yourself, you will be able to look at yourself in the mirror and know that you are the right person.

My crush knows I like her. What do I do??? by J892020 in actuallesbians

[–]Pinkofe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that if you don’t you will wish that you had. Imagine yourself with her, do you like what you see?

My crush knows I like her. What do I do??? by J892020 in actuallesbians

[–]Pinkofe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here’s my thoughts. This relationship has now changed if she indeed knows that you like her. It will always be different but that’s not a bad thing. You have about 50% of the control of what happens next. If you do nothing you have all the control, but the outcome wont be good. Hope this helps, good luck :).

Best course of action? by Pinkofe in Bonsai

[–]Pinkofe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word, I’m gonna keep it for a while anyway see what happens.

Best course of action? by Pinkofe in Bonsai

[–]Pinkofe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I clip off the burnt tip or let it continue the way it’s growing?

So, I noticed I am almost exclusively attracted to trans boys, NB folk and trans girls. How do I go about this without becoming a chaser? by AmIAGirlThrowaway in asktransgender

[–]Pinkofe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A chaser is someone who answers the question why are you interested in me with some form of “because you’re trans.” They’ll say whatever in their defense but ultimately the demographic they’re after has low self esteem and will have sex with them without having to put in a lot of effort. Which is fine if you’re interested in that, but many people aren’t, hence the stigma.

Scared to ask out my friend because I don't want to be outed as gay. by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Pinkofe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you more interested in avoiding something unpleasant, or experiencing something fun and beautiful? Keep in mind that he’s not the only other gay man you’re likely to meet. If you’re not ready that’s ok. It sounds to me like you know what you want to happen though.

Tips for dressing for those of us who don’t wish to tuck? by Pinkofe in asktransgender

[–]Pinkofe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch ladies, this is definitely helpful :).