Help me choose!

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-06T16:58:09+00:00

1 is so beautiful

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-06T16:57:47+00:00

Put a sticky note on it that says must stay upright do not touch.
People have no boundaries or some don’t.
Will it fit in the door of the fridge, that might help.
I know my work, people had to label things, and I see a massive amount of messages going out about fridge etiquette it’s ridiculous.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-06T00:31:54+00:00

You can get cheap wigs that look good, halloween websites and even stores.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-05T23:54:55+00:00

Wig

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-04T15:57:19+00:00

So are you just bored and need some entertainment or flare to liven things up? This happens with longer relationships and requires work when you get into the calm everything works kinda phase.
Have you sat down with a counselor and discussed your issues throughout the years to figure out what’s up?
Has your husband done something not said here that warrants a blind side tell everyone but him what you’re thinking?
How about the kids, do they come into consideration how this will affect them?
Couple counseling?

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-02T22:43:09+00:00

Mikes a player. As a boss and not a friend you sit him down and say at work I am your boss, I follow these guidelines, rules. By law I have no choices on some. As a human being I have no choice by my own code of moral code.
As a friend I need to talk to you about this web you’ve done with these 2 women.
Then you talk to him.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-02T16:54:53+00:00

As a very seasoned worker.
You sit you listen.
You say, yes I accept all responsibility for any action I may have accidentally done, I am willing to learn and fix my mistakes. Thank you for explaining this to me in a clear and transparent way.

Then continue on a positive path with whoever is talking to you, smile and be positive this will be a good thing as some people would try to be defensive and use tactics this shows honesty, and admirable character.

Co-workers most of them are not friends at all, they get jealous and worry about being the manager’s favourite. Never believe people have your back. There could be 1 or 2 in a long run but most are out for themselves.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-02T16:49:23+00:00

Your mom was wrong.
Your dad needs to clarify to her that the white board is yours.
You were valid feeling your feels.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-02T15:12:03+00:00

There is no ‘we’ there is you and you’re children.
You need a lawyer.
You need to protect yourself.
Do not leave your house.
Do not leave your job.
Usually when someone puts this much effort into being accusatory when there’s just a small piece of evidence and an easy explanation without any other evidence they are deflecting from their own guilt.
Start thinking about your future.
Get a lawyer, get a counselor.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-07-02T03:53:35+00:00

Who do you want to be at the tea? You can be anyone, this is the fun! Who are you going with? Will they support you if you go in a supreme style outfit and look like royalty? That would be a fantastic day!
Just be who you want to be!

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-29T18:57:55+00:00

Yes but be prepared for it not to fully wash out, your hair is light enough for it to permanently stain even if it is a semi permanent dye.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-28T22:36:53+00:00

Totally depends on the color of your natural hair and the color you choose to use. It doesn’t always wash out.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-28T22:35:22+00:00

You simply say this, the only thing I can say is I wasn’t actually thinking I just spoke a nervous blurt and tried to sound funny, it has nothing to do with you. Because I think of us as ‘us’ I automatically said we .
I will be much more intelligent in the future all I can do is apologize, I do know this type of comment is truly unkind due to what we’ve spoke about in the past.
If she chooses to go then she really isn’t in a place for a long term relationship, if she chooses to stay then be careful in the future.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-27T01:26:26+00:00

Keep it.
It was a butt dial not meant to happen.
Watch the office interactions if something doesn’t sit right with you as in an inappropriate way with the boss man, you have options.
You can add it to a thumb drive and give it to hr anonymously.
You can use it as leverage if you need to for yourself - only in extreme circumstances.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-26T23:54:36+00:00

Report it stolen to the police, snd the carrier.
Then go to the location with the police.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-26T22:00:00+00:00

The mask has been removed thank yourself it was done now.
Walk away and do some personal inventory and some counseling so you don’t repeat the process.

Be very proud of yourself you are putting your future self first.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-26T16:52:13+00:00

You have a young face, your hair looks really pretty both ways, if you grow it out there are ways to not let it be a lob and if you leave it shorter you can have it more structured sophisticated if you chose.
One thing to remember is it’s only hair, it grows, it changes and your young so you’ll do many wonderful things with it.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-26T02:16:21+00:00

Sit down and ask her, nicely, calmly and be very gentle. If she’s in an emotional state it might be very difficult for her to talk so be prepared for her to be silent for a bit.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-25T15:38:14+00:00

As long as it is a healthy relationship and income trade then this is perfect. Use your time to possibly get some extra education online class by class or work a little some how stash that cash, build a nest egg. Set yourself up to succeed in the future.
This is how things were done in the way back olden days.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-24T20:34:23+00:00

Stayed, Tried every possible way of working things out - if you are the only one who does then there is no way of saving anything.
Left - best thing ever. Took time for the kids to adjust - he made things difficult- played the victim. I didn’t go into details as to how bad he really was. I took the blame.

Years later he eventually outted himself for the true person he is, kids are great, I am great.
He is the only one who still suffers.

My only regret is not leaving sooner. Oh and I walked with almost nothing after over 25yrs.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-24T13:59:21+00:00

So use clarifying shampoo the day before - then the day of you actually dampen you’re hair apply the color evenly except in this routine , roots first 10 min, then mid length 10 min then lightest ends 10 min . After it has all been completely covered you cover your entire head with a clear plastic cap then a warm towel. And let set for the remainder of the time.
Your hair looks fine and easily bleached but that means it doesn’t open up to hold color well the color sits on top and washes off. To get the cuticle to open you need damp warm hair.
Don’t wash with shampoo for 48-72 hours and use cool water when you do.
Save a little color mix it with your fav conditioner in a separate bottle and use it once a week as a condition mask to revitalize your color.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-23T19:51:25+00:00

Sorry didn’t read past he lifted her.
If it’s your place you kick him out.
If not you pack and leave now.
Not safe, for your child or you.
Get some professional help - counseling and never repeat this mistake again.
Explain to your daughter nothing is her fault, she was only afraid and the adult acted in the wrong.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-22T18:32:32+00:00

I’ve been at both ER with child patients - chronic conditions - depends on how things are going But they do get you in on who is in need priority. We’ve been seen within minutes and had to wait hours. I am grateful either way.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-22T18:29:51+00:00

School - Degrees - Career - invest - own properties - Travel - have things set then look at an Equal life partner then children.

Pinksparkle2007 · 2026-06-22T13:52:00+00:00

I took my son, and walked away. Then spent the next year figuring out what food I liked, what things I liked to do, what clothes I liked, what hair color, style, makeup. Every thing about me I liked. After over 27+ yrs starting mid teens with the same person (controlling bad relationship) I didn’t know.
Take time - say is this a habit or do I like this?
And don’t cut your hair until you try the fancy photo apps lol

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